how many of u girls have encountered
fordyce spots or sebaceous prominence
(bumps on the skin of penis or sac) and
what do you think about them? i want to
know how common they really are. im very
self conscious about my condition and
really need some reassurance
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Georgia59
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Posted: 08-23-07 15:31pm
I haven't but I've only had sex with one
guy (my hubby)
For me, as long as you told me what it was
and that it wasn't a disease, I'd be fine
with it.
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beanbag
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Joined: 22 Aug 2007 Posts: 17 Location: ghj
Posted: 09-04-07 04:34am
can someone please reply instead of jus
lookin at it and leavin it, im on the
verge of killin myself about this stuff
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-04-07 08:56am
beanbag
wrote:
can someone please medical
answer reply instead of jus lookin at it
and leavin it, im on the verge of killin
myself about this
stuff
Look, if they are fordyce's spots then
they're normal and there's nothing you can
do about them except learn to live with
them. No one else replied because you've
already got the only answer out there.
Some chicks are going to be shallow about
it; a girl just posted on here saying she
thinks her bf is lying about them.
Whatever; if she's that shallow she's not
worth your time.
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beanbag
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Joined: 22 Aug 2007 Posts: 17 Location: ghj
Posted: 09-04-07 20:16pm
ok well think bout this, iv got a gf rite
now, if i break up with her or the
relationship becomes a bit problematic and
we begin to dislike each other, things get
a bit hateful and she tells all her frends
about my problem. if i new she was gonna
do this, i wouldn of gone out with her in
the first place, some people rnt wot seem
to be. and may i ask if u have ever come
across a guy with fordyce spots? i would b
rather interested.
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 09-04-07 20:17pm
beanbag
wrote:
ok well think bout this, iv
got a gf rite now, if i break up with her
or the relationship becomes a bit
problematic and we begin to dislike each
other, things get a bit hateful and she
tells all her frends about my problem. if
i new she was gonna do this, i wouldn of
gone out with her in the first place, some
people rnt wot seem to be. and may i ask
if u have ever come across a guy with
fordyce spots? i would b rather
interested.
cant read you writing
type correctly so we can understand what
your saying
this is not AIM....
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beanbag
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Joined: 22 Aug 2007 Posts: 17 Location: ghj
Posted: 09-04-07 20:20pm
which bits dont u understand? i will
retype the ones u dont get for u
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-04-07 20:25pm
beanbag
wrote:
ok well think bout this, iv
got a gf rite now, if i break up with her
or the relationship becomes a bit
problematic and we begin to dislike each
other, things get a bit hateful and she
tells all her frends about my problem. if
i new she was gonna do this, i wouldn of
gone out with her in the first place, some
people rnt wot seem to be. and may i ask
if u have ever come across a guy with
fordyce spots? i would b rather
interested.
I wouldn't look at a guy's penis unless I
was in love first, so by then,
abnormalities just wouldn't matter to me.
How old are you? People are not that
shallow, and if the girls she tells are as
shallow as she is, then why do you even
hang out with these people!?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-04-07 20:27pm
beanbag
wrote:
which bits dont u
understand? i will retype the ones u dont
get for u
She means in general.
Please, we're not asking for a college
thesis, but try to follow a few
guidelines:
1. Use real words. "You", "You're",
"Through", etc. Don't replace whole words
or parts of words with one letter.
2. Use proper punctiuation. "don't",
"can't", and periods at the end of every
sentence.
3. Use proper capitalization. "Which
bits," "I will", "I" in general.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-04-07 20:33pm
Eiri
wrote:
beanbag
wrote:
which bits dont u
understand? i will retype the ones u dont
get for u
She means in general.
Please, we're not asking for a college
thesis, but try to follow a few
guidelines:
1. Use real words. "You", "You're",
"Through", etc. Don't replace whole words
or parts of words with one letter.
2. Use proper punctiuation. "don't",
"can't", and periods at the end of every
sentence.
