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BabyGT
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Hurts.
Posted: 08-22-07 15:28pm
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Well me and my boyfriend have been
together since we were 13 years old, i am
now 17 -- and back in december we had a
break up, had a different bf, he had a
different gf and we both had sex with each
of em -- well we got back together in
June! =] and its been great since..
but since then, when me and him have had
sex, i can't get "wet" -- and i dont know
what the problem is, everything feels
great but it doesnt happen. So instead of
that happening, we get his penis wet and
then there we go..
but afterwards everything burns and
hurts.. even when i have to go pee.
i dont know if this is an STD or if its
because we kind of "forcing" and me not
being wet?
please reply..
-- Shelly.
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-22-07 15:30pm
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you should try and use some lube
it may help!!!
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BabyGT
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Posted: 08-22-07 15:33pm
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i dont want to use lube though -- i just
want everything "natural" i guess you
could say...
is something wrong or is it just me not
being able to get wet?
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-22-07 15:35pm
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| BabyGT
wrote: | i dont want to use lube
though -- i just want everything "natural"
i guess you could say...
is something wrong or is it just me not
being able to get
wet? |
well sex should never hurt
the reason why you cant get wet is hard to
tell because im not a doctor
however i suggest you may want to try
foreplay before hand
like fingering,toys,oral etc which would
probably help ALOT
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BabyGT
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Posted: 08-22-07 15:37pm
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i was thinking abuot seeing a doctor..
but if im not wet -- and we just get his
dick wet -- is that the reason why its
hurting && why is burns when i pee
then??
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-22-07 15:41pm
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| BabyGT
wrote: | i was thinking abuot seeing
a doctor..
but if im not wet -- and we just get his
penis wet -- is that the reason why its
hurting && why is burns when i pee
then?? |
i dont know? im not sure why it would burn
like that? have either of you been tested
for STD's or anything?
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BabyGT
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Posted: 08-22-07 15:41pm
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no we havent
where should we go to get that done?
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 08-22-07 15:48pm
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What do you mean you get his penis wet?
Wet with what?
I don't really understand why you don't
want to use a store bought lubricant. It
might not be 100% natural, but neither is
dry and painful sex. So I don't see what
difference that would make. If you could
have pain-free sex for like $10, why not?
If a lubricant does not work, then
definitely talk to your ob-gyn about it.
Pain during sex is not normal.
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 08-22-07 15:48pm
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where should we go to get that
done? |
You can just go to your usual ob-gyn.
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Posted: 08-22-07 15:49pm
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| BabyGT
wrote: | no we havent
where should we go to get that
done? |
well i think you should go to a OBGYN to
get tested
just to be safe
you could have clamydia (sp?) and not even
know it
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BabyGT
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Posted: 08-22-07 15:51pm
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i mean wet by sucking on it and it getting
all wet -- i mean it works and all but
afterwards it just hurts, and burns when i
pee... and i dont know if its because [[ I
]] wasnt wet and we just did that..
i guess thats what im really asking
&& you dont think this could be an
STD do you?
a few times it does hurts afterwards
&& when i AM wet it doesnt hurt
afterwards
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Posted: 08-22-07 15:52pm
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| BabyGT
wrote: | i mean wet by sucking on it
and it getting all wet -- i mean it works
and all but afterwards it just hurts, and
burns when i pee... and i dont know if its
because [[ I ]] wasnt wet and we just did
that..
i guess thats what im really asking
&& you dont think this could be an
STD do you?
a few times it does hurts afterwards
&& when i AM wet it doesnt hurt
afterwards |
yes if it burns like that and neither of
you have been tested then it could be an
std or a uti infection
you need to get checked out though and so
does he
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Posted: 08-22-07 17:11pm
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Yeah, spit really isn't a good long-term
lubricant because it simply dries too
fast; that's one of the causes of your
pain. Another additional cause could be an
STD, so I'd definitely go to a local
women's clinic such as Planned Parenthood
and get a full Pap Smear done with STD
testing.
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Posted: 08-23-07 00:18am
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I always use lube because my natural
lubricant just usually isn't enough. And
if you are experiencing burning after-
that is definitely because of not enough
lube.
Just buy some!! I promise you'll love it.
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