How do you deal with the fact that you
have to give up your teen life for the
babies life? The baby will be the most
important thing in your life and how to
make it with no job no money no school?
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-05-03 16:43pm
You learn how to deal with it and it will
be the hardest thing to do in your life.
It wont be about you and your parties and
your car and your graduation party. Now
its more like: the babies milk, diapers,
medicine, clothes, crib and on and on.
You learn to get a job, go to night school
have help from your mom for babysitting
and anything else to help you get by.
There are programs to help financially
like wic, food stamps, child support (if
the dad is gone), medical and others.
Your social life will be over. Even
though you have your best friends, they
move on because they dont want to stick
behind and babysit. I made a good choice.
I lost my social life too for my sister
so she wont be alone. But its ok now cuz
im getting married and we still stick by
my little sister. Hopefully all young
girls learn from examples that having sex
has consequenses and they lose everything
by having a baby. Sure some parts are
exciting but the rest is a mission.
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