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Manda11907
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Tips on ttc please!
Posted: 09-04-07 23:43pm
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soo me and my boyfriend have been trying
for a baby now for like 4 or 5
months...and it just seems like it dosent
happen...we really want this and it just
seems like it dont work for us... i no it
takes a while wen ttc.. but i dont no if
maybe im just getting my self to excited
and we want one so bad that we get
ourselves worked up and then nothing... it
just seems like everyone who isnt ready or
arent trying are haven babies..and my
sister she just had her second and its
like she dont even have to try that long
and it just happens...is there ne advice
ne one can give me?... id really aperciate
it...
i also try to keep track of my cycles but
it just seems like they are different
every month... i used to have them regular
ever month untill we started ttc... also..
i no i need to quit but can smoken
ciggerettes lessen ur chance?
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victoria16
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Posted: 09-05-07 18:44pm
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| Manda11907
wrote: | soo me and my boyfriend have
been trying for a baby now for like 4 or 5
months...and it just seems like it dosent
happen...we really want this and it just
seems like it dont work for us... i no it
takes a while wen ttc.. but i dont no if
maybe im just getting my self to excited
and we want one so bad that we get
ourselves worked up and then nothing... it
just seems like everyone who isnt ready or
arent trying are haven babies..and my
sister she just had her second and its
like she dont even have to try that long
and it just happens...is there ne advice
ne one can give me?... id really aperciate
it...
i also try to keep track of my cycles but
it just seems like they are different
every month... i used to have them regular
ever month untill we started ttc... also..
i no i need to quit but can smoken
ciggerettes lessen ur
chance? |
Hey Manda11907,
My name is Victoria, Im 16 and pregnant.
It can take time to get pregnant, me n my
fiance werent trying to get pregnant but
it happend. We werent exactly using proper
percausions though. So it took us 10
months to get pregnant. But yes smoking
could affect you getting pregnant and if
your trying to get pregnant you shouldnt
be smoking. Im sure it will happen when
the time is rite. 
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Manda11907
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Posted: 09-05-07 18:51pm
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yea thats wat i figured i no that people
say it dont really lessen ur chance it
just a good idea to quit cuz ur gunna have
to quit neways once u get pregnant....but
i just dont understand becuz we have
unprotected sex like everyday and still
nuttin...i no that my mom had a lot of
miscarriages and stuff when she was trying
to have my brother and i am just concerned
i may not be able to get pregnant...i mena
i no theres onli one time a month u
ovulate but we have sex like everyday and
still nuttin
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Manda11907
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Posted: 09-05-07 18:56pm
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oh and by the way congrats on being
pregnant...i am really happy for u...
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Posted: 09-05-07 18:57pm
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It takes the average couple 1 year to
conceive. It may seem like you've been
tryin for a long time, but you only have
an approximately 25% chance to get
pregnant every month. Even if you have sex
4 times a day. 
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Manda11907
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Posted: 09-05-07 19:10pm
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that really sux...we really wanna have a
baby and i no it takes a while it just
seems like nething we do just dosent work
for us
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victoria16
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Posted: 09-05-07 19:20pm
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| Manda11907
wrote: | | that really sux...we really
wanna have a baby and i no it takes a
while it just seems like nething we do
just dosent work for
us |
THANK YOU!! And Im sorry
your having a hard time geting preagnant,
it must be frusterating especially when
you see people getting preagnant be
accident huh? or with one try. 
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Manda11907
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Posted: 09-05-07 19:26pm
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yea it just seems like all the people who
dont wan babies are getting pregnant and
other people try once or twice and then
they get pregnant...like my sister...and
all the other people who are doin
that....i am gunna keep tryin i mean i get
depressed wen i get a negative but im
gunna keep trying till i am
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victoria16
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Posted: 09-05-07 19:35pm
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| Manda11907
wrote: | | yea it just seems like all
the people who dont wan babies are getting
pregnant and other people try once or
twice and then they get pregnant...like my
sister...and all the other people who are
doin that....i am gunna keep tryin i mean
i get depressed wen i get a negative but
im gunna keep trying till i
am |
Its more common then I think people know.
Its hard to get pregnant thiese days....
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Manda11907
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Posted: 09-05-07 19:44pm
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yea i no its soo hard...and sometimes i
get really depressed and discouraged
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victoria16
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Posted: 09-05-07 19:46pm
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| Manda11907
wrote: | | yea i no its soo hard...and
sometimes i get really depressed and
discouraged |
Dont get discouraged, like I said earlier.
It will happen when the time is rite. As
Ive see other people say "sending baby
dust your way."
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Manda11907
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Posted: 09-05-07 23:06pm
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i try not to...its hard not to tho
sumtimes...thank u so much for the baby
dust...and i guess ill keep posting...ne
other advice that can be given to me would
be great thankss
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Posted: 09-05-07 23:08pm
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manda
it takes a healthy avg couple a year to
concieve
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Manda11907
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Posted: 09-05-07 23:11pm
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yea i no i have seen and heard that so
much every where i go...its just hard like
i said seeing all these people who got
pregnant wen they werent trying to and all
the people who try and it happenes
immeditaly...it just seems i get
discouraged after i get a negative on the
test...i just get so excited and it seems
like it is happening and then i get let
down wen i see the test result
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Posted: 09-05-07 23:12pm
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i know its hard but dont give up
it happens when its meant to happen
have sex everyother day
do it ALOT lol
it took me 7 months of not trying
im 26 weeks pregnant friday
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Manda11907
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Posted: 09-05-07 23:16pm
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i try not to...and i do have sex like
every day or every other day lol...so we
do try alot...thats whats makes it hard
cuz we can go everday haven sex or every
other day and it just seems like it never
happenes...well congrats on ur
pregnancy...i dont no maybe i just get
myself to pumped up each month or sumtin
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victoria16
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Posted: 09-05-07 23:24pm
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| Manda11907
wrote: | | i try not to...and i do have
sex like every day or every other day
lol...so we do try alot...thats whats
makes it hard cuz we can go everday haven
sex or every other day and it just seems
like it never happenes...well congrats on
ur pregnancy...i dont no maybe i just get
myself to pumped up each month or
sumtin |
Hey maybe pregnancy is just around the
corner and our do dates will be around the
same time wouldnt that be cool? lol Well
keep your chin up. I hope you get preger.
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Manda11907
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Posted: 09-05-07 23:27pm
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yea sure hope so...lol...so how far along
are u ..i am assuming very beginning if u
said close due dates if i got preg
soon...lol...u mite have told me how far
along but i dont rember lol....yea i hope
so too...thank u soo much
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victoria16
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Posted: 09-05-07 23:32pm
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| Manda11907
wrote: | | yea sure hope so...lol...so
how far along are u ..i am assuming very
beginning if u said close due dates if i
got preg soon...lol...u mite have told me
how far along but i dont rember lol....yea
i hope so too...thank u soo
much |
You assumed rite, I just found out 4 days
ago or so. Im 3-4 weeks not sure exactly
though. SO Im not to far in.
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Manda11907
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Posted: 09-05-07 23:37pm
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thats reallly kool...i can tell ur really
happy and excited...so how does it feel to
be pregger??
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