Im new here, and I guess I need advice on
how to handle my relationship of 4 years
on and off. We started out friends, him
wanting me as more but my feelings grew
for him. We were together but very on and
off for 2 years, and in that time the off
time I had seen other people him as well.
Well the time came where I made the full
comittment and that has been a straight 2
years of me fully being everything he can
ask for. I go above and beyond for him,
he is sweet at time but very jealous, and
brings up the past a lot. He made me drop
all my friends that he didnt like, and the
few I was left with became none at all,
not allowed to go out, not even stop at a
gas station for a water, wont take me out
to have a drink in a club or lounge just
wants to go where he wants. Recently
things have become worse, I got pregnant
for a second time (first one abortion),
and he wanted to keep it at first but
financially hes not ready, so we decided
to have another abortion, (Im extremely
upset). Explainng other things he like to
hang out with his friends, have his time
to himself but wants me home or somewhere
with someone he approves of. The night
before the abortion I wanted him there he
was taking me the next day but i wanted to
spend the night with him, well he pulled
an problem move and said "Im haning out
with my boys", tonight has nothing to do
with tomorrow calling me a pyscho because
I was crying hysterical and calling him
non-stop. I went to my aunts house she
took me the next day and I never called
him, he called hours after and left a
message saying HE wasnt mad and hes sorry
for the way things turned out I didnt here
from him in days he called twice but I
never picked up. I saw him 5 days after
this abortion and he chased me down in his
car and made me talk to him held me and
wouldnt let me go, saying he was sorry he
was in love with me and he cant live
without me practiacally crying. Saying I
broke up with him because I never let him
take me and left him that night he was
just upset to see me go through it and
didnt no how to handle it. Well guess
what while talking to him I saw a hickey
on his neck, so I told him to f$$K off and
leave me alone he called a few times and I
said its over he said hes in love and
hopes I forgive him but that he was single
and hes sorry. WHAT DO I DO, I still love
him, and never did know how to handle
leaving or staying I just need some advice
from outside sources. Thankyou so much to
whoever responds !
