With my ex, he didn't last that long.
Never got a chance to
And when I masterbate with a toy, I get so
tired of trying to make myself cum with
the dildo that I just remove it and do
without it
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-16-07 22:03pm
AmandaRae123
wrote:
No, I have never orgasmed
that way.
With my ex, he didn't last that long.
And when I masterbate with a toy, I get so
tired of trying to make myself ejaculate
with the dildo that I just remove it and
do without it
Well it's just like orgasming standing up,
it takes longer. Sounds like you need a
better man!
A tip is to masturbate half way before
being penetrated, and then finish up with
him inside of you.
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-16-07 22:17pm
Is this supposed to make the dildo/penis
feel better when it's inside of me?
Because once I am about to climax from
clitoral stimulation I couldn't care less
about a dick Honestly. I am
usually so excited that I just want to
experience it
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Posted: 09-16-07 22:19pm
AmandaRae123
wrote:
Is this supposed to make the
dildo/penis feel better when it's inside
of me? Because once I am about to climax
from clitoral stimulation I couldn't care
less about a penis Honestly. I am
usually so excited that I just want to
experience it
Don't go that far lol XD
And yes, it may in fact feel better to
have the penis/dildo inside if you're
already really into it. Secondly, you
won't have to work as long with the
penis/dildo inside in order to reach
orgasm, thus solving the issue of "I take
to long to orgasm with something inside of
me, and my men don't last that long."
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-17-07 12:47pm
I tried it last night and I still felt the
usual discomfort with the dildo inside of
me
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Posted: 09-17-07 13:39pm
AmandaRae123
wrote:
I tried it last night and I
still felt the usual discomfort with the
dildo inside of
me
Wait, now you have discomfort? Before it
was just "no pleasure"...
We're not necessarily trying to fix you,
but we're trying to make it so you can
orgasm in some way with a penis or dildo
inside of you. Did you manage to orgasm
with the dildo inside?
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-17-07 13:52pm
I bought a dildo that was very slender and
around 6.5 inches, so I won't feel that
much discomfort. I still feel discomfort
but it's not overwhelming like a guy's
penis or a regular sized dildo. The
bigger the penis gets the more discomfort
I feel. I don't know why. I try to
stretch my walls out by moving it around
every which way to try to loosen myself
up..
Also, I notice that when I am turned on
with a dildo inside of me(from rubbing my
clit), my muscles contract or something
and it hurts. I can feel my vagina
tightening around the dildo and I have to
stop.
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Posted: 09-17-07 20:33pm
AmandaRae123
wrote:
I bought a dildo that was
very slender and around 6.5 inches, so I
won't feel that much discomfort. I still
feel discomfort but it's not overwhelming
like a guy's penis or a regular sized
dildo. The bigger the penis gets the more
discomfort I feel. I don't know why. I
try to stretch my walls out by moving it
around every which way to try to loosen
myself up..
Also, I notice that when I am turned on
with a dildo inside of me(from rubbing my
clit), my muscles contract or something
and it hurts. I can feel my vagina
tightening around the dildo and I have to
stop.
The contractions are supposed to happen I
believe, and normally they feel good.
I honestly feel you need to go to a sex
therapist, as it sounds like there is
something physical and something mental
going on here.
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-17-07 23:32pm
I don't know where to go to see a sex
therapist. I am low income with no money.
And besides, I don't have a man and it'
snot like anybody wants me. Especially
with all this baggage I have with sex.
I'll just deal with it
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Posted: 09-17-07 23:34pm
AmandaRae123
wrote:
I don't know where to go to
see a sex therapist. I am low income with
no money. And besides, I don't have a man
and it' snot like anybody wants me.
Especially with all this baggage I have
with sex. I'll just deal with
it
hun its a mental thing i think
for some reason your brain keeps telling
you that you cant enjoy it
i think it maybe a self esteem issue?
Honestly. I am
usually so excited that I just want to
experience it