victoria16
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What's so great about porn anyways?
Posted: 08-24-07 10:54am
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I hate porn, I think porn is fake and
artificial. Can someone help me understand
whats to so great about. I would like to
hear it from a guys perspective. I dont
want my fiance watching porn.
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BlkedOutEclipse
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Why It's So Good.
Posted: 08-24-07 11:57am
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Because as we watch there are things us
men would like to do with our women. So we
basically learn from what we watch.
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victoria16
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Re: Why It's So Good.
Posted: 08-24-07 12:01pm
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| BlkedOutEclipse
wrote: | | Because as we watch there
are things us men would like to do with
our women. So we basically learn from what
we watch. |
Yah but yur looking at other woman still.
Its cool wanting to do new moves in bed,
Im all for it. But I know guys dont just
watch porn to learn....
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Posted: 08-24-07 13:40pm
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According to my hubby- porn is a fantasy
and unrealistic. Yes. But it still turns
them on. They don't expect real sex to be
like that, but it just turns them on so
they like it.
Also according to my hubby- real sex is
always preferable to porn.
I used to be hung up about it too, but I
got over it and we can watch it together
sometimes now. It is fake and artificial
and I think that's why they like it! It's
kind've taboo.
To the guys- I don't suggest trying to
learn from porn. Porn is NOT a how to
manual lol. 
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victoria16
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Posted: 08-24-07 13:48pm
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| Georgia59
wrote: | According to my hubby- porn
is a fantasy and unrealistic. Yes. But it
still turns them on. They don't expect
real sex to be like that, but it just
turns them on so they like it.
Also according to my hubby- real sex is
always preferable to porn.
I used to be hung up about it too, but I
got over it and we can watch it together
sometimes now. It is fake and artificial
and I think that's why they like it! It's
kind've taboo.
To the guys- I don't suggest trying to
learn from porn. Porn is NOT a how to
manual lol. |
lol. So yu dont mind him looking at naked
woman, etc?
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Georgia59
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Posted: 08-24-07 13:57pm
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Well if it was a real naked woman (like in
our house lol) then I would mind.
But porn, naw. I used to get all hung up
over it, but we talked about it and I felt
better. He assured me that he would always
prefer me over porn and real sex over
watching it. And he is fully aware that
those women are fake, in fact we have made
an effort together to find more realistic
porn.
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victoria16
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Posted: 08-24-07 14:29pm
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| Georgia59
wrote: | Well if it was a real naked
woman (like in our house lol) then I would
mind.
But porn, naw. I used to get all hung up
over it, but we talked about it and I felt
better. He assured me that he would always
prefer me over porn and real sex over
watching it. And he is fully aware that
those women are fake, in fact we have made
an effort together to find more realistic
porn. |
Well atleast yur trying to find more
realistic porn. 
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Georgia59
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Posted: 08-24-07 14:41pm
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I'm not really offended by it though. I
know he still thinks I'm beautiful and
that's all that really matters.
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Posted: 08-24-07 15:03pm
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| Georgia59
wrote: | | I'm not really offended by
it though. I know he still thinks I'm
beautiful and that's all that really
matters. |
How did yu learn to get over it.
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Posted: 08-24-07 15:14pm
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Okay, I'm a girl, but I watch porn to get
ideas. Also, because you can't be having
sex all the time with the guy/girl you
love. And sometimes, masturbating
requires something to stimulate the
imagination. Anyway, if he's MARRYING
you, clearly he loves you. He doesn't
just want to marry you for the sex! So
what if he's watching porn? Maybe you and
him could make porn, if he enjoys it so
much? Or you could watch porn
together...that's always fun. ^__^
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victoria16
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Posted: 08-24-07 15:28pm
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| devils_advocate
wrote: | | Okay, I'm a girl, but I
watch porn to get ideas. Also, because
you can't be having sex all the time with
the guy/girl you love. And sometimes,
masturbating requires something to
stimulate the imagination. Anyway, if
he's MARRYING you, clearly he loves you.
He doesn't just want to marry you for the
sex! So what if he's watching porn?
Maybe you and him could make porn, if he
enjoys it so much? Or you could watch
porn together...that's always fun.
^__^ |
I dont think I could ever watch porn with
him.........
