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Relationship between obesity, weight, and attraction Posted: 09-05-07 23:11pm
How important is obesity or weight in
terms of attraction?
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nightangel73
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Posted: 09-07-07 22:23pm
everyday_struggle
wrote:
nightangel73
wrote:
Why do I have to apologize
for saying what I think. Check out the Sex
and the City book there is whole chapter
on fat guys, that will tell you the thruth
there. In the chapter the ladies are
commenting how disgusting fat guys are and
then somebody ask them why don't they look
for them as lovers since they might be
nicer? And they say that they rather look
for the thin ones because they found out
that fat guys can be just a jerks as the
thin ones so given all the men can be just
as jerks then they rather take a look at
the thin ones since those look better.
But to each their own okay. One of my best
friends is overweight and her husband is
as much overweight as she is. They make
perfect
couple!
i applaud you for your honesty. Finally
someone honest in this forum. Im sick of
these fakes living in a "perfect world"
you KNOW who YOU are. I love how they tell
him "theres nothing wrong with you being
fat, you will find somebody" (as long as
it aint me).
Victoria_16, you said It shouldnt
matter how much someone ways as long as
you have a connection with them
but it does because how can you build a
connection with someone you find
unattractive? or even get to the point
where you know them as a person? We live
in a world where beauty is valued more
than intelligence. Seanboy, ask these 2 if
their boyfreinds are fat, i can bet you
they are not and i can bet you even more
they wouldnt give you the time of day.
Dateline did a great report on this
study, this is the link http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id
/3917414/ which agrees to what
nightangel says.
You dont believe me? well prove it to
yourself. Create 2 fake myspaces account,
one with a model and the other with
someone unattractive, you can get crazy
and put yourself on tehre and see who will
get more "myspace freinds". Females are
not alone in this and guys are just the
same.
Seanboy, my advice is to stop asking these
phoney bologneys what they think and ask a
real girl what they think of you and what
you should fix. A lot of girls love the
chance to "fix" a guy, take
it.
Thank you!! See I don't like to sugar coat
the thruth. I also think that damage is to
not tell the guy what is wrong with them.
It is better to say the thruth so that
they can do something about it. For
example stop eating those fatty foods and
begin a DIET and EXERCISE routine. Fatness
is something you CAN CHANGE at no cost so
they only need to begin working on it.
Being overweight not only makes you
unattractive it also increases your
chances of heart attack and strokes. It
aint good any way you want to put it.
I met this guy from online one time and he
was a regular not overweight guy. He
confessed to me he used to weight over 200
pounds but that he did diet and excersice
and lost all the weight inspired that he
could date more women. He was very proud
of himself for his achievement and I
commended him. That is the way to go!
And that is very true lot of women love
the chance to "fix" a guy! I am one.
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 09-07-07 22:26pm
nightangel73
wrote:
everyday_struggle
wrote:
nightangel73
wrote:
Why do I have to apologize
for saying what I think. Check out the Sex
and the City book there is whole chapter
on fat guys, that will tell you the thruth
there. In the chapter the ladies are
commenting how disgusting fat guys are and
then somebody ask them why don't they look
for them as lovers since they might be
nicer? And they say that they rather look
for the thin ones because they found out
that fat guys can be just a jerks as the
thin ones so given all the men can be just
as jerks then they rather take a look at
the thin ones since those look better.
But to each their own okay. One of my best
friends is overweight and her husband is
as much overweight as she is. They make
perfect
couple!
i applaud you for your honesty. Finally
someone honest in this forum. Im sick of
these fakes living in a "perfect world"
you KNOW who YOU are. I love how they tell
him "theres nothing wrong with you being
fat, you will find somebody" (as long as
it aint me).
Victoria_16, you said It shouldnt
matter how much someone ways as long as
you have a connection with them
but it does because how can you build a
connection with someone you find
unattractive? or even get to the point
where you know them as a person? We live
in a world where beauty is valued more
than intelligence. Seanboy, ask these 2 if
their boyfreinds are fat, i can bet you
they are not and i can bet you even more
they wouldnt give you the time of day.
Dateline did a great report on this
study, this is the link http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id
/3917414/ which agrees to what
nightangel says.
You dont believe me? well prove it to
yourself. Create 2 fake myspaces account,
one with a model and the other with
someone unattractive, you can get crazy
and put yourself on tehre and see who will
get more "myspace freinds". Females are
not alone in this and guys are just the
same.
Seanboy, my advice is to stop asking these
phoney bologneys what they think and ask a
real girl what they think of you and what
you should fix. A lot of girls love the
chance to "fix" a guy, take
it.
Thank you!! See I don't like to sugar coat
the thruth. I also think that damage is to
not tell the guy what is wrong with them.
