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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Posted: 08-30-07 13:27pm
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| sillyakchick
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | lil_jessie
wrote: | i'm no go with spelling i
can spell to save me life
all i wanted was some advise on wot u all
thought |
oh ok! well if you ever need help with
spelling there is a spell check before you
post
you can just hit the spell check button
and it will help correct everything!!!
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Do you use this??  |
lol ive been doing it more now
sometimes i forget but i try and go over
and reread my posts because i type so darn
fast sometimes i hit the wrong keys...
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 08-30-07 13:28pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | sillyakchick
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | lil_jessie
wrote: | i'm no go with spelling i
can spell to save me life
all i wanted was some advise on wot u all
thought |
oh ok! well if you ever need help with
spelling there is a spell check before you
post
you can just hit the spell check button
and it will help correct everything!!!
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Do you use this??  |
lol ive been doing it more now
sometimes i forget but i try and go over
and reread my posts because i type so darn
fast sometimes i hit the wrong
keys... |
tee hee. Sometimes my hands go faster
than my brain (which rolls along at barely
a crawl)
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-30-07 21:38pm
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| lil_jessie
wrote: | | one i can't spell two i
would never put my realy bday, three i do
have a bf but i'm not going to have sex
with him all i wanted was some help from u
lot and all i got was a lot of slack stop
haveing a go at me and no i'm not 18 i'm
only 15, and yes i am
horny |
Fine, ignore The_Girlfriend (love ya GF!).
I've given you good advice too for someone
your age.
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Posted: 08-30-07 21:39pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | lil_jessie
wrote: | | one i can't spell two i
would never put my realy bday, three i do
have a bf but i'm not going to have sex
with him all i wanted was some help from u
lot and all i got was a lot of slack stop
haveing a go at me and no i'm not 18 i'm
only 15, and yes i am
horny |
Fine, ignore The_Girlfriend (love ya GF!).
I've given you good advice too for someone
your age. |
*sniff sniff*
i feel so.....
.....so ignored
lol
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victoria16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
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Posted: 08-30-07 21:55pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | lil_jessie
wrote: | | one i can't spell two i
would never put my realy bday, three i do
have a bf but i'm not going to have sex
with him all i wanted was some help from u
lot and all i got was a lot of slack stop
haveing a go at me and no i'm not 18 i'm
only 15, and yes i am
horny |
still cannot understand  |
Oh My gosh suzy yu make me laugh.
An lil_jessie it doesnt sound like you
should be having sex.... I know yur
interested but yu just dont sound ready to
me, But yu know thats jsut me I could be
wrong. I lost my virginity at 15, but I
was and still am very much in love.
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lil_jessie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Aug 2007 Posts: 17 Location: ,
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Posted: 08-31-07 04:00am
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thanks to everone how has help me on this
page and other. wot age did u lot first
have sex?
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ktkl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Aug 2007 Posts: 5
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Posted: 08-31-07 15:36pm
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| lil_jessie
wrote: | | a comon one do u meen like
condons and thinks to stop u from haveing
a baby |
Besides the fact that you're 15, if you
don't know what birth control is, you are
NOT under ANY circumstances ready for sex.
Find a sex ed class, read some books, get
educated, then wait a few years - the
whole process mentioned earlier - THEN
have sex because you're in love, not
because it "sounds like a good idea."
And the flack you got for spelling (not
slack, if you got slack that'd be a good
thing) was because you don't try and can't
construct a sentence. I'm sure you're a
coherent person in a real conversation,
take an extra few seconds and type like it
- it WILL earn you respect.
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clovis
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2007 Posts: 20 Location: Southern Il,
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Posted: 09-01-07 22:33pm
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jessie, you're 15yrs. old. WAY, WAY too
young to be having sex. Having a boyfriend
is nice but at your age you are not ready
to handle the emotional or physical
effects of sex. If you are horny as you
say, masturbation is a safe, normal
alternative. I know sexual urges can be
very strong but please, wait til you are
older and in an ADULT relationship. You
are not old enough to have an adult
relationship yet. i know you may think you
love your boyfriend right now and he you,
and if that is true, you will both be
willing to respect yourselves and each
other and wait. You did not say how old
your boyfriend is but if he's your age
he's too young too. If he is 18 or older,
he is too old for you and has no busy
being with you til you are older.
I am not trying to be preachy and I'm not
being judgemental. I'm speaking from
experience. When I was 14 I was forced
into marriage to my 21 yr. old BF because
I was pregnant. I had my son when I was
15. It is harder than you could ever
believe. And birth control is NOT 100%
effective. I endured 7 yrs. of mental and
physical abuse because I was too young to
see what my BF was really like.
I am also now the mothe rof 1 teenager
myself and my oldest is grown. I also have
a 25 yr. old step-daughter that I watched
get married and divorced before she was
18. So please believe I do understand and
only have your best interest at heart.
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victoria16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
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Posted: 09-01-07 22:38pm
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| clovis
wrote: | jessie, you're 15yrs. old.
WAY, WAY too young to be having sex.
Having a boyfriend is nice but at your age
you are not ready to handle the emotional
or physical effects of sex. If you are
horny as you say, masturbation is a safe,
normal alternative. I know sexual urges
can be very strong but please, wait til
you are older and in an ADULT
relationship. You are not old enough to
have an adult relationship yet. i know you
may think you love your boyfriend right
now and he you, and if that is true, you
will both be willing to respect yourselves
and each other and wait. You did not say
how old your boyfriend is but if he's your
age he's too young too. If he is 18 or
older, he is too old for you and has no
busy being with you til you are older.
