I am 15 and now on birth control it is 90%
effective I am still a virgin and am
willing to loose my virginity to my loving
boyfriend cory curtis. We have been
seeing each other for about a year now. I
dunno whether I should wait til I get
married or loose it to my 1st love.
Advice.............
I could get pregnant but I love kids and
would love to have one day but should I
take the risk of having one sometime soon?
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Tanya
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2003 Posts: 145 Location: Hmm
Posted: 09-05-03 16:39pm
Honey, I would say wait. If you love each
other then you can wait. Don't lose
something that precious at 15. Hang on to
it. I'm not saying you should wait for
marriage but the reality is that at 15
relationships usually don't last that
long.
Love
tanya*xoxo
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-05-03 16:49pm
Dont do it. Loves will always come and
go. You have your first love but what
about your true love? The one you marry.
Dont you want to have that special moment
with him because you are in love with him
and it would have been worth the wait?
Your 15. You surely do not know what love
is. Its puppy love. Are you willing to
put the risk for having a baby with a cory
that will leave you once he finds out your
pregnant? It should be better to know
that you are having a baby...But starting
a family with your husband. Your too
young to even think about being a mother.
It wont be about you and your parties and
your car and your graduation party. Now
its more like: the babies milk, diapers,
medicine, clothes, crib and on and on.
You learn to get a job, go to night school
have help from your mom for babysitting
and anything else to help you get by.
There are programs to help financially
like wic, food stamps, child support (if
the dad is gone), medical and others.
Your social life will be over. Even
though you have your best friends, they
move on because they dont want to stick
behind and babysit. I made a good choice.
I lost my social life too for my sister
so she wont be alone. But its ok now cuz
im getting married and we still stick by
my little sister. Hopefully all young
girls learn from examples that having sex
has consequenses and they lose everything
by having a baby. Sure some parts are
exciting but the rest is a mission. Think
real hard about it. Your 15. You will
have alot of love in your life, trust me.
Sweetie, if you are unsure of your
decisions I would advise on waiting until
later! Secondly, your chances of getting
pregnant on the pill is very minimal and
is even smaller since you have been on it
for a while. I believe the protection is
98%. I don't know though since I was
never on birth control. Anyway I am not
saying to wait until your married, or go
out today and have sex, but I am saying
wait until it feels 'right'. When its
right you won't second guess yourself!
Good luck and best wishes!
Hey guys ummmm.........I finally went over
to my boyfriends house well ex boyfriend
and he decided he was gonna call us good
friends I didnt like that title b/c it
made me feel used and he kinda got mean
stuff happened and when I left he slammed
the door in my face that hurt my feelings
to even think he would do somethings like
that to me I f I ever get write about
doing something so stupid guys ya better
call me a few names and snap me out of it.
Hey guys ummmm.........I finally went over
to my boyfriends house well ex boyfriend
and he decided he was gonna call us good
friends I didnt like that title b/c it
made me feel used and he kinda got mean
stuff happened and when I left he slammed
the door in my face that hurt my feelings
to even think he would do somethings like
that to me I f I ever write about doing
something so stupid guys ya better call me
a few names and snap me out of it.
Im really sorry to hear that darling. But
be proud of yourself for saving yourself
and not giving in to it. You will mind
many other wonderful men.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-18-03 13:00pm
You see because you are so young you will
have alot of that coming. Maybe not as
bad but guy think about sex only and thats
all they care about (young guys at least)
and they will say thing to make you feel
like hes the one you want to have sex
with. I hope you didnt have sex with him
and you will wait until you are married to
be pure for your husband.
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desiraemarie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003 Posts: 28
Birth Control Isnt Always 99% Effective! Posted: 09-18-03 16:46pm
Hi-
just to let you know before anyone does
anything drastic, birth control is not
always 99% effective! Trust me, I know.
Lol. I was on the patch and I had
unprotected sex with my fiance. Well,
even though he pulled out, I am 4 months
pregnant with my daughter. The doctor
told me that I just happen to be that 1 in
100. I do know several people who have
gotten pregnant on birth control. It all
depends on your hormones. So, please be
careful.
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Dont Waste It! Posted: 09-29-03 07:19am
Dont waste it on some looser huni. I
mean, u shud do it when it feels right to
u. The way he's treated u, he dont sound
too nice. But, I met my boyf at 15 and
i've been with him 2 and a half yrs and
he's the love of my life. It can happen
at any age.
Good luck and dont do anythin silly