It is better to say the thruth so that
they can do something about it. For
example stop eating those fatty foods and
begin a DIET and EXERCISE routine. Fatness
is something you CAN CHANGE at no cost so
they only need to begin working on it.
Being overweight not only makes you
unattractive it also increases your
chances of heart attack and strokes. It
aint good any way you want to put it.
I met this guy from online one time and he
was a regular not overweight guy. He
confessed to me he used to weight over 200
pounds but that he did diet and excersice
and lost all the weight inspired that he
could date more women. He was very proud
of himself for his achievement and I
commended him. That is the way to go!
And that is very true lot of women love
the chance to "fix" a guy! I am
one.
yeah well some people cant help what they
weigh
some people cant loose or gain weight
yuo dont know him so dont judge him. he
may have a disorder or something?
i weighed 99lbs before i was pregnant and
i couldnt gain weight for crap
no matter how much of what i ate i stayed
small
dont judge someone like you did. that was
wrong and not a very nice thing to do
if you have a negative comment keep it to
your damn self because no one wants to
hear it
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nightangel73
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Joined: 09 Nov 2005 Posts: 2500 Location: ,
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Posted: 09-07-07 22:35pm
the_girlfreind
wrote:
nightangel73
wrote:
everyday_struggle
wrote:
nightangel73
wrote:
Why do I have to apologize
for saying what I think. Check out the Sex
and the City book there is whole chapter
on fat guys, that will tell you the thruth
there. In the chapter the ladies are
commenting how disgusting fat guys are and
then somebody ask them why don't they look
for them as lovers since they might be
nicer? And they say that they rather look
for the thin ones because they found out
that fat guys can be just a jerks as the
thin ones so given all the men can be just
as jerks then they rather take a look at
the thin ones since those look better.
But to each their own okay. One of my best
friends is overweight and her husband is
as much overweight as she is. They make
perfect
couple!
i applaud you for your honesty. Finally
someone honest in this forum. Im sick of
these fakes living in a "perfect world"
you KNOW who YOU are. I love how they tell
him "theres nothing wrong with you being
fat, you will find somebody" (as long as
it aint me).
Victoria_16, you said It shouldnt
matter how much someone ways as long as
you have a connection with them
but it does because how can you build a
connection with someone you find
unattractive? or even get to the point
where you know them as a person? We live
in a world where beauty is valued more
than intelligence. Seanboy, ask these 2 if
their boyfreinds are fat, i can bet you
they are not and i can bet you even more
they wouldnt give you the time of day.
Dateline did a great report on this
study, this is the link http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id
/3917414/ which agrees to what
nightangel says.
You dont believe me? well prove it to
yourself. Create 2 fake myspaces account,
one with a model and the other with
someone unattractive, you can get crazy
and put yourself on tehre and see who will
get more "myspace freinds". Females are
not alone in this and guys are just the
same.
Seanboy, my advice is to stop asking these
phoney bologneys what they think and ask a
real girl what they think of you and what
you should fix. A lot of girls love the
chance to "fix" a guy, take
it.
Thank you!! See I don't like to sugar coat
the thruth. I also think that damage is to
not tell the guy what is wrong with them.
It is better to say the thruth so that
they can do something about it. For
example stop eating those fatty foods and
begin a DIET and EXERCISE routine. Fatness
is something you CAN CHANGE at no cost so
they only need to begin working on it.
Being overweight not only makes you
unattractive it also increases your
chances of heart attack and strokes. It
aint good any way you want to put it.
I met this guy from online one time and he
was a regular not overweight guy. He
confessed to me he used to weight over 200
pounds but that he did diet and excersice
and lost all the weight inspired that he
could date more women. He was very proud
of himself for his achievement and I
commended him. That is the way to go!
And that is very true lot of women love
the chance to "fix" a guy! I am
one.
yeah well some people cant help what they
weigh
some people cant loose or gain weight
yuo dont know him so dont judge him. he
may have a disorder or something?
i weighed 99lbs before i was pregnant and
i couldnt gain weight for crap
no matter how much of what i ate i stayed
small
dont judge someone like you did. that was
wrong and not a very nice thing to do
if you have a negative comment keep it to
your bless self because no one wants to
hear it
I have not judged him. I only said I don't
like fat guys and meant as for a love
partner. No big deal.