I am not trying to be preachy and I'm not
being judgemental. I'm speaking from
experience. When I was 14 I was forced
into marriage to my 21 yr. old BF because
I was pregnant. I had my son when I was
15. It is harder than you could ever
believe. And birth control is NOT 100%
effective. I endured 7 yrs. of mental and
physical abuse because I was too young to
see what my BF was really like.
I am also now the mothe rof 1 teenager
myself and my oldest is grown. I also have
a 25 yr. old step-daughter that I watched
get married and divorced before she was
18. So please believe I do understand and
only have your best interest at
heart. |
WOW!! WELL SAID! That was a good
explanation, she needed to hear that. I
kinda wish I knew this forum was around
when I first met my fiance. Im 16 n
pregger lil-jessie, you dont want that.
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clovis
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2007 Posts: 20 Location: Southern Il,
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Posted: 09-02-07 07:49am
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Thanks Victoria. I wish I would have had
anyone around to give me advice and guide
me when I was her age. I wish you the
best of luck with your situation.
And lil-jessie please consider what I have
said. It may seem like I couldn't
possibly understand your situation but
believe me I do. Do you have a parent you
could talk to? Or an aunt or other trusted
adult in your life? It sounds like you're
a good girl, just need some guidance and
help.
Please excuse my spelling and English in
the last post, It was late and my dyslexia
was kicking in.
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Posted: 09-02-07 11:05am
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hello everyone1 lol suzy has been reading
through this and i have my stuff to say
now
*clears throat*
i had sex first when i was 12!!! DONT DO
IT SO YOUNG OK?!?! you will regret it im
tellin ya
but who cares what i say right? im just a
gilr on this forum that your not going to
listen to in the long run if a man is
trying to put his penis in your vagian
your not gunna be like "oh wait wait wait
i have to listen to that girl on that
forum"
but for serious
why rush sex ya know?
jessie- you are 15 yrs old
you dont know what BC is
just masterbate for gods sake
because what happend when you get pregnant
accidenatally? chances are you wont even
know how to change a dirty diaper...
im 16 yrs old. my name is suzy and im
haveing a BABY
im going to be a MOM
yeah im young
i made my choices and i did what i did and
i knew it would happen and that it could
happen
i do not regret getting pregnant but then
again YOU really need to think about this
kind of stuff
no one can say "you arent ready" or "you
are ready"
just remember
yoyu can get an STD too
even if your partner says he is clean
(boysss are liiiiars )
they'll do anything to get in your pants
excpecially since you seem so vulnerable
be careful
THE END!!!
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victoria16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
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Posted: 09-02-07 11:24am
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | hello everyone1 lol suzy has
been reading through this and i have my
stuff to say now
*clears throat*
i had sex first when i was 12!!! DONT DO
IT SO YOUNG OK?!?! you will regret it im
tellin ya
but who cares what i say right? im just a
gilr on this forum that your not going to
listen to in the long run if a man is
trying to put his penis in your vagian
your not gunna be like "oh wait wait wait
i have to listen to that girl on that
forum"
but for serious
why rush sex ya know?
jessie- you are 15 yrs old
you dont know what BC is
just masterbate for gods sake
because what happend when you get pregnant
accidenatally? chances are you wont even
know how to change a dirty diaper...
im 16 yrs old. my name is suzy and im
haveing a BABY
im going to be a MOM
yeah im young
i made my choices and i did what i did and
i knew it would happen and that it could
happen
i do not regret getting pregnant but then
again YOU really need to think about this
kind of stuff
no one can say "you arent ready" or "you
are ready"
just remember
yoyu can get an STD too
even if your partner says he is clean
(boysss are liiiiars )
they'll do anything to get in your pants
excpecially since you seem so vulnerable
be careful
THE END!!!  |
*claps hands*
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lil_jessie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Aug 2007 Posts: 17 Location: ,
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Posted: 09-02-07 13:58pm
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hey ya!
well thanks but i do not that u can get
illl or died from haveing sex also i no u
can have kids aswell but thanks anyway of
da help gd like have a kids hope it gose
well
glad i can ask u anythink
lol
jessie
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-02-07 14:32pm
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| lil_jessie
wrote: | | thanks to everone how has
help me on this page and other. wot age
did u lot first have
sex? |
I waited until I knew I was in love, knew
a ton about birth control, had condoms
bought and ready, and I was 20 years old!!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-02-07 14:35pm
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| lil_jessie
wrote: | hey ya!
well thanks but i do not that u can get
illl or died from haveing sex also i no u
can have kids aswell but thanks anyway of
da help gd like have a kids hope it gose
well
glad i can ask u anythink
lol
jessie |
Oh yes, you can get very, very sick from
sexually transmitted diseases. Even if you
don't catch one that can kill you like
AIDS or Syphillis, many of them can cause
permanent damage to your body, and others
can hurt you so you will never be able to
have a baby when you are old enough to
have one!
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Posted: 09-02-07 22:14pm
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| lil_jessie
wrote: | hey ya!
well thanks but i do not that u can get
illl or died from haveing sex also i no u
can have kids aswell but thanks anyway of
da help gd like have a kids hope it gose
well
glad i can ask u anythink
lol
jessie |
yes you can die and get sick from sex if
you have it with a partner who has an STD
or HIV or aids or something
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