Jules
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How Do You Think Abortion Is Perceived In Society?
Posted: 09-06-07 09:52am
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This question will likely be answered
differently based on the country you live
in, your background, personal experience
etc.
From my experience, abortion is always
something that is spoken about in whispers
and as if it is a shameful thing. It's
not something one admits to having had
done themselves in general conversation.
If the abortion was for medical reasons
then there is usually sympathy and
understanding but I find that the subject
of elective abortions is still very much a
taboo subject and one that causes
judgements to be made about the woman in
question.
What are your experiences of the attitude
to abortion?
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meblonde01
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Posted: 09-06-07 11:24am
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I feel the majority of people would react
a somewhat shameful way. Usually when a
person says they had an abortion or are
going to have one the response is
“why” or “oh” or with some kind of
word that expresses concern. Even with
abortions being legal for as many years
that it has, it is still a procedure that
most people don’t take lightly. Or shrug
off like it’s no big deal.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-06-07 12:11pm
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Definitely shameful. I remember in high
school the worst thing that spread about a
certain girl- "She's had three abortions,
you know...."
Having an abortion=being a promiscuous
person.
I wonder how that will be censored. 
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Jincks013
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Posted: 09-06-07 14:28pm
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I think it depends as much on location as
country its in. I am orginally from the
Pacific Northwest area of the United
States; Washington State in fact and the
general attitude was that it is a womans
choice but if you were to go to say
Missouri and say you'd had an abortion
your likely to be socially lynched if not
actually lynched.
unfortunately many equate having had an
abortion with 'loose' behavior but those
same goody goods who look down finely
pointed noses are the same ones who cluck
self rightously at an unmarried pregnant
women/girl who is nearby. They turn a
blind eye to the kid next door having a
black eye and titter in after church
gossip groups about what nelly next door
did last night and she's on her third
boyfriend this week!!! did you see her
skirt is a bit tight? Doc brenson says
she's pregnant... yada yada yada..
Seems like its entirely an area affect.
The closer you get the bible belt in the
U.S. the farther rational though and
respect for personal business goes away..
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 09-06-07 15:39pm
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I think many of you are right about how
abortions are discussed out loud in
society, but I think in people's private
thoughts, most of them are grateful that
abortion is legal, and the thought of it
being outlawed horrifies them.
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 09-06-07 15:39pm
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I have to admit that although i have
always considered myself to be pro-choice,
I am guilty of having once attached
negative connotations to the idea of a
woman I knew actually having one. I no
longer feel that way, but it always seemed
when i was young it was some ficticious
person having the procedure, not someone I
knew. Then Someone I knew had one, and I
discovered that even people who aren't
promiscuous and don't sleep around have
abortions.  So
I think that many people have this stigma,
even prochoice (not everone, but I think
it still exists). It is unfortunate.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-06-07 16:06pm
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I think that it might have to do with age
and experience too, as we get older and
experience people who actually have to go
through these things we get wiser and less
judgmental. It's easy to say lots of
things are wrong when you're a kid and
idealistic.
I was a VERY idealistic kid. 
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Posted: 09-06-07 20:55pm
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| Georgia59
wrote: | I think that it might have
to do with age and experience too, as we
get older and experience people who
actually have to go through these things
we get wiser and less judgmental. It's
easy to say lots of things are wrong when
you're a kid and idealistic.
I was a VERY idealistic kid.  |
I'm not idealistic and I have never
changed my mind about what I think of
abortion nor it will ever change. And I
have grown older and wiser already and
still think abortion is WRONG.
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Jincks013
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Posted: 09-06-07 21:06pm
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| Georgia59
wrote: | I think that it might have
to do with age and experience too, as we
get older and experience people who
actually have to go through these things
we get wiser and less judgmental. It's
easy to say lots of things are wrong when
you're a kid and idealistic.
I was a VERY idealistic kid.  |
I think you are right. When we are young
we are full of black and white clear cut
answers; as time goes and we gain
knowledge and maturity we realize there is
very little black and white but many
shades of grey.
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Posted: 09-06-07 22:34pm
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By society, I feel abortion is accepted as
a necessary thing. I refuse to say "evil"
because that attaches a religious morality
to it.
No, I don't think most people like
abortion. Death is involved, death of a
thing that could become a baby. That's not
pretty, it's not nice.
But like viewing an art gallery about the
Civil Rights Movement, we realize that
although abortion is not a beautiful
thing, it is still needed and it is still
important in so many ways.
Abortion is hard to look at and discuss.
However, I think that many people who get
a chance to talk to a woman who aborted
come away from the conversation with a
quiet layer of respect in their minds - if
their minds are open.
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Posted: 09-07-07 10:40am
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| nightangel73
wrote: | | Georgia59
wrote: | I think that it might have
to do with age and experience too, as we
get older and experience people who
actually have to go through these things
we get wiser and less judgmental. It's
easy to say lots of things are wrong when
you're a kid and idealistic.
I was a VERY idealistic kid.  |
I'm not idealistic and I have never
changed my mind about what I think of
abortion nor it will ever change. And I
have grown older and wiser already and
still think abortion is
WRONG. |
How old are you?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-07-07 15:51pm
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She's like 32 or something.
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