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AmandaRae123
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What Is the Role of the Vagina?
Posted: 09-13-07 16:05pm
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i am curius to know what exactly is the
role of the vagina? are you supposed to
feel amazing pleasure from a guy
thrusting, or is it the clitoris that you
are supposed to receive pleasure from?
because like some women, i feel absolutely
nothing from thrusting. and only get a
sexual response from oral sex or having my
clit stimulated
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Posted: 09-13-07 16:08pm
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only 10% of women can vaginally orgasm
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-13-07 16:15pm
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yeah, a large percentage of women can't
orgasm but at least they feel something
during sex. They just don't climax. I
don't think that the issue of women not
receiving any pleasure whatsoever from
intercourse has been discussed enough.
It's always about women who get enjoyment
out of intercourse but simply cannot
climax/orgasm. I'd love to trade places
with a woman who finds intercourse
enjoyable but can't orgasm..instead of
feeling like my coochie is numb down there
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-13-07 16:36pm
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is it normal for some women not to feel
any pleasure from plain intercourse?
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-13-07 17:02pm
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It is normal for women not to feel
pleasure during intercourse, at least not
enough to get an orgasm.
That being said, there are ways you can
fix that- positions that you can shift
around and squirm until you are feeling
pressure on your clit. Personally, I get
clitoral orgasms from sex all the time
from the pressure of his pubic area
rubbing on my clit as the penetration is
happening. If you try enough things, you
might be able to find a way that it will
feel good for you. Otherwise, stimulate
your clit during sex.
What is the purpose of the vagina? A place
for the baby to come out of and the sperm
to go into. 
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-13-07 17:07pm
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i don't see the point in stimulating my
clit just to get pleasure during sex, i
can do that alone. i feel like if i am
having sex it's because i want to get
enjoyment from a guy's penis thrusting
inside of me. you see, i have yet to get
any real enjoyment out of penetration..it
feels like nothing. what's up with that?
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-13-07 17:08pm
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Well, like I said, I don't have vaginal
orgasms either. But I have learned
different positions where his genital area
stimulates my clit and I am able to
orgasm. So it's still from sex, but a
clitoral orgasm.
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-13-07 17:13pm
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are you saying that without clitoral
stimulation you would not be able to feel
any pleasurable sensations during sex?
because if I don't rub my clit during
intercourse, sex is not pleasureable at
all.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-13-07 17:41pm
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| AmandaRae123
wrote: | are you saying that without
clitoral stimulation you would not be able
to feel any pleasurable sensations during
sex?
because if I don't rub my clit during
intercourse, sex is not pleasureable at
all. |
Yes, that is what I'm saying.
However, I can't directly rub my clit
either, that really is just painful for
me. The best way for me really is to
position myself (usually me on top) so
that my clit is rubbing against the base
of his penis. That might work for you.
I guess sex for me is pleasurable, but
that's because of the indirect clitoral
stimulation. The thrusting is nice, I
guess, but I would never get off from just
the thrusting. I agree that dildos do
nothing. Vibrators, especially the ones
the the rabbit ears that tickle your clit,
now that's something.....
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Posted: 09-13-07 18:34pm
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| Georgia59
wrote: | | AmandaRae123
wrote: | are you saying that without
clitoral stimulation you would not be able
to feel any pleasurable sensations during
sex?
because if I don't rub my clit during
intercourse, sex is not pleasureable at
all. |
Yes, that is what I'm saying.
However, I can't directly rub my clit
either, that really is just painful for
me. The best way for me really is to
position myself (usually me on top) so
that my clit is rubbing against the base
of his penis. That might work for you.
I guess sex for me is pleasurable, but
that's because of the indirect clitoral
stimulation. The thrusting is nice, I
guess, but I would never get off from just
the thrusting. I agree that dildos do
nothing. Vibrators, especially the ones
the the rabbit ears that tickle your clit,
now that's
something..... |
lol yep the rabbit ears do the
trick!!!!!!!
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Posted: 09-13-07 21:30pm
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| AmandaRae123
wrote: | | i don't see the point in
stimulating my clit just to get pleasure
during sex, i can do that alone. i feel
like if i am having sex it's because i
want to get enjoyment from a guy's penis
thrusting inside of me. you see, i have
yet to get any real enjoyment out of
penetration..it feels like nothing.
what's up with
that? |
Well unfortunately, nature decided that
your clitoris was what would get pleasure
and not the vagina. The vagina is a basket
for sperm. Some women are lucky and it
feels good to fill it. But many don't.
There is pretty much nothing you can do to
add nerves to a body part.
It's like asking why your elbow doesn't
make you orgasm. Why? Well, because it
just doesn't.
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Posted: 09-13-07 21:31pm
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| AmandaRae123
wrote: | are you saying that without
clitoral stimulation you would not be able
to feel any pleasurable sensations during
sex?
because if I don't rub my clit during
intercourse, sex is not pleasureable at
all. |
I enjoy the closeness, and it does feel
good to me to be filled; it sends a rush
down my body of tingles. But I could never
orgasm from it!