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 09-07-07 22:40pm
sigh
well whatever
sean hun i hope you come back havent herd from
you and we'd really like to know how your
doing
dont listen to negatvivty
the world is so screwed up
brush it off and stay strong
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victoria16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
Posted: 09-08-07 00:02am
the_girlfreind
wrote:
sigh
well whatever
sean hun i hope you come back havent herd from
you and we'd really like to know how your
doing
dont listen to negatvivty
the world is so screwed up
brush it off and stay
strong
I know. Were is he? YOU RUDE people
probably scared him away! GOSH
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victoria16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
Posted: 09-08-07 00:05am
the_girlfreind
wrote:
everyday_struggle
wrote:
nightangel73
wrote:
Why do I have to apologize
for saying what I think. Check out the Sex
and the City book there is whole chapter
on fat guys, that will tell you the thruth
there. In the chapter the ladies are
commenting how disgusting fat guys are and
then somebody ask them why don't they look
for them as lovers since they might be
nicer? And they say that they rather look
for the thin ones because they found out
that fat guys can be just a jerks as the
thin ones so given all the men can be just
as jerks then they rather take a look at
the thin ones since those look better.
But to each their own okay. One of my best
friends is overweight and her husband is
as much overweight as she is. They make
perfect
couple!
i applaud you for your honesty. Finally
someone honest in this forum. Im sick of
these fakes living in a "perfect world"
you KNOW who YOU are. I love how they tell
him "theres nothing wrong with you being
fat, you will find somebody" (as long as
it aint me).
Victoria_16, you said It shouldnt
matter how much someone ways as long as
you have a connection with them
but it does because how can you build a
connection with someone you find
unattractive? or even get to the point
where you know them as a person? We live
in a world where beauty is valued more
than intelligence. Seanboy, ask these 2 if
their boyfreinds are fat, i can bet you
they are not and i can bet you even more
they wouldnt give you the time of day.
Dateline did a great report on this
study, this is the link http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id
/3917414/ which agrees to what
nightangel says.
You dont believe me? well prove it to
yourself. Create 2 fake myspaces account,
one with a model and the other with
someone unattractive, you can get crazy
and put yourself on tehre and see who will
get more "myspace freinds". Females are
not alone in this and guys are just the
same.
Seanboy, my advice is to stop asking these
phoney bologneys what they think and ask a
real girl what they think of you and what
you should fix. A lot of girls love the
chance to "fix" a guy, take
it.
WRONG
my ex was "fat" if thats what you want to
call it
he weighed 200lbs and was 5'8
dont talk if you dont know me
and BY THE WAY everyone...this is comming
from a man who thinks its ok to slap a
woman by the way.... what a great person
to get advice
from
He thinks it ok to hit WOMAN???!!!
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nightangel73
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Joined: 09 Nov 2005 Posts: 2500 Location: ,
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Posted: 09-08-07 10:22am
the_girlfreind
wrote:
i weighed 99lbs before i was pregnant and
i couldnt gain weight for crap
no matter how much of what i ate i stayed
small
dont judge someone like you did. that was
wrong and not a very nice thing to do
I actually had that same problem when I
was younger of not being able to gain
weight no matter how much I eat. I used to
weigh 106 at almost 5'7 tall. I learned
that food wasn't going to do it alone so I
joined a gym and did weight bearing
routines and gained 25 pounds in lean
muscle mass within a year. Then
subsequently guys began to hit on me. The
sure didn't looked at me when I looked
anorexic skinny. And I felt great when I
gained the weight. I don't have that
problem anymore. Now if I eat a lot that
much I will gain the weight too.
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everyday_struggle
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jul 2007 Posts: 304
Posted: 09-10-07 14:15pm
the_girlfreind
wrote:
victoria16
wrote:
So heres some questions, do
you not talk to people that are over
weight? Or to people that are maybe a
little bit auckward looking? If not, then
your missing out on a whole bunch of great
people!
nah hed rather stay in his apartment all
day and smoke pot and slap his girfriend
around
and those are the types of men we have in
society these days...
sean hun thank god you are not one of
"these" everyday_struggle type of dudes.
sean, d0nt listen to the words of this
ignorant little girl. She knows nothing
about life except that its better to be
pregnant at 16 than at any other age. Shes
too busy trying to become a mod at this
site than to offer any real advice or
solutions. Except that "everything is
going to be ok" and then she tries to
assisinate my character because i slapped
some stupid girl who didnt need to run her
mouth at my apartment. I just cant wait
for her "babydaddy" to leave her high and
dry because I dont understand what about
her you can find attractive. Shes
disgusting. Anyway, stay away from girls
like her because they do nothing but
spread legs and make babies.
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everyday_struggle
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jul 2007 Posts: 304
Posted: 09-10-07 14:17pm
victoria16
wrote:
the_girlfreind
wrote:
everyday_struggle
wrote:
nightangel73
wrote:
Why do I have to apologize
for saying what I think. Check out the Sex
and the City book there is whole chapter
on fat guys, that will tell you the thruth
there. In the chapter the ladies are
commenting how disgusting fat guys are and
then somebody ask them why don't they look
for them as lovers since they might be
nicer? And they say that they rather look
for the thin ones because they found out
that fat guys can be just a jerks as the
thin ones so given all the men can be just
as jerks then they rather take a look at
the thin ones since those look better.
