Have recently become sexually active with
bf - who isn't able to ejaculate.
Definately can hold an erection, but we
just haven't been able to get him to
finish the deal. This has occurred during
oral sex, intercourse and plain old
fashioned hand job.
He's not on any medication. He's able to
ejaculate when he masterbates. From the
reading I've been doing, I know be caused
by a myraid of issues - and I know that
has been embarrassing for him. I want to
do all that I can to help the situation
(without him knowing it - and without
talking about it yet).
For anyone who has suffered similiar
problems - has there been anything that
your partner has done that has helped to
get over that hump? He enjoys me being on
top, he enjoys oral sex, I've initiated -
I'm on my way to buy a new silver bullet
to try on him the next time. If it's
because he's just not that into me, that's
okay too - but he's the one that has
pursued a relationship with me, so at this
point, I don't think that is the cause.
I'd welcome any and all suggestions!!
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lonestarguy
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Re: Bf Unable to Ejaulate Posted: 09-06-07 16:11pm
alliejane
wrote:
Have recently become
sexually active with bf - who isn't able
to ejaculate. Definately can hold an
erection, but we just haven't been able to
get him to finish the deal. This has
occurred during oral sex, intercourse and
plain old fashioned hand job.
He's not on any medication. He's able to
ejaculate when he masterbates. From the
reading I've been doing, I know be caused
by a myraid of issues - and I know that
has been embarrassing for him. I want to
do all that I can to help the situation
(without him knowing it - and without
talking about it yet).
For anyone who has suffered similiar
problems - has there been anything that
your partner has done that has helped to
get over that hump? He enjoys me being on
top, he enjoys oral sex, I've initiated -
I'm on my way to buy a new silver bullet
to try on him the next time. If it's
because he's just not that into me, that's
okay too - but he's the one that has
pursued a relationship with me, so at this
point, I don't think that is the cause.
I'd welcome any and all
suggestions!!
Okay alliejane, if he can come by
masturbating, then that means it's
probably not something mechanical, but
only a doctor can check him out inside. My
question is did he have this problem with
other partners?
If not, then maybe he has a mental issue
with you. You sound like a good partner,
offering any and all services, but
something may be bothering him about sex
with you.
It wouldn't hurt for him to visit a
urologist just to see that everything
involved in ejaculation is working. If he
checks out okay, then maybe have him
masturbate in front of you and see if he
can still ejaculate. You help him, of
course, so that he stays hard and follows
through all the way.
If he can't ejaculate in that case, then
it may be time for him to visit a
psychologist to see if he has a hangup of
sex with you. That's about all I can think
of suggesting.
Good luck.
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jasonray
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Sep 2007 Posts: 6 Location: nowhere
Posted: 09-07-07 21:17pm
You know, I am not a shrink. But it could
just be the manifestation of his
homosexuality preventing him from
climaxing with somebody that he is not
attracted to.
I don't mean to be rude, but it is a
plausible reason
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-07-07 22:03pm
jasonray
wrote:
You know, I am not a shrink.
But it could just be the manifestation of
his homosexuality preventing him from
climaxing with somebody that he is not
attracted to.
I don't mean to be rude, but it is a
plausible reason
Where in god's name did you get that from?
Just because a guy can't orgasm with a new
chick doesn't automatically make him gay!
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