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-15-07 20:29pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | AmandaRae123
wrote: | | i don't see the point in
stimulating my clit just to get pleasure
during sex, i can do that alone. i feel
like if i am having sex it's because i
want to get enjoyment from a guy's penis
thrusting inside of me. you see, i have
yet to get any real enjoyment out of
penetration..it feels like nothing.
what's up with
that? |
Well unfortunately, nature decided that
your clitoris was what would get pleasure
and not the vagina. The vagina is a basket
for sperm. Some women are lucky and it
feels good to fill it. But many don't.
There is pretty much nothing you can do to
add nerves to a body part.
It's like asking why your elbow doesn't
make you orgasm. Why? Well, because it
just doesn't. |
I don't understand. If most women don't
feel anything from penetration, then why
do they do it so much?? I was told by many
peers that a penis inside a vagina feels
good to the woman
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Posted: 09-15-07 23:25pm
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| AmandaRae123
wrote: | | Eiri
wrote: | | AmandaRae123
wrote: | | i don't see the point in
stimulating my clit just to get pleasure
during sex, i can do that alone. i feel
like if i am having sex it's because i
want to get enjoyment from a guy's penis
thrusting inside of me. you see, i have
yet to get any real enjoyment out of
penetration..it feels like nothing.
what's up with
that? |
Well unfortunately, nature decided that
your clitoris was what would get pleasure
and not the vagina. The vagina is a basket
for sperm. Some women are lucky and it
feels good to fill it. But many don't.
There is pretty much nothing you can do to
add nerves to a body part.
It's like asking why your elbow doesn't
make you orgasm. Why? Well, because it
just doesn't. |
I don't understand. If most women don't
feel anything from penetration, then why
do they do it so much?? I was told by many
peers that a penis inside a vagina feels
good to the woman |
Because for some women it does. The
sensation of being filled is erotic, a
turn on, just like having your ear
whispered in or your breasts caressed. But
you're not going to orgasm
from these things normally!
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Posted: 09-16-07 00:41am
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| AmandaRae123
wrote: | | Eiri
wrote: | | AmandaRae123
wrote: | | i don't see the point in
stimulating my clit just to get pleasure
during sex, i can do that alone. i feel
like if i am having sex it's because i
want to get enjoyment from a guy's penis
thrusting inside of me. you see, i have
yet to get any real enjoyment out of
penetration..it feels like nothing.
what's up with
that? |
Well unfortunately, nature decided that
your clitoris was what would get pleasure
and not the vagina. The vagina is a basket
for sperm. Some women are lucky and it
feels good to fill it. But many don't.
There is pretty much nothing you can do to
add nerves to a body part.
It's like asking why your elbow doesn't
make you orgasm. Why? Well, because it
just doesn't. |
I don't understand. If most women don't
feel anything from penetration, then why
do they do it so much?? I was told by many
peers that a penis inside a vagina feels
good to the woman |
Certainly feels good for me, I love him
inside, it really gets me off..
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beachlover801
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Posted: 09-16-07 18:47pm
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every woman is different. If it doesnt
feel good to you your not alone. Alot of
women can only have an orgasm from oral or
manual stimulation. But it does feel good
to some women. I love intercourse and can
usually orgasm from it. But it all
depends on positions and mood and what
not. But you are totally normal and
nothing is wrong if that isnt what works
for you
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-16-07 20:38pm
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It's very devastating to discover that I
don't have enough nerves in my vagina to
make sexual intercourse enjoyable. All
that stuff about being told that every
woman's body is 'unique' and 'different'
doesn't help my situation. You live in a
world where most women are generally
fulfilled sexually with penetration and
that you are not one of them really hurts.
I Especially, when you are surrounded by
many other women who enjoy it and can
generally get off. Not being able to enjoy
penetration has caused problems in a past
relationship..i was told that I wasn't
normal, and that I complain too much
because I didn't find anything that worked
for me. My ex got sick of just doing oral
all the time as most guys do. How is a
relationship supposed to work out if I
fall into the minority of women who feel
nothing during intercourse? This is very
emotionally distressing. I get very
depressed everytime someone even talks
about sex.
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Posted: 09-16-07 21:39pm
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Do clitoral stimulation during vaginal. If
your partner is so close-minded he doesn't
even want to do that for you or let you do
it then he is the problem, not you. I have
to do that, millions of women have to do
that.
Like I told you, I do not orgasm because
of my vagina. I enjoy the filled feeling,
but it's not an orgasm sensation. It's
just another turn on.
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-16-07 21:43pm
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Clitoral stimulation doesn't feel as good
when a penis is inside of me. It's like
the sensation decreases. It only feels
really good when I am rubbing up against
something or when I am receving oral. I
don't know why that happens.
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Posted: 09-16-07 21:59pm
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| AmandaRae123
wrote: | | Clitoral stimulation doesn't
feel as good when a penis is inside of me.
It's like the sensation decreases. It
only feels really good when I am rubbing
up against something or when I am receving
oral. I don't know why that
happens. |
It may be because of the different
sensation of the penis that masturbating
to orgasm with the penis inside may take
longer, and it may seem less sensitive at
first. Have you ever actually orgasmed
that way?
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