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Posted: 08-24-07 21:57pm
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| victoria16
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I dont think I could ever watch porn with
him......... |
As a female. I actually do from time to
time watch porn. Honestly its all taboo
to me. Women are supposed to be pure and
what not. Me and my man can go to strip
clubs, porn stores, and watch porn
TOGETHER. granted he is a lil weirded out
by the strip clubs. Its all about them
seeing something unattainable. Plus it
gives me more drive to top the bimbo on
the screen
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Posted: 08-24-07 23:20pm
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| Confused_Stressed
wrote: | | victoria16
wrote: |
I dont think I could ever watch porn with
him......... |
As a female. I actually do from time to
time watch porn. Honestly its all taboo
to me. Women are supposed to be pure and
what not. Me and my man can go to strip
clubs, porn stores, and watch porn
TOGETHER. granted he is a lil weirded out
by the strip clubs. Its all about them
seeing something unattainable. Plus it
gives me more drive to top the bimbo on
the screen |
WOW!!  Even strip
clubs???? ...I wouldnt never let my fiance
go to a strip club or go with him.
Yu know hey call me pozesive but its just
not ok in my relationship.
Dont get me wrong I would never judge
anyones relationship, if watching porn
2geather gets you going than it just does.
I wish I wasnt so bothered by porn coming
near my relationship.
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Posted: 08-26-07 20:48pm
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| victoria16
wrote: | | Georgia59
wrote: | | I'm not really offended by
it though. I know he still thinks I'm
beautiful and that's all that really
matters. |
How did yu learn to get over
it. |
Why does it bother you so much? I mean, I
understand that it's fake and kind've
silly- but if you realize that he knows
that too then it's not so bad...Maybe if
you figure out what really bothers you
about it you can figure out how to get
around it.
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Posted: 08-26-07 20:53pm
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lesbian porn is the best
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victoria16
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Posted: 08-26-07 21:22pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | lesbian porn is the best
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lol!
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Posted: 08-26-07 21:22pm
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| Georgia59
wrote: | | victoria16
wrote: | | Georgia59
wrote: | | I'm not really offended by
it though. I know he still thinks I'm
beautiful and that's all that really
matters. |
How did yu learn to get over
it. |
Why does it bother you so much? I mean, I
understand that it's fake and kind've
silly- but if you realize that he knows
that too then it's not so bad...Maybe if
you figure out what really bothers you
about it you can figure out how to get
around it. |
I know what bothers me.
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Posted: 08-26-07 21:25pm
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| victoria16
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | lesbian porn is the best
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im for serious!!!! and hun i
know alot of people who feel the way you
do
but think of it like this
its a person on TV and thats it
just like actors in a movie
porn can really be a fun thing
and guys dont look at it to be sick or
anything. they do it because its natural
personally i dont think a naked man is
sexy at all. only my travis  hoever i find
lesbian porn (or porn with more than one
women) awsome for some reason! everyone is
different and likes diferent things
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Posted: 08-26-07 21:28pm
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| Confused_Stressed
wrote: | | victoria16
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I dont think I could ever watch porn with
him......... |
As a female. I actually do from time to
time watch porn. Honestly its all taboo
to me. Women are supposed to be pure and
what not. Me and my man can go to strip
clubs, porn stores, and watch porn
TOGETHER. granted he is a lil weirded out
by the strip clubs. Its all about them
seeing something unattainable. Plus it
gives me more drive to top the bimbo on
the screen |
i would NEVER go with travis to a strip
club
lol
and bet 100 bucks he wouldnt be going
either
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Posted: 08-28-07 10:53am
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| victoria16
wrote: | | Georgia59
wrote: | | victoria16
wrote: | | Georgia59
wrote: | | I'm not really offended by
it though. I know he still thinks I'm
beautiful and that's all that really
matters. |
How did yu learn to get over
it. |
Why does it bother you so much? I mean, I
understand that it's fake and kind've
silly- but if you realize that he knows
that too then it's not so bad...Maybe if
you figure out what really bothers you
about it you can figure out how to get
around it. |
I know what bothers
me. |
you cant always be so jealous and not let
him do things.. itll cause you to argue
and eventually break up my boyfriend and i
used to get mad at eachother and not let
one another do things we broke up stopped
living together and eventually got back
together, you have to let him have his
space and do things he wants to do.. if
you let him have his space hes going to
respect you for that and not do anything
stupid.
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