19 F Cannot Orgasam Having Oral/masterbating Just On Top Posted: 03-19-04 04:29am
I am a young female having problems with
orgasming during oral sex, or
masterbating. I have never been able to
orgasam while masterbating. I know how to
its just that the stimulation isnt there I
think. I can orgasam by being on top of a
guy, or humping him I dont know why? This
not normal? I remember as a child I would
jump on a pole and kinda hump it because
if felt good.....Or using something to
hump, do you think that this could of
"damaged" me? Me and my bf have sex and
he wonders why I dont like to have oral
sex, it just doesnt do anything for
me...With anyone. Just being on top I can
only orgasam. Please help. Oh and I
dont like my nipples or my breast played
with, is this not normal too?
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oopoopoop
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No Such Thing As "normal" Posted: 03-19-04 23:38pm
The important thing is to find what works
for you! You are lucky that at least you
have found one position that does it --
when I was 19 I was still years away from
getting anywhere! It seems that we are
all wired up a little bit differently, the
switches aren't all in the same place or
set up the same way. Some women can only
orgasm on top, some only during oral sex,
some only from masturbation , and some
find sitting on top of the washing machine
during the spin cycle is the way to go.
It helps to be open-minded and try new
things every now and then, but a lot has
to do with being able to relax and let go,
and not taking it all too seriously.
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Kas86
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i have never had a orgasam y?????? Posted: 01-16-08 06:59am
i have tried so many things befor but i
have never had a orgasam my boyfriend and
i both get frustrated i just wanna know if
there is any reason to this or if there is
any advice you could me.. please can you
help me
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-16-08 10:35am
You haven't "damaged" yourself but it is
possibly the female version of traumatic
masturbatory syndrome, which normally
affect males who learn to masturbate
face-down on a bed.
My best advice would be what males with
this syndrome have to do: Complete
abstinence from all sexual stimulation for
a week or two, and then masturbating with
your hands or a vibrator. You have to
re-train your body. It is fortunate you
can orgasm when on top; most women can't
orgasm during sex at all!
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geminichic20
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Posted: 01-17-08 12:06pm
OMG...I had the same exact problem wow!!
For a little over a year now I have been
able to orgasim with my bf on top of me
but before It used to be only with me on
top and he had to play with my nipples! I
never orgasimed over oral sex and I still
don't...It just doesn't feel good to me!
Idk what to say for you but for me as long
as my bf plays with my nipples during sex
I am able to orgasim.
