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young Girl

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Posted: 08-30-07 13:27pm

sillyakchick wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
lil_jessie wrote:
i'm no go with spelling i can spell to save me life
all i wanted was some advise on wot u all thought


oh ok! well if you ever need help with spelling there is a spell check before you post
you can just hit the spell check button and it will help correct everything!!!



Do you use this?? Wink


lol ive been doing it more now
sometimes i forget but i try and go over and reread my posts because i type so darn fast sometimes i hit the wrong keys...
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sillyakchick

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Posted: 08-30-07 13:28pm

the_girlfreind wrote:
sillyakchick wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
lil_jessie wrote:
i'm no go with spelling i can spell to save me life
all i wanted was some advise on wot u all thought


oh ok! well if you ever need help with spelling there is a spell check before you post
you can just hit the spell check button and it will help correct everything!!!



Do you use this?? Wink


lol ive been doing it more now
sometimes i forget but i try and go over and reread my posts because i type so darn fast sometimes i hit the wrong keys...


tee hee. Sometimes my hands go faster than my brain (which rolls along at barely a crawl)
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Tylanas

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Posted: 08-30-07 21:38pm

lil_jessie wrote:
one i can't spell two i would never put my realy bday, three i do have a bf but i'm not going to have sex with him all i wanted was some help from u lot and all i got was a lot of slack stop haveing a go at me and no i'm not 18 i'm only 15, and yes i am horny


Fine, ignore The_Girlfriend (love ya GF!). I've given you good advice too for someone your age.
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young Girl

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Posted: 08-30-07 21:39pm

Eiri wrote:
lil_jessie wrote:
one i can't spell two i would never put my realy bday, three i do have a bf but i'm not going to have sex with him all i wanted was some help from u lot and all i got was a lot of slack stop haveing a go at me and no i'm not 18 i'm only 15, and yes i am horny


Fine, ignore The_Girlfriend (love ya GF!). I've given you good advice too for someone your age.


*sniff sniff*

i feel so.....
.....so ignored


lol Laughing
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victoria16

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Posted: 08-30-07 21:55pm

the_girlfreind wrote:
lil_jessie wrote:
one i can't spell two i would never put my realy bday, three i do have a bf but i'm not going to have sex with him all i wanted was some help from u lot and all i got was a lot of slack stop haveing a go at me and no i'm not 18 i'm only 15, and yes i am horny


still cannot understand Confused


Oh My gosh suzy yu make me laugh.
An lil_jessie it doesnt sound like you should be having sex.... I know yur interested but yu just dont sound ready to me, But yu know thats jsut me I could be wrong. I lost my virginity at 15, but I was and still am very much in love.
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lil_jessie

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Posted: 08-31-07 04:00am

thanks to everone how has help me on this page and other. wot age did u lot first have sex?
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ktkl

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Posted: 08-31-07 15:36pm

lil_jessie wrote:
a comon one do u meen like condons and thinks to stop u from haveing a baby


Besides the fact that you're 15, if you don't know what birth control is, you are NOT under ANY circumstances ready for sex. Find a sex ed class, read some books, get educated, then wait a few years - the whole process mentioned earlier - THEN have sex because you're in love, not because it "sounds like a good idea."

And the flack you got for spelling (not slack, if you got slack that'd be a good thing) was because you don't try and can't construct a sentence. I'm sure you're a coherent person in a real conversation, take an extra few seconds and type like it - it WILL earn you respect.
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clovis

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Posted: 09-01-07 22:33pm

jessie, you're 15yrs. old. WAY, WAY too young to be having sex. Having a boyfriend is nice but at your age you are not ready to handle the emotional or physical effects of sex. If you are horny as you say, masturbation is a safe, normal alternative. I know sexual urges can be very strong but please, wait til you are older and in an ADULT relationship. You are not old enough to have an adult relationship yet. i know you may think you love your boyfriend right now and he you, and if that is true, you will both be willing to respect yourselves and each other and wait. You did not say how old your boyfriend is but if he's your age he's too young too. If he is 18 or older, he is too old for you and has no busy being with you til you are older.

I am not trying to be preachy and I'm not being judgemental. I'm speaking from experience. When I was 14 I was forced into marriage to my 21 yr. old BF because I was pregnant. I had my son when I was 15. It is harder than you could ever believe. And birth control is NOT 100% effective. I endured 7 yrs. of mental and physical abuse because I was too young to see what my BF was really like.

I am also now the mothe rof 1 teenager myself and my oldest is grown. I also have a 25 yr. old step-daughter that I watched get married and divorced before she was 18. So please believe I do understand and only have your best interest at heart.
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victoria16

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Posted: 09-01-07 22:38pm

clovis wrote:
jessie, you're 15yrs. old. WAY, WAY too young to be having sex. Having a boyfriend is nice but at your age you are not ready to handle the emotional or physical effects of sex. If you are horny as you say, masturbation is a safe, normal alternative. I know sexual urges can be very strong but please, wait til you are older and in an ADULT relationship. You are not old enough to have an adult relationship yet. i know you may think you love your boyfriend right now and he you, and if that is true, you will both be willing to respect yourselves and each other and wait. You did not say how old your boyfriend is but if he's your age he's too young too. If he is 18 or older, he is too old for you and has no busy being with you til you are older.

