Me and my boyfriend who have lived
together for 4 years and we don't have sex
very often. In the begining we had lots of
sex. It was great then. He knew just how
to please me. And make me feel good. But
in the last 3 years sex has slowed a
lot!!!!! Maybe we have sex 2-3 times a
month....if that! I'm never in the mood.
Plus he has gained some weight which I
think may be playing a role in my lower
sex drive as well. But I still love him
and wanna have sex to make him feel good.
I would rather masturbate alone as to have
sex. Nothing against him but it seems that
in the past year or so he hasn't been able
to give me an orgasam durring sex. Also
one thing that bothers me is he tries to
be sensitive in bed. You know slow and
soft to the touch. I need him to hold me
like a man. A strong hold and just give it
to me so to say. I like for my hair to be
pulled and things like that. But he's not
that type of guy. I don't know how to make
the sex any better without saying
something. But I don't want to offend him.
Also i'm very shy at trying new things. I
always wanna do it missionary style and am
to shy to show my full naked body while
having sex. So I like to stay covered. I
know he's getting bored with the same ole
same ole. I really need some help. I would
hate to run our relationship in the ground
over sex! I need help...please give me
some advice.
ps.....sorry this was soooooo long
thanks
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 08-25-07 17:43pm
well sounds like both of you need to break
out of your shlls
you need to be more confident beacuse if
you have been together for that long then
he loves you for YOu and not what you look
like
same thing for him
you should love him for him and not how
much weight he has gained
