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samatha420
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004
Posts: 12
Location: cali
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Well Girls, I messed U P........:(
Posted: 03-22-04 01:01am
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Well girls, im sorry, I messed up again, I
met up with an old friend, and we scored
some coke, I know most of you will prolly
tell me this aint the place, but it kinda
is, cuz im pregnant......I dont know what
to do, I feel so guilty now.......I thik I
might want to give this one up for
adtoption too. I still dont think im
ready for kids, when I found out I was
pregnant again, I was so happy, (some of
you know that) but now that I messed up, I
dont think im responsible anough to have a
child, and I dont want to get an
abortion.....I havent made my deceion yet.
When I do im going to call the family tha
has my other 2 girls.....Help me! What
should I
do.....??????????????????????????????????/
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BabyP
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Feb 2004
Posts: 360
Location: Maryland, Tennessee
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Posted: 03-22-04 01:10am
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Thats messed up! Sorry to be harsh, but I
have no words for you.... How can you
even come in here and ask something like
that,...."what do we think". In my
opinion you dont deserve to be a
mother!!!!!! God lemmi stop b 4 I say
some thing really mean!!!!!!!
Pamala & mjy blatter baby jaylynn
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honeycoco
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003
Posts: 375
Location: georgia
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Posted: 03-22-04 01:31am
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Maybe you should give that baby up for
adoption so it can go to a responsible
family. Someone who wont smoke coke when
they know their pregnant. You put your
needs before that baby hopefully that baby
wont be addicted.
Chrystal!
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 03-22-04 01:32am
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You are sick. No other words. But yes,
give up your baby. So maybe it can go to
a home where it won't be abused. Because
doing drugs while you know you are preggy
is abuse!
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Posted: 03-22-04 02:10am
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You dont deserve the blessing of being
pregnant-do u know what you're doing to
your unborn child? U need to sort
yourself out because you cant go on like
that
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 03-22-04 02:22am
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I'm sorry about everything that happened
to you.....But do that baby and any future
baby a favor......Give it up for adoption
and then have your tubes tied. You have
no right to be a mother. How could you
knowingly do something that could be so
harmful to your child?!?!?! Ach....You
disgust me.
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004
Posts: 1436
Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
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Posted: 03-22-04 02:30am
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Wow...My god.. I pray that u give
this baby up for adoption (baby # 3 or
4???!) and I hope u dont get pregnant for
a long long time....U need to be more
careful and do everything in ur power not
to get pregnant.. U should be
thinking about your baby, not yourself.
U know coke is terrible! I would
call tthe doc to see what he thinks.
How far along r u anyhow? If ur a
good person somewhere at all u will give
him/her up to a family who knows their
ready and wont jepordize the babys life
like u just did. How old r u?!!?
Also. . Obviously your not trying too
hard not to get preg if u keep getting
pregnant and giving them away because u
cant take care of them! Here u are
writing us up a whole long sap story of
your hard life and how ur dad was also the
dad of your children and how ur clean now,
and everyone sat there apoligizing to u
and congratulating, and then a week later
u come back and ur back to the same old
damn thing..God I would get my tubes tied
if I were u! I dont know when u will be
ready for kids.
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004
Posts: 765
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Posted: 03-22-04 07:14am
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This is unacceptable. I hope this girl is
a fake cause I just cannot fathom someone
doing this to their child(ren). Give it
up to someone who can care for it. Make
sure your baby lives too. You are right,
you cannot be a mother since you have no
self control and discipline. Get help for
yourself
meg
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JillMarie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 03-22-04 07:52am
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You should give the baby up if you cant
keep your caca together. And you need to
get on a good form of birth control so you
dont have anymore kids.
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kitty_55
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Posts: 1473
Location: Canada
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Posted: 03-22-04 07:52am
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I hate how women who are preggy do sh*t
that might hurt the baby..Doing drugs
smoking ciggs and drinking. You are so
lucky to be able to have 2 kids already
and having another one! You should give
ur baby up for adoption. You dont dersve
to have this baby! You need to give ur
baby everything it needs to be healthy and
by doing coke its not helping it. I know
its hard trying to quit drugs when ur so
additced but have 2 kids and another one
on the way!!! Wake up and see how bad it
is doing drugs when ur preggy even when ur
not...I myself smoke weed alot..But if I
ever found out I was preggy I would stop
it would be soooo hard but I would just
have to do it.
Alison xoxo
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004
Posts: 1705
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 03-22-04 07:57am
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Girl you need to be smacked real real
really g hard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You need to
learn to keep your legs closed! Quit
having kids if you can't take care of
them! God, I can only imagine what that
other family who has your children things.
"hmmm why does she keep getting
pregnant" you look like a really crack
prostitute!
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Scarf
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Feb 2004
Posts: 1062
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Posted: 03-22-04 09:59am
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I really dont agree with what you did and
it does make me mad but I dont like how
everyone is handling this. You did come
here for advice, we shouldnt yell and/or
call you names. I personally think that
you should give this child up for
adoption. You said it yourself, you dont
think you're ready to be a mom. And you
wont be ready until you are completely
free of drugs. Stay away from anything
that can jepordize (sp?) your babies
health, stay healthy until the child is
born, give it up for adoption, then go
back to the life *you* want to live. Go
on birth control until you are strong
enough to resist drugs. Go to rehab and
stay there until you are ready to
leave...Unless drugs is the life you want
to live. Im only thinking about the baby
and any of your future children. You
should be more aware about your childs
health and stop being greedy (sorry but
its true, anyone who does what you did is
greedy) I hope that this feeling of guilt
that you have will help you change into a
more cautious and caring woman. Good luck
with everything,
shannon
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kitty_55
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Posts: 1473
Location: Canada
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Posted: 03-22-04 14:08pm
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I was just wondering how old u r?
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004
Posts: 1436
Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
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Posted: 03-22-04 21:11pm
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Maybe she doesnt wanan write back now cuz
she was expecting us to be nicer to
her...
Scarf, I understand what u mean, yeah we
werent nice and were yelling, but thing is
I mean sometimes thats what it takes, its
not like this is her first kid, I mean 3
kids and still not changing? She doesnt
deserve a break or for people to be nice
to her to right now. All I can think
about is the 3 children
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elfin
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Mar 2004
Posts: 50
Location: Australia
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Posted: 03-22-04 22:19pm
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I agree with you kari, obviously she
deserved a second chance after the first
baby but now this is the third! Its
totally irressponsible and absolutely
horrible thing to be doing to that baby.
All I can say to that girl is stop feeling
sorry for yourself and do something about
it. Help your baby above anything else!
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 03-23-04 00:23am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-14-04 09:33am; edited 1 time in total
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004
Posts: 1705
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 03-23-04 02:22am
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I am not going to apologize for being
rude!!! She deserves everything I said
to her and I hope god dosen't give her
anymore children because she dosen't
deserve them. I feel truly bad for those
kids. Thank god they are with a better
family.
Sara ~n~ jayden
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 03-23-04 02:34am
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I hate it when girls give there babies up
and dont learn . I mean if you cant
handle one use protection or dont have
sex. I mean why would you keep having
babies. That is so cold hearted.
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