3. Use proper capitalization. "Which
bits," "I will", "I" in
general.
ditto what eiri said
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beanbag
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Joined: 22 Aug 2007 Posts: 17 Location: ghj
Posted: 09-04-07 20:36pm
i hang out with these people, because i
thought they were good people. i thought
my girlfriend was a good person, but like
i said before shes changed and i didnt see
her true self before i went out with her
and im 18. sorry i will try and type
properly i was just trying to save time is
all. so i take it you have never come
across a guy with fordyce spots then? haha
unless u forgot about me asking if u have
had any experiences
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-04-07 20:39pm
beanbag
wrote:
i hang out with these
people, because i thought they were good
people. i thought my girlfriend was a good
person, but like i said before shes
changed and i didnt see her true self
before i went out with her and im 18.
sorry i will try and type properly i was
just trying to save time is all. so i take
it you have never come across a guy with
fordyce spots then? haha unless u forgot
about me asking if u have had any
experiences
Nope, I answered you. I said "I wouldn't
see a guy's penis until I was in love, so
by then, any abnormalities wouldn't
matter." That's a long way of saying "NO,
but it wouldn't matter since I'm not
shallow and I'd be in love!"
I think you need new friends, lol.
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 09-04-07 20:40pm
if my bf had those spots i wouldnt care
and i would never hold it against him
EVER
thats a very messed up thing to do. its a
condtition you cant help that you have it
any girl who would hold that against you
if you broke up is a B*** and very self
centered
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beanbag
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Joined: 22 Aug 2007 Posts: 17 Location: ghj
Posted: 09-04-07 21:54pm
hmm ok, so im guesing that this condition
is not as common as it's said to be, i
havn't found anyone that has had an
experience with them, which doesn't make
me feel very good about them.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-04-07 22:00pm
beanbag
wrote:
hmm ok, so im guesing that
this condition is not as common as it's
said to be, i havn't found anyone that has
had an experience with them, which doesn't
make me feel very good about them.
actually i believe it is extremely common
just not on here i guess
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beanbag
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Joined: 22 Aug 2007 Posts: 17 Location: ghj
Posted: 09-04-07 23:44pm
what are you basing that statement on? the
internet? magazines?.........they may say
that it is common, but i have never found
anyone with the same problem as me, and on
top of that you guys havnt ever confronted
it before, my best bet is that its not as
common as everyone says it is
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-05-07 08:46am
beanbag
wrote:
what are you basing that
statement on? the internet?
magazines?.........they may say that it is
common, but i have never found anyone
with the same problem as me, and on top of
that you guys havnt ever confronted it
before, my best bet is that its not as
common as everyone says it
is
I have only had sex with one guy so even
if 50% of the population had these, my
chances are still good that I'd never see
them. For all I know, the next guy I meet
and fall in love with will have them.
"Fordyce's spots, or Fordyce granules are
small, painless, raised, pale or white
spots or bumps 1 to 3 mm in diameter that
may appear on the shaft of the penis or on
the labia, as well as the inner surface
and vermilion border of the lips of the
face. They
are common in men and
women of all ages. They are
named after an American dermatologist,
John Addison Fordyce. On the head of the
penis, they are called Tyson glands, not
to be confused with pearly penile
papules.
The spots are a form of ectopic sebaceous
gland, and are not known to be associated with any
disease or illness and are of
cosmetic concern only. They are
non-infectious and a natural occurrence on
the body. Men sometimes consult with a
dermatologist because they are worried
they may have a sexually transmitted
disease (especially genital warts) or some
form of cancer, but this is not the case.
They may
equally be worried about the appearance of
their penis and what their sexual partner
might think of it.
Vaporising laser treatments such as CO2
laser or electro desiccation have been
used with some success in diminishing the
appearance of this condition if they are
of cosmetic concern. However, most doctors
consider this a normal physiological
phenomenon and advise against
treatment."
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 09-05-07 10:41am
beanbag
wrote:
what are you basing that
statement on? the internet?
magazines?.........they may say that it is
common, but i have never found anyone
with the same problem as me, and on top of
that you guys havnt ever confronted it
before, my best bet is that its not as
common as everyone says it
is
yeah one of my ex bfs had them but we
never had sex
he told me about it though
i dunno
i havent had sex with alot of people
but my friend katies boyfriend has them
and he has ALOT of them because i remember
her telling me about it when they had sex
for the first time and she was scared
about what it was.
Ive never came across anyone with them,
nor would it bother me, unless you were a
complete jerk then iw ouldnt like you but
it would be because your a jerk not
anything cosmetic. Some people just freak
out over weird things theyve never seen
before.
Did u try posting this in the mens health
forum as well to see if there are any
others with the same thing? Might get alot
over there.
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BullZye
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jul 2007 Posts: 112
Posted: 09-05-07 13:53pm
I have those bumps on my skin at the
bottom, I don't see whats so bad looking
about them. They don't stand out too much.
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