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Q: Can Anyone Answer My Question.........please!!
asked by: lchica23 on August 24th, 2007
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I have a question of my own. My last period was on march 18th and on may 8th I found out I was pregnant. That day I went to the hospital because I had spotting and cramps and they told me I was pregnant and they did an ultrasound and at the time I was 6wk 1day. I cheated on my boyfriend once and I am confuse who is the father of my baby boy? My boyfriend and I was having regular intercourse and the day I cheated on him was on April 16th at midnight ( the 17th ) My due date is dec 31st. May 8th I was 6wk 1dy.....June 1st I was 9wk 3dy and the last one I had was on Aug 17th I was 21wk. So when did I conceive is it my boyfriends or the other guy that happen just once on April 16th. My periods are very irregular too. PLease Help!!!!!
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tinkinpink84
replied on August 24th, 2007
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i beleive that if your due date is dec 31 you prob most likely conceived the first or 2nd week of april. i was due december 27 last year and that put my conception date at april 5th. so chances are it isnt the one u slept with on the 16th
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lchica23
replied on August 24th, 2007
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Hey
If you don't mine me asking since your due date was on Dec. 27th do you know when you conceived? And when did you end up having your baby? Congratulations..........I bet it was a challenge and happines for you? Doctors also was going by my last period, but they are going now by the first ultrasound I had on May8th which at the time I was 6wk 1dy. I hope your right and I pray to god it really is my boyfriends.
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tinkinpink84
replied on August 24th, 2007
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i conceived on or around april 5th according to my due date. i had an ultrasound at 11 weeks as well wich confirmed my due date, i had my daughter on december 25 last year.
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lchica23
replied on August 24th, 2007
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Thank You
Thank you for your response..... I appreciate your time and hope this is over with soon. I 'm 5 mnths now and still have 4 months to go.
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tinkinpink84
replied on August 24th, 2007
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yeah, im posotive of my dates too, i only saw my husband from march 27th-april 9th, then he left for germany, so there was no way i coulda gotten pregnant at any other time cuz he was only there for a bout two weeks.
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lchica23
replied on August 24th, 2007
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One More Question....
One more question for you.........When was your last menstrual at the time? And were your periods irregular as well. Because mine were very irregular, do you think that matters?
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tinkinpink84
replied on August 24th, 2007
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i dont think any of that matters but my lmp was march 22nd last yr when i got pregnant. The ultrasound is quite accurate at determining the due date specially that early on, so more then likely it is correct. You can ask your dr when your date of conception was too and theyd be able to give you an estimated date.
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caribbean5
replied on August 24th, 2007
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Good to find someone who is due around the same time as I am. A baby is a blessing. My lmp was March 24-28, 2007. My bf and I were separated and I slept with someonelse March 29. IT was such a frustrating time and I had no idea how one could conceive under stressful situations but you learn from the myths about pregnancy. Then my bf came back into my life April1, we slept together and then again April 3. I am now 22 weeks pregnant and due December 29, 2007 or Dec 30th, 2007. Who knows I might just get a christmas baby. More than likely it's my ex's because the doc said I conceived on a about April 7. So I could empathize with you. I am single right now and I have a great support system so the baby and I are ok.
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lchica23
replied on August 27th, 2007
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Congratulations Carribean on your baby too! I am having a boy & you? My doctor also said I had conceived around th 9th, but there might be a slight chance it can be the other guys. But I am hoping to god it is my boyfriends because it is only a week of difference and my due date is on dec, 31st due to the first ultrasound I had done when I was 6 weeks pregnant on May8th, they really aren't going by my last perios because of my irregular periods. So how are you feeling? Do you fee the baby kcking alot?
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lchica23
replied on August 27th, 2007
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Congratulations Carribean on your baby too! I am having a boy & you? My doctor also said I had conceived around th 9th, but there might be a slight chance it can be the other guys. But I am hoping to god it is my boyfriends because it is only a week of difference and my due date is on dec, 31st due to the first ultrasound I had done when I was 6 weeks pregnant on May8th, they really aren't going by my last perios because of my irregular periods. So how are you feeling? Do you fee the baby kcking alot?
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tinkinpink84
replied on August 27th, 2007
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ultrasounds are pretty dead on especially that early on, so that is most likely correct like 99%. With my son i didnt keep track of periods so i had an early ultrasound to confirm a due date. Whatever the ultrasounds says is most likely right! hopefully ya dont have the baby on xmas day lol thats when i had my daughter.
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lchica23
replied on August 27th, 2007
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Hey that is what I'm hoping that wouldn't be fair for my son to be born in xmas due to the reason that they only get xmas presents not b-day presents lol, but as long it is healthy & perfectly fine I will be fascinated with that. So how old is you baby boy TI? Is it hard? How do you recommend a baby boy?
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young Girl
replied on August 27th, 2007
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well lets see my Due date is december 15th and im currently 24 weeks 3 days pregnant

im not really sure of my day of conception either Shocked
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tinkinpink84
replied on August 27th, 2007
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you can go online to sites to calculate your due date, if you know your lmp you just put it in and it puts the date of conception, its not exact its just around that time frame that you would have conceived.

I actually have a 2 yr old son he was born in august, my daughter was born this past xmas, i really dont know what to do when shes older with her birthday being on christmas lol, this yrs nto hard cuz illprob do her bday cuz my hubbys gone for xmas and our trees in the attic and i dont do attics lol.
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young Girl
replied on August 27th, 2007
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oh wow
lol so it calculated my date of conception to be march 24th
the day before my birthday!!!!
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tinkinpink84
replied on August 27th, 2007
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i also think there are sites that if you know your due date you can also find out that way, if your unsure of your lmp. i think ive done it both ways to make sure and it came up with the same answer either way, but iw as sure of my lmp with my daughter and got a due date of dec 27 and the early us i had before moving confirmed my due date of dec 27.
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caribbean5
replied on August 28th, 2007
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Congratulations to you to lchica23. Im am doing well and i hope that you and all the expectant mothers are keeping well. I am hoping to have a Christmas baby too Very Happy but you never. I know he/she will come out when it's time. have no idea if it's a boy or girl. My last ultrasound the doctor said it looked like a little girl but the baby's legs were so close she couldn't tell. The doc said she saw an O so not sure if an O shape between the legs is a girl but either way I'll be happy as long as the baby is healthy and I'm ok. The doc indicated I conceived April 6 - 8. I have on average regular period of 29 days so I figured April 7 would have been the most likely day of conception. My1st Us was done at 5 weeks edd Jan 1, then the next at 8 weeks and edd Dec 29. I had another in June due to spotting edd Dec 30 so I think we are due on the same date. I'm single and and doing Cool Stay in well!
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lchica23
replied on August 28th, 2007
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Well I am having a boy! Hurray that is what I wanted so bad.Well my baby kicks alot especially at night time....Everything going ok here too. It is just that the torment of me thinking it is not my boyfriends stresses me out. but as far as everyone has said I might of conceive around the 9th so If I had sex on the 7,8,9 most likely I got pregnant from one of those sperms as I have read. So is it true that when we are 21 weeks we are actually 19weeks because of the 2week period thing I get confused on that do you know?
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