Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 29 Location: Forest Grove
Protected sex but possibly implantation bleeding? Posted: 09-02-07 00:12am
I'm so scared right now
i'm talking to my boyfriend about this
i'm only 15... iknow it was a mistake
but ihad sex.. with a condom
then i had my period.. but we had anal..
after words
and now i have bigger boobs and
implantation bleeidng
i never EVER have regular periods
but this would be my frist regular one....
and i'm scared as hell and am crying
and nervous... please someone.. help me
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amethyst eyes
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Joined: 04 Nov 2006 Posts: 1339
Posted: 09-02-07 00:15am
Honey, if you are having a period at all
then you are not pregnant. You need to
get on birth control and/or use a condom
every single time and even then it is not
guaranteed that you will not get pregnant.
If you are going to be sexually active at
all you need to be responsible for your
body and take care of yourself. Get pap
smears and regular gyno check-ups and
protect yourself everytime.
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Terry115
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 29 Location: Forest Grove
Posted: 09-02-07 00:17am
I never ment for this to happen.. and i'm
not even sure
i just feel pregnant
i've heard its a sign.. and it can happen
but what do i do if i am? my parents would
be devistated.. i need to finish school..
and i need to be a good person
but i coudn't live with myself
i barely can now
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amethyst eyes
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Joined: 04 Nov 2006 Posts: 1339
Posted: 09-02-07 00:34am
When was your last period? When did you
have sex?
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Terry115
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Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 29 Location: Forest Grove
Posted: 09-02-07 00:38am
last time i had sex was maybe on the
7th.... it was anal... and the condom
broke.... he said he din't sperm or cum..
but i was till worried
and i would trade in everytihng.. just to
not have to feel like this...
i feel owful..
if i am.. its going to ruin my parents
trust in me.. and in my sister future
boyfriends
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Moo
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Posted: 09-02-07 06:47am
You wouldn't be pregnant from anal sex
hun.
If when you had vaginal intercourse you
used a condom it's unlikely you'd be
pregnant but you say you've had your
period since then so try not to worry.
Also, implantation bleeding is not
actually common and many 'pregnancy'
symptoms are the same as pre-menstrual
ones, if you're worried it's easy to
confuse the two but I would try not to
worry ok?
If you're planning to continue having sex
have you thought about maybe using another
form of birth control (such as the pill)
as well? It will also help regulate your
periods.
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Terry115
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Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 29 Location: Forest Grove
Posted: 09-02-07 14:40pm
Well you see, I know that this could very
well not be true, and i could just be
freaking out.. but i just feel pregnant..
i'm not sure.. my body feels different..
and its not in a good way what so ever.
I'm just nervous.. but both my boyfrine
and i said if i was, then we'd take
responsibiilty for our actoins and grow
up.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 09-02-07 17:55pm
You can't get pregnant from anal sex,
sweetheart. The only way it could happen
would be if sperm happened to get inside
your vagina somehow. You said yourself
that he didn't ejaculate, and I highly
doubt pre-ejacualte from your anus
traveled into your vagina.
I really, really don't think you're
pregnant. I think you're panicking and
over-analyzing what you're feeling. Wait
until you miss your period, and then take
a pregnancy test if it doesn't show. I
think you can relax though.
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Terry115
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 29 Location: Forest Grove
Posted: 09-03-07 00:53am
I have terrific news. Today i started my
period.. fully.. no brownish blood or
pinkish... but full on red. I am soo
happy! I started to cry and thanked God. I
am going to start something from this..
both my boyfriend and I are. If you are
responsible for a child, then dont have
sex. My life almost crashed in front of my
eyes, and there wasn't a thing i could do.
Abstinece is the ONLY way to keep your
life calm and safe. With any type of
sexual conections to your boyfriend.. you
get sucked in somehting that is terribe..
both my and my boyfriend felt our lives
start to hurt.. and we couldnt' figure otu
why until we decided NO MORE! THank you SO
much for all you rhelp and kind words! I
love you all so much.
