I am a 19 year old girl from the
Netherlands, since i start masturbating
several years ago i started to feel a lot
of clitoral pain after a while of painless
stimulation. At first i can stimulate my
clitoris without any problems, i am
completely aroused and it feels great, but
after a while of painless stimulation
(variating from 30 seconds to several
minutes) it starts to hurt a lot wich
makes me stop stimulating.
Since 2 and a half year i got a boyfriend,
and when he stimulates me I got the same
problem. We tried both masturbation as
Oral sex but without any results. We even
tried using a vibrator but nothing seems
to work. The feeling is absolutly great,
and i am completely aroused but no matter
where, in what conditions or how we
stimulate i still get that pain. Because
of this i am not aroused any longer, the
sex stops instantly and therefore i
have’nt been able of achieving an
orgasm in my life. My libido is much lower
because of this.
I really want to know what i should do,
because i want to have sex longer, more
often and most of all i want an
orgasm(wich i can’t achieve during
intercourse either). Is there someone here
with the same problems and maby solutions?
Can we do something about it? do i have to
go to surgery or is it something else??
thanks for your help
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-06-07 21:57pm
Definitely not surgery! O.o
It could be many things.
1. If you are directly stimulating the
clitoris itself instead of rubbing the
clitoral hood, you could be making it raw
from friction.
2. If you use the hood, it could still be
friction-caused due to a lack of
lubrication.
More lube in either case should help
relieve the pain. I get the sense it may
be due to friction, since it happens part
of the way in and not immediately.
