Marfa2107
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Posted: 09-09-07 19:23pm
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so..
yesterday my boyfriend left my house
around 10:30am to go "see his nephew"...
well i still hadn't heard from him (he has
no phone) by around 5pm tonight.
his mom called my phone asking if i had
heard from him...
nope sure haven't
well, she proceeds to tell me that he left
for Kansas City yesterday afternoon
with a friend and she hadn't heard from
him since he left around
3pm.(yesterday)....
i'm worried but i'm also MAD to the point
i'm shaking..
so he doesn't have a phone..but his mom
does, his sister does, and the friend
he left with does...
why couldn't he take the time to call and
tell me he was going to KC?
what would you do?
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Posted: 09-09-07 19:34pm
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Umm, I'd definitely be mad. I wonder why
he didn't give you a heads up? "FYI, I'm
heading out of state. Kisses!" You know,
something! I don't want to put any ideas
in your head, but what reason would he
have to leave that out? 
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Marfa2107
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Posted: 09-09-07 19:35pm
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that's exactly what i'm thinking...
ugh..
i'm really worried...
but the minute i find out he's okay...
i have no idea what i'm going to do
=(
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Posted: 09-09-07 19:38pm
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I don't know, sweetie 
I know what I'd do, but I wouldn't tell
anyone else to do the same.
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Posted: 09-09-07 19:38pm
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Martha, do not let him get away with it.
I'm in no position to give love advice,
but honestly, give it to him good. If you
don't say anything to him about it, he'll
keep doing it. If you let him get away
with it, just because you'll be so
relieved when he gets home, he'll think he
can keep doing it. Don't let him get away
with it, ring his neck.
& make him get a job, like you're
talking about.
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Marfa2107
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Posted: 09-09-07 19:40pm
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this was the last straw
i swear
this has put me over the edge...
i wanna go hunt him down but there is no
way i'd find him in KC
and i have a test in geography
tomorrow...
ugh i'm too nice =(
i need to get mean..
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 09-09-07 19:42pm
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Maybe when he gets back, ask him "how's
your nephew?" and see if he even knows
what you're talking about. 
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Marfa2107
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Posted: 09-09-07 19:44pm
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oh they went and saw him
they went to chuck e cheese around 1pm
yesterday
when he had to leave my house at 10:30
but i don't think they stayed more than an
hour..
i'm thinking about saying "so how was
kc??"
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Posted: 09-09-07 19:48pm
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girl I'd totally lay into him. Hes got no
right taking off like that without
letting you know. Thats untrustworthy and
makes it look like he has something to
hide.
On the other hand, ur not his mom so he
technically doesn't have to answer to
you.. especially since you guys aren't
married, and have no kids.
But it all comes down to being
considerate, which he wasn't. If you two
plan to have a future together you have to
learn how to communicate and be able to
trust each other.
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Marfa2107
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Posted: 09-09-07 19:51pm
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well,
i have a right to know...
he'd be PISSED if i went to KC and didn't
tell him...
he has no job
he has a truck but since his mom lost her
car..she has his truck and just
drives him everywhere...
he has no phone..
but his mom can call my phone and yell at
us b/c my phone is on vibrate
and i don't hear with when i sleep...
he's 23yrs. old he needs to grow up
i'm just fed up with being the only one
trying to keep this relationship going.
i'm going to tell him that he has 2wks to
get a job
and if he doesn't we're over...
bc i deserve a lot more than this...
and i'm going to lay into him when he
calls me...
**and i'm going to be EXTREMELY mad if he
has called his mom or showed up at her
house and she didn't have the courtesy to
call me and let me know he is okay..**
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Posted: 09-09-07 19:51pm
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No, he doesn't have to answer to her, but
they're in a relationship and it's
completely disrespectful to peace out
without even saying anything about it. She
deserves to know regardless of whether
they're married or not.
There are plenty of guys out there who
wouldn't bug out without letting you know
and bringing you back a souvenier.
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Posted: 09-09-07 20:00pm
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| AyaMiyaki
wrote: | No, he doesn't have to
answer to her, but they're in a
relationship and it's completely
disrespectful to peace out without even
saying anything about it. She deserves to
know regardless of whether they're married
or not.
There are plenty of guys out there who
wouldn't bug out without letting you know
and bringing you back a
souvenir. |
i said that what he did was wrong. and
that what he did was inconsiderate. and
yes, she does deserve to know since they
had planned on starting a family and being
together for a while. If it was a casual
relationship I'd say no it wasn't her
business and to find a hobby, but they are
supposed to be in it for the long haul.
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Posted: 09-09-07 20:03pm
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I'm just saying, if he wants to play the
"I don't have to answer to you" card, he
needs to bug out permanently. Lasting
relationships don't have room for that
kind of attitude.
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Marfa2107
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Posted: 09-09-07 20:04pm
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exactly
thanks for understanding guys
i just need someone to talk to =(
my mom is asleep and i my dad is at work
=(
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Posted: 09-09-07 20:06pm
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You can hit me up on MSN if you need to
chat hon
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Posted: 09-09-07 20:09pm
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thanks
it really means alot to me guys =)
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Posted: 09-09-07 20:31pm
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martha even though we are talking RIGHT
NOW on IM i just wanna let you know
that....im going to beat michael up when
he comes back. and you can beat travis iup
since he seems to think he can walk away
from me and ignore me
i wish i could just come spend the night
at your house lol
we could go get dairy queen 
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Marfa2107
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Posted: 09-09-07 20:32pm
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eeek
no more ice cream for me
that made me sick last night
=(
but yeah a sleep over would be nice right
now
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Posted: 09-09-07 20:35pm
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| Marfa2107
wrote: | eeek
no more ice cream for me
that made me sick last night
=(
but yeah a sleep over would be nice right
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fine whats about taco bell? 
ya know im really mad with michael...youve
givin him a bazillion chances to prove
himself and he keeps turning around when u
least exect it and doing so good
and then he goes and f*ks it up like this
again... he does
need a job...like terra sid make him get
one
he needs to grow up and be responsible
he needs to realize the life hes trying to
live wherever he is with whoever hes with
(greg right?) is only going to get him
into trouble
he needs you to help balance him out and
keep him on track
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