Sexual Health - Men Forum - Tips For Coming While Intercourse

Hey everyone,

This problem is not so rare, so I hope its not a repeat post. Please delete it if it is.

Anyways, Im a 24 year old male- and I just started having sex with the first girlfriend Ive ever had this year. So far, its going great for her- I can make her come and shes satisfied, but Im unable to reach ejaculation during vaginal intercourse. She has been just finishing me off with her hand after she comes. I am really attracted to her, and im comfortable with sex and my body, but whenever I have vaginal intercourse with her- the positions just feel really awkward for me and the visual imagrey dont particularly turn me on. Prior to this, I was beating off dry maybe every other day to porn.

Im not exactly sure what the issue is.. Im thinking it might be one of the following:

-sex is a lot more tiring compared to masturbation which turns me off because i get exhausted
-still adjusting to condom use (although ive tried masturbating with a condom on and i can come by myself with it on)
-cannot be stimulated as frequently with intercourse than masturbation because of the slower pace
-prior masturbation decreased my penis' sensitivity
-only turned on to certain visuals from pornography (different camera angles, atitudes, types of sex)

What do you guys think I should do? Were both pretty busy, and we only have sex 2 times a week at most. Ive still been masturbating on the side.

Im thinking maybe I should stop watching pornography and masturbating altogether. I feel it might undo the conditioning that porno does to a man if its a psychological issue. Although.. I bet a lot of guys still whack off to porn while seeing a girl and they are fine. Even with odd sexual themes. Im pretty sure i dont have retarded/delayed ejaculation, as those that do have it cant come around a woman at all. Im totally fine with her giving me a HJ. As for being too tired.. I think if a man is turned on enough, he can go past his usual endurance capacity... The actual vaginal intercourse itself isnt that great for me. It does feel a little bit good, but it doesnt hit the "feel good" mark enough to let me hit my peak. The only one that makes the most sense to me is the pace.. Whenever I masturbate I go pretty quickly. Maybe double the speed which I couldnt replicate in intercourse. Maybe I should discipline myself to masturbate slower?