I am not trying to be preachy and I'm not being judgemental. I'm speaking from experience. When I was 14 I was forced into marriage to my 21 yr. old BF because I was pregnant. I had my son when I was 15. It is harder than you could ever believe. And birth control is NOT 100% effective. I endured 7 yrs. of mental and physical abuse because I was too young to see what my BF was really like.

I am also now the mothe rof 1 teenager myself and my oldest is grown. I also have a 25 yr. old step-daughter that I watched get married and divorced before she was 18. So please believe I do understand and only have your best interest at heart.


WOW!! WELL SAID! That was a good explanation, she needed to hear that. I kinda wish I knew this forum was around when I first met my fiance. Im 16 n pregger lil-jessie, you dont want that.
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clovis

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Posted: 09-02-07 07:49am

Thanks Victoria. I wish I would have had anyone around to give me advice and guide me when I was her age. I wish you the best of luck with your situation.

And lil-jessie please consider what I have said. It may seem like I couldn't possibly understand your situation but believe me I do. Do you have a parent you could talk to? Or an aunt or other trusted adult in your life? It sounds like you're a good girl, just need some guidance and help.

Please excuse my spelling and English in the last post, It was late and my dyslexia was kicking in. Rolling Eyes
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young Girl

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Posted: 09-02-07 11:05am

hello everyone1 lol suzy has been reading through this and i have my stuff to say now

*clears throat*

i had sex first when i was 12!!! DONT DO IT SO YOUNG OK?!?! you will regret it im tellin ya

but who cares what i say right? im just a gilr on this forum that your not going to listen to in the long run if a man is trying to put his penis in your vagian your not gunna be like "oh wait wait wait i have to listen to that girl on that forum" Wink
but for serious
why rush sex ya know?

jessie- you are 15 yrs old
you dont know what BC is
just masterbate for gods sake
because what happend when you get pregnant accidenatally? chances are you wont even know how to change a dirty diaper...

im 16 yrs old. my name is suzy and im haveing a BABY
im going to be a MOM
yeah im young
i made my choices and i did what i did and i knew it would happen and that it could happen
i do not regret getting pregnant but then again YOU really need to think about this kind of stuff
no one can say "you arent ready" or "you are ready"

just remember
yoyu can get an STD too
even if your partner says he is clean
(boysss are liiiiars Very
Happy )
they'll do anything to get in your pants
excpecially since you seem so vulnerable
be careful


THE END!!! Laughing
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victoria16

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Posted: 09-02-07 11:24am

the_girlfreind wrote:
hello everyone1 lol suzy has been reading through this and i have my stuff to say now

*clears throat*

i had sex first when i was 12!!! DONT DO IT SO YOUNG OK?!?! you will regret it im tellin ya

but who cares what i say right? im just a gilr on this forum that your not going to listen to in the long run if a man is trying to put his penis in your vagian your not gunna be like "oh wait wait wait i have to listen to that girl on that forum" Wink
but for serious
why rush sex ya know?

jessie- you are 15 yrs old
you dont know what BC is
just masterbate for gods sake
because what happend when you get pregnant accidenatally? chances are you wont even know how to change a dirty diaper...

im 16 yrs old. my name is suzy and im haveing a BABY
im going to be a MOM
yeah im young
i made my choices and i did what i did and i knew it would happen and that it could happen
i do not regret getting pregnant but then again YOU really need to think about this kind of stuff
no one can say "you arent ready" or "you are ready"

just remember
yoyu can get an STD too
even if your partner says he is clean
(boysss are liiiiars Very
Happy )
they'll do anything to get in your pants
excpecially since you seem so vulnerable
be careful


THE END!!! Laughing


*claps hands*
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lil_jessie

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Posted: 09-02-07 13:58pm

hey ya!
well thanks but i do not that u can get illl or died from haveing sex also i no u can have kids aswell but thanks anyway of da help gd like have a kids hope it gose well
glad i can ask u anythink
lol
jessie
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Tylanas

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Posted: 09-02-07 14:32pm

lil_jessie wrote:
thanks to everone how has help me on this page and other. wot age did u lot first have sex?


I waited until I knew I was in love, knew a ton about birth control, had condoms bought and ready, and I was 20 years old!!
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Tylanas

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Posted: 09-02-07 14:35pm

lil_jessie wrote:
hey ya!
well thanks but i do not that u can get illl or died from haveing sex also i no u can have kids aswell but thanks anyway of da help gd like have a kids hope it gose well
glad i can ask u anythink
lol
jessie


Oh yes, you can get very, very sick from sexually transmitted diseases. Even if you don't catch one that can kill you like AIDS or Syphillis, many of them can cause permanent damage to your body, and others can hurt you so you will never be able to have a baby when you are old enough to have one!
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young Girl

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Posted: 09-02-07 22:14pm

lil_jessie wrote:
hey ya!
well thanks but i do not that u can get illl or died from haveing sex also i no u can have kids aswell but thanks anyway of da help gd like have a kids hope it gose well
glad i can ask u anythink
lol
jessie


yes you can die and get sick from sex if you have it with a partner who has an STD or HIV or aids or something
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