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nikki_caro

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My Messed Up Weekend
Posted: 03-23-04 03:06am

Omg I had the worst, worst weekend ever. I went out of town to az and I left jose at home. But not at home, he stayed at my moms to watch her dog and everytime I called him he said he was bored or napping or playing with the dogs and going to bed early like at 9. I thought he was actually being good til I got a call from my sister at 1 in the morning. She said jose was in the garage with 2 guys (the neighbor and josh) and two hoodrats were there too! I was so fuming I was shaking, ive never felt so pissed off in my life, he said his phone was dead and he was going to sleep so we woke my sister up to take him the phone and he was all drunk and the hookers left and I was yelling so much. I was ready to punch out the wall! I told him hes never being apart of my baby, hes getting all his caca torched and hes going back with his mom. I never felt so much anger before. I was so mad. And then my sister said he took off drunk in my car to go home. And andrea told me hes been driving the lowlife neighbor around all weekend and getting drunk!!! He lied to me! I called the next morning and said get your caca out of my house, you piece of crap, stupid person with no brain problem!!!!! And he was like no I love you blah blah blah, and he tried explaining himself and said he didnt know who the girls were and blah blah so I went home and I hit him and I yelled and I cussed and I was still fuming and I was like "you problem your gonna send me right into a miscarriage!!!" and he was like dont be mad, you have a baby in you! And I yelled and yelled and told him to leave but he kept saying sorry. I told him the only way wed work it out is if we go to counceling and aa classes, so he said fine. I said you are to never talk to that lowlife neighbor, you can no longer drink and your ass is following me wherever I go from now on. So he was like ok babe. Then andrea calls me again and the hoodrats were my enemies from down the street, I fumed all over again! I said if those hoodrats had the balls to go imto my garage and they werent scared, they sure as hell are gonna be scared when im done with them!!!!! And to find out, they were parked in front if my house and jose invited them down!!! Im still pissed. I dropped him off this morning and said you are still on my caca list, dont think its over!! You better say your prayers cuz when I come home I have hell to raise!!!!

Im still pissed right now, I have a docs appointment today at 5:15 then I go home and kick some a$$. Me and andrea are going to that hoodrats house and raising hell, jose is going to apologize to my family and he is so much in trouble still. Jose has been saying sorry like 80 million times, and I think he started crying . Im still angry though, I was ready to torch his things and send him away.
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little_woman

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Posted: 03-23-04 03:10am

Careful nikki, I know your angry but dont do anything you will regret later. What the hell was he thinking doing all that stuff? Definately give him a piece of your mind as he more than deserves it but careful, youre pregnant and wouldnt want your lil one to pick up on the anger.... But do what you feel is right

meg
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nikki_caro

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Posted: 03-23-04 03:12am

I know I told him he has no brain, no common sense, hesa just a stupid drunk who has it coming to him. And he knows that. He says im sorry im so stupid I know im dumb, blah blah blah. I told him hes luck I wasnt nearby otherwise I would have kicked some major a$$ that night
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Mesmerizeu15

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Posted: 03-23-04 03:16am

Nikki be careful, I have told my girls this before. You dont wanna loose the best thing that you have going for you. Not him but the baby I mean.
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CrombieChic16

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Posted: 03-23-04 03:23am

Oh man, sorry to hear about ur weekend...When is he gonna open his eyes? He's gonna be a dad before he knows it, and he's still putting so much effort into drinking and doing stupid things...I definitely think counseling and aa is the way to go...And maybe u need to take a break from him from a couple days to show him u wont put up with the games...Put ur foot down, and try to stay calm, the last thing that baby needs is stress...And about getting back at those girls, dont even waste ur time, if they see that it bothers u, they're going to think they won...Dont give them that satisfaction...Keep ur cool, and good luck at the drs
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nikki_caro

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Posted: 03-23-04 03:33am

Thanks. Thats what I told him, I said hes gonna be a father and hes stupid and immmature and everything I told him he is not gonna be there for the baby until he straightens up and he says hes sorry he wants to be there for our baby and stuff. I made him cry about 15 minutes ago, I was still lecturing him. I told him we are going to my moms and they are gonna lecture him too. Im gonna get home and yell at him. Im not too stressed just really angry, he is in big troubel. We have aa, counceling, marriage counceling, everything to work on his problem and he was like why? I said this is all your fault, blame no one but yourself
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Jaydensmommy

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Posted: 03-23-04 04:35am

Yes nikki please be careful!!!! I wouldn't want you to get into a fight with those girls and have one of them hit you or hit you in the tummy! That would be horrible. Guys all suck...Haha there are very few of them who are decent!!!!! Just stay strong.

Sara ~n~ jayden
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nikki_caro

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Posted: 03-23-04 04:45am

Im not gonna hit them, that dumb girl is scared of me, I just need to scare her much much more. Im so mad still. I cant stop thinking about it. I was so mad last night I punched the tv and threw things everywhere. I mean I was mad. I almost hit jose with my luggage but I stopped myself. We start counceling tomorrow. I think I should go to anger managment haha. But how can that f'ing b**** have the balls to go into my garage!!!!! And how the hell can jose be such a stupid super guy To invite them into his damn drunk party f-that!!!!! What a stupid dummy he was!!! I told him before I left to talk to no one!!!! And he doesnt listen!!!! How dare he think I would not find out!!!! Errrrrr im mad all over again. Like I said, if that hoodrat wasnt scared before, she sure as hell is gonna be when im done with her!!! Wait til I tell my other sister.
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honeycoco

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Posted: 03-23-04 05:09am

Nikki calm down for the babys sake. I know your pissed. He would have alot of making up to do
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little_woman

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Posted: 03-23-04 05:13am

In my opinion no one should ever upset the female of any species especially when she has children, that is when she is the most frightening, I would be afraid of an angry pregnant woman as this girl (s?) should be. Take care of your little one ok? Give youself a day or so to cool down and get your bearings back. At least he was right to admit he has no brains whatsoever

meg
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sparklypixie12

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Posted: 03-23-04 07:45am

Omg nikki-that all sounds awful but i'd understand better if I knew what a hoodrat was! What the hell is one of them?!!!!!
By the way,be careful with who you're confronting because u seem quite angry now
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nikki_caro

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Posted: 03-23-04 08:39am

Lol its a scum bucket, a tramp, a hooker
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JillMarie

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Posted: 03-23-04 11:44am

Sorry that you had a $hitty weekend! You know what I would tell him? That eveytime he drinks you will too even though your preggo! Then maybe he will put his baby first! Dont really drink though Laughing
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smith8500

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Location: Louisiana
Hey
Posted: 03-23-04 12:16pm

Hey girl! I talked to you on-line. Ya know where I stand on this! Do it carefully. You are preggy, you don't want to go crazy and hurt him! Or yourself!!!! Lol
love ya babe,
chanda
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lee25

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Joined: 30 Dec 2003
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Location: new york

Posted: 03-23-04 13:23pm

It's just sad that soo many of us have been having problems with our men. As if being pregnant and having to be careful with everything that we isn't enough. Take it easy girl, sometimes men aren't worth caca. If you could get passed it good luck. If not move on you have your baby to worry about.

Brenda
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