Trying to Ceonceive After Miscarriage Posted: 09-03-07 13:53pm
Hi
My Names Eva I Am 18 And In Feb This Year
I Lost My Baby Ever Since I Have Wanted To
Try For Another...Do You Think This Is
Wrong Or Is It Ok?
When I 1St Got Preggz I Wasnt Planning For
A Baby But AFter Seeing My Baby On The
Screen I Was Over Happy.
Please Give Me View On What I Should Do.
xx
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victoria16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
Posted: 09-03-07 14:08pm
Hey,
Sorry for your loss. Well I understand
were your coming from I'm 16 and im
pregnant Im very excited but I know it
would be better if this happend at later
time in my life, however I wouldnt trade
being pregnant for anything. My and my
fiance are very excited. BUT just think of
this, you can always try for a baby again
when your older out school have a good
paying job, a house, merried, etc. You
want your baby to be born into the best
possable situation, you know? Well hope
this helped. Feel free to private message
if you feel like talking.
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Saragirl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2007 Posts: 41 Location: , Canada
Posted: 09-26-07 22:10pm
Hey there. I'm Sara. When I was 18 I also
got preggers. It wasn't planned but both
my boyfriend and I were super thrilled
too. I lost it at about 8ish weeks I
think. It was horrible. Every time I saw a
baby or someone with a baby I would break
down and cry. I am now 19 and due again in
November, just before I turn 20. At first
I wanted to wait before I was out of
college to try again, but as time wore on,
I just felt worse, like I couldn't go on
anymore. Sorry to make that so depressing.
Anyways, I am now living with the father,
who hass a decent job, and we are planning
on getting engaged soon. Do what you feel
is right. I'm sorry for your loss
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Posted: 10-03-07 11:35am
Personally I think although it is very
tragic that you lost your child, nothing
can replace that and I think mentally you
were so prepared for a baby and that is
why you are trying to replace that void.
Trust me being young and a mommy is
verrryyy hard wait a little while will
your emotionally physcially FINANCIALLY
stable enough to provide the best possible
life for your child!
Well I understand
were your coming from I'm 16 and im
pregnant Im very excited but I know it
would be better if this happend at later
time in my life, however I wouldnt trade
being pregnant for anything. My and my
fiance are very excited. BUT just think of
this, you can always try for a baby again
when your older out school have a good
paying job, a house, merried, etc. You
want your baby to be born into the best
possable situation, you know? Well hope
this helped. Feel free to private message
if you feel like talking.
