Please Help Me, I Dont Know What to Do Posted: 09-03-07 13:49pm
Help, me, im distraught. Im a teenage boy.
I went to a friends sleepover, and over
night, i wet the bed. I dont have a
history of bedwetting by the way. I tried
desperatly to cover it up by blaming it on
his pet dog, but i dont think he believed
me. Now what do i do? I can never go back
to the boys house again because his family
know, and have proabaly had to clean it
up. He has older sisters who probably find
it funny. Im denying it, but he thinks it
was me and now he is going to tell all my
friends and everyone else, and my social
life will be ruined. Im just so
distraught, embarrassed and depressed.
What cann i possibly do?
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 09-03-07 13:52pm
oh hun im sorry
you know ive had some very embarassing
moments in my life
one time someone pulled my pants down at
school. it was horrible because i was on
my period and so i had a pad on
i was a cheerleader and everyone knew me
it sucked
but you know the best way is to just laugh
it off with everyone else
its not a big deal ya know? so what you
had to pee? you cant help it! its not your
fault!
and if that boy is your friend then he wil
not spread it around
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gashead
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Sep 2007 Posts: 6 Location: UK
Posted: 09-03-07 14:03pm
but do i just admit it and be really
embarrassed or continue with the lame "the
pet dog peed on e" story?
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 09-03-07 14:08pm
if someone brings it up then just go on
with your story
they dont know
they werent there!!!!!
kids are cruel these days and im sorry
that you had to expiereince that
i know i wouldnt laugh about it. its just
not funny to me
everyone has to pee ya know?
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victoria16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
Posted: 09-03-07 14:31pm
Hey,
Sorry to hear about what happend that must
have been very embarasing.
If I were I would stick to your storie no
one needs to know the truth its none of
thier buisness rite? People may even think
your friend is lying...if you stick to
your storie. Hope this
helped
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gashead
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Sep 2007 Posts: 6 Location: UK
Posted: 09-03-07 14:33pm
thanks guys, that makes me feel better
im still going to be paranoid about it for
quite some time tho....
and how do i act to his family if i go
back to his house?
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 09-03-07 14:40pm
gashead
wrote:
thanks guys, that makes me
feel better
im still going to be paranoid about it for
quite some time tho....
and how do i act to his family if i go
back to his
house?
i would be like " if that dog pees on me
one more time im going to cut his wee wee
off"
his family shouldnt care either
if they like and respect you they will
leave it alone
its natural to be paranoid and scared and
embarassed
if you need anything i here ok and also
let us know in a few days how it all
goes
good luck!
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victoria16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
Posted: 09-03-07 14:43pm
the_girlfreind
wrote:
gashead
wrote:
thanks guys, that makes me
feel better
im still going to be paranoid about it for
quite some time tho....
and how do i act to his family if i go
back to his
house?
i would be like " if that dog pees on me
one more time im going to cut his wee wee
off"
his family shouldnt care either
if they like and respect you they will
leave it alone
its natural to be paranoid and scared and
embarassed
if you need anything i here ok and also
let us know in a few days how it all
goes
good luck!
EXACTLY!!! They should not care. I mean
seriously thier dog peed on you, rite?
*wink wink* They should feel bad. Im sure
they wont treat you any differently then
before. I understand why you would feel
paranoid and embarassed I would to but it
will pass in time.
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gashead
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Sep 2007 Posts: 6 Location: UK
Posted: 09-03-07 14:54pm
thank you both so much
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victoria16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
Posted: 09-03-07 14:59pm
gashead
wrote:
thank you both so much
Anytime.
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 09-03-07 15:05pm
no problem
thats what we are here for lol
but seriously if you need anything just Pm
me anytime ok? i have no life so im on
this forum all day long
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gashead
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Sep 2007 Posts: 6 Location: UK
Posted: 09-04-07 05:24am
ive been invited out with a bunch of
friends including THE friend
im scared to go....
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 09-04-07 12:10pm
gashead
wrote:
ive been invited out with a
bunch of friends including THE friend
im scared to
go....
ahh go for it! if they invited you out
then the obviously want to be friends with
you still
have you talked to any of them over the
phone or anything?
i know its scary but you really cant avoid
them your whole life ya know?
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gashead
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Sep 2007 Posts: 6 Location: UK
Posted: 09-04-07 16:53pm
it went well i think, nobody said anything
to my face. Im still worried that they are
talking behind my back however...