Not sure who the father is. Posted: 09-10-07 15:44pm
Please help. So depressed.
I am wondering about a few things. My
cycles were (from Nov 2006) 29 days, 29
days, 29 days, 33 days, 31 days, 29 days.
My first day of LMP was April 24th 2007. I
am in a relationship, but was flirting
with another man at that time. I had sex
with my partner on Wed, May 9th. We
started out not using a condom, but ended
up using one before he ejaculated.
I "got together" with another man on
Friday, May 11. We did not engage in
intercourse, but we were naked, lying
together. Me on top of him, him on top of
me. He never ejaculated, but am worried
about pre-ejaculate fluid.
I had sex with my partner on Saturday, May
12. Unprotected.
I am now 20 weeks pregnant. My first
sonogram showed me with a due date of
January 29th. On June 27th, I measured 9
weeks 2 days per my sonogram. Subsequent
sonograms have showed no other EDD. Most
online pregnancy calendars seem to say
that estimated conception date is earlier
in the week, mainly around May 7-9, but
not sure if that's just an estimate.
I cannot sleep at night and I am so
depressed because I am frightened that
this one-time encounter with the "other
man" might ruin my relationship with my
partner. Every time I notice a difference
in this pregnancy ( I have two children
with my partner), I worry. Am I smaller
because I am carrying another man's baby?
I am so scared. I made such a mistake, and
I am in emotional hell right now dealing
with this.
Can you please take a look at these dates
and give me your thoughts? Is it possible
to get pregnant without actually having
sex? I know I ovulated the week of May
7th, but cannot tell what day. Thank you
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Re: Please Help--- I Need Your Advice. Posted: 09-10-07 15:48pm
labellemystere
wrote:
Please help. So depressed.
I am wondering about a few things. My
cycles were (from Nov 2006) 29 days, 29
days, 29 days, 33 days, 31 days, 29 days.
My first day of LMP was April 24th 2007. I
am in a relationship, but was flirting
with another man at that time. I had sex
with my partner on Wed, May 9th. We
started out not using a condom, but ended
up using one before he ejaculated.
I "got together" with another man on
Friday, May 11. We did not engage in
intercourse, but we were naked, lying
together. Me on top of him, him on top of
me. He never ejaculated, but am worried
about pre-ejaculate fluid.
I had sex with my partner on Saturday, May
12. Unprotected.
I am now 20 weeks pregnant. My first
sonogram showed me with a due date of
January 29th. On June 27th, I measured 9
weeks 2 days per my sonogram. Subsequent
sonograms have showed no other EDD. Most
online pregnancy calendars seem to say
that estimated conception date is earlier
in the week, mainly around May 7-9, but
not sure if that's just an estimate.
I cannot sleep at night and I am so
depressed because I am frightened that
this one-time encounter with the "other
man" might ruin my relationship with my
partner. Every time I notice a difference
in this pregnancy ( I have two children
with my partner), I worry. Am I smaller
because I am carrying another man's baby?
I am so scared. I made such a mistake, and
I am in emotional hell right now dealing
with this.
Can you please take a look at these dates
and give me your thoughts? Is it possible
to get pregnant without actually having
sex? I know I ovulated the week of May
7th, but cannot tell what day. Thank
you
Unless his penis was inside you with
pre-ejaculate OR he came on your vagina,
you are not pregnant with his child.
This is something you should speak to your
doctor about privately since it is causing
you so much trauma.
