Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
My Messed Up Weekend Posted: 03-23-04 03:06am
Omg I had the worst, worst weekend ever.
I went out of town to az and I left jose
at home. But not at home, he stayed at my
moms to watch her dog and everytime I
called him he said he was bored or napping
or playing with the dogs and going to bed
early like at 9. I thought he was
actually being good til I got a call from
my sister at 1 in the morning. She said
jose was in the garage with 2 guys (the
neighbor and josh) and two hoodrats were
there too! I was so fuming I was shaking,
ive never felt so pissed off in my life,
he said his phone was dead and he was
going to sleep so we woke my sister up to
take him the phone and he was all drunk
and the hookers left and I was yelling so
much. I was ready to punch out the wall!
I told him hes never being apart of my
baby, hes getting all his caca torched and
hes going back with his mom. I never felt
so much anger before. I was so mad. And
then my sister said he took off drunk in
my car to go home. And andrea told me hes
been driving the lowlife neighbor around
all weekend and getting drunk!!! He lied
to me! I called the next morning and said
get your caca out of my house, you piece
of crap, stupid person with no brain
problem!!!!! And he was like no I love
you blah blah blah, and he tried
explaining himself and said he didnt know
who the girls were and blah blah so I went
home and I hit him and I yelled and I
cussed and I was still fuming and I was
like "you problem your gonna send me right
into a miscarriage!!!" and he was like
dont be mad, you have a baby in you! And
I yelled and yelled and told him to leave
but he kept saying sorry. I told him the
only way wed work it out is if we go to
counceling and aa classes, so he said
fine. I said you are to never talk to
that lowlife neighbor, you can no longer
drink and your ass is following me
wherever I go from now on. So he was like
ok babe. Then andrea calls me again and
the hoodrats were my enemies from down the
street, I fumed all over again! I said if
those hoodrats had the balls to go imto my
garage and they werent scared, they sure
as hell are gonna be scared when im done
with them!!!!! And to find out, they were
parked in front if my house and jose
invited them down!!! Im still pissed. I
dropped him off this morning and said you
are still on my caca list, dont think its
over!! You better say your prayers cuz
when I come home I have hell to
raise!!!!
Im still pissed right now, I have a docs
appointment today at 5:15 then I go home
and kick some a$$. Me and andrea are
going to that hoodrats house and raising
hell, jose is going to apologize to my
family and he is so much in trouble still.
Jose has been saying sorry like 80
million times, and I think he started
crying . Im still angry though, I was
ready to torch his things and send him
away.
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004 Posts: 765
Posted: 03-23-04 03:10am
Careful nikki, I know your angry but dont
do anything you will regret later. What
the hell was he thinking doing all that
stuff? Definately give him a piece of
your mind as he more than deserves it but
careful, youre pregnant and wouldnt want
your lil one to pick up on the anger....
But do what you feel is right
meg
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 03-23-04 03:12am
I know I told him he has no brain, no
common sense, hesa just a stupid drunk who
has it coming to him. And he knows that.
He says im sorry im so stupid I know im
dumb, blah blah blah. I told him hes luck
I wasnt nearby otherwise I would have
kicked some major a$$ that night
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 03-23-04 03:16am
Nikki be careful, I have told my girls
this before. You dont wanna loose the
best thing that you have going for you.
Not him but the baby I mean.
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 03-23-04 03:23am
Oh man, sorry to hear about ur
weekend...When is he gonna open his eyes?
He's gonna be a dad before he knows it,
and he's still putting so much effort into
drinking and doing stupid things...I
definitely think counseling and aa is the
way to go...And maybe u need to take a
break from him from a couple days to show
him u wont put up with the games...Put ur
foot down, and try to stay calm, the last
thing that baby needs is stress...And
about getting back at those girls, dont
even waste ur time, if they see that it
bothers u, they're going to think they
won...Dont give them that
satisfaction...Keep ur cool, and good luck
at the drs
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 03-23-04 03:33am
Thanks. Thats what I told him, I said hes
gonna be a father and hes stupid and
immmature and everything I told him he is
not gonna be there for the baby until he
straightens up and he says hes sorry he
wants to be there for our baby and stuff.
I made him cry about 15 minutes ago, I was
still lecturing him. I told him we are
going to my moms and they are gonna
lecture him too. Im gonna get home and
yell at him. Im not too stressed just
really angry, he is in big troubel. We
have aa, counceling, marriage counceling,
everything to work on his problem and he
was like why? I said this is all your
fault, blame no one but yourself
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1684 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 03-23-04 04:35am
Yes nikki please be careful!!!! I
wouldn't want you to get into a fight with
those girls and have one of them hit you
or hit you in the tummy! That would be
horrible. Guys all suck...Haha there are
very few of them who are decent!!!!!
Just stay strong.
Sara ~n~ jayden
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 03-23-04 04:45am
Im not gonna hit them, that dumb girl is
scared of me, I just need to scare her
much much more. Im so mad still. I cant
stop thinking about it. I was so mad last
night I punched the tv and threw things
everywhere. I mean I was mad. I almost
hit jose with my luggage but I stopped
myself. We start counceling tomorrow. I
think I should go to anger managment haha.
But how can that f'ing b**** have the
balls to go into my garage!!!!! And how
the hell can jose be such a stupid super
guy To invite them into his damn drunk
party f-that!!!!! What a stupid dummy he
was!!! I told him before I left to talk
to no one!!!! And he doesnt listen!!!!
How dare he think I would not find out!!!!
Errrrrr im mad all over again. Like I
said, if that hoodrat wasnt scared before,
she sure as hell is gonna be when im done
with her!!! Wait til I tell my other
sister.
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honeycoco
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 375 Location: georgia
Posted: 03-23-04 05:09am
Nikki calm down for the babys sake. I
know your pissed. He would have alot of
making up to do
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004 Posts: 765
Posted: 03-23-04 05:13am
In my opinion no one should ever upset the
female of any species especially when she
has children, that is when she is the most
frightening, I would be afraid of an angry
pregnant woman as this girl (s?) should
be. Take care of your little one ok?
Give youself a day or so to cool down and
get your bearings back. At least he was
right to admit he has no brains
whatsoever
meg
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 03-23-04 07:45am
Omg nikki-that all sounds awful but i'd
understand better if I knew what a hoodrat
was! What the hell is one of them?!!!!!
By the way,be careful with who you're
confronting because u seem quite angry now
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 03-23-04 08:39am
Lol its a scum bucket, a tramp, a hooker
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JillMarie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Dec 2003 Posts: 3022 Location: Iowa
Posted: 03-23-04 11:44am
Sorry that you had a $hitty weekend! You
know what I would tell him? That eveytime
he drinks you will too even though your
preggo! Then maybe he will put his baby
first! Dont really drink though
Hey girl! I talked to you on-line. Ya
know where I stand on this! Do it
carefully. You are preggy, you don't want
to go crazy and hurt him! Or yourself!!!!
Lol
love ya babe,
chanda
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lee25
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Dec 2003 Posts: 1018 Location: new york
Posted: 03-23-04 13:23pm
It's just sad that soo many of us have
been having problems with our men. As if
being pregnant and having to be careful
with everything that we isn't enough.
Take it easy girl, sometimes men aren't
worth caca. If you could get passed it
good luck. If not move on you have your
baby to worry about.
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