But to each their own okay. One of my best
friends is overweight and her husband is
as much overweight as she is. They make
perfect
couple!
i applaud you for your honesty. Finally
someone honest in this forum. Im sick of
these fakes living in a "perfect world"
you KNOW who YOU are. I love how they tell
him "theres nothing wrong with you being
fat, you will find somebody" (as long as
it aint me).
Victoria_16, you said It shouldnt
matter how much someone ways as long as
you have a connection with them
but it does because how can you build a
connection with someone you find
unattractive? or even get to the point
where you know them as a person? We live
in a world where beauty is valued more
than intelligence. Seanboy, ask these 2 if
their boyfreinds are fat, i can bet you
they are not and i can bet you even more
they wouldnt give you the time of day.
Dateline did a great report on this
study, this is the link http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id
/3917414/ which agrees to what
nightangel says.
You dont believe me? well prove it to
yourself. Create 2 fake myspaces account,
one with a model and the other with
someone unattractive, you can get crazy
and put yourself on tehre and see who will
get more "myspace freinds". Females are
not alone in this and guys are just the
same.
Seanboy, my advice is to stop asking these
phoney bologneys what they think and ask a
real girl what they think of you and what
you should fix. A lot of girls love the
chance to "fix" a guy, take
it.
WRONG
my ex was "fat" if thats what you want to
call it
he weighed 200lbs and was 5'8
dont talk if you dont know me
and BY THE WAY everyone...this is comming
from a man who thinks its ok to slap a
woman by the way.... what a great person
to get advice
from
He thinks it ok to hit WOMAN???!!!
no, i dont. She just likes to spin my
words to make herself sound more credible.
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meblonde01
Supporter
Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 2123 Location: ,
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Posted: 09-10-07 18:15pm
nightangel73
wrote:
I don't like fat guys
sorry
Wow I can't believe you said that.. I hear
all kinds of Christian things from you and
you say that? I use to be shallow and
thought a certain type of person is what I
would only be with, and then I grew up. I
started looking and thinking and realized
that people no matter what size body,
nose, feet, ears, had a lot of special
things to offer.. Like Hearts, caring,
honesty, and I did a 100% turn around and
I wish some of those people I snubbed when
I was young where in my life now. Do I
want to have sex with a fat man.. Yep, if
his heart was right his size would not
matter..
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victoria16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
Posted: 09-10-07 18:18pm
everyday_struggle
wrote:
the_girlfreind
wrote:
victoria16
wrote:
So heres some questions, do
you not talk to people that are over
weight? Or to people that are maybe a
little bit auckward looking? If not, then
your missing out on a whole bunch of great
people!
nah hed rather stay in his apartment all
day and smoke pot and slap his girfriend
around
and those are the types of men we have in
society these days...
sean hun thank god you are not one of
"these" everyday_struggle type of dudes.
sean, d0nt listen to the words of this
ignorant little girl. She knows nothing
about life except that its better to be
pregnant at 16 than at any other age. Shes
too busy trying to become a mod at this
site than to offer any real advice or
solutions. Except that "everything is
going to be ok" and then she tries to
assisinate my character because i slapped
some stupid girl who didnt need to run her
mouth at my apartment. I just cant wait
for her "babydaddy" to leave her high and
dry because I dont understand what about
her you can find attractive. Shes
disgusting. Anyway, stay away from girls
like her because they do nothing but
spread legs and make
babies.
UHHH HELLO?!? Have YOU seen the things you
are writing. SLAPPING a girl is not ok no
matter what!!! Another thing is how could
you talk so rudely about Suzy. Suzy for
one gives GREAT advice, and has comforted
me becuase I to am 16 and pregnant. Dont
hate on her becuase she's rite and you are
clearly WRONG! Suzy is not ugly, shes very
pretty, you saying that just proves more
so that you are shallow! An only paying
attention to looks, her babys daddy loves
her, so dont talk about them like that.
YOU dont know her.
Ps. Just because we are pregnant at 16
doesnt meen we are sluts, or spread our
legs for everyone. I have only had sex
with one boy, and I have been with him for
a year.
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victoria16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
Posted: 09-10-07 18:21pm
meblonde01
wrote:
nightangel73
wrote:
I don't like fat guys
sorry
Wow I can't believe you said that.. I hear
all kinds of Christian things from you and
you say that? I use to be shallow and
thought a certain type of person is what I
would only be with, and then I grew up. I
started looking and thinking and realized
that people no matter what size body,
nose, feet, ears, had a lot of special
things to offer.. Like Hearts, caring,
honesty, and I did a 100% turn around and
I wish some of those people I snubbed when
I was young where in my life now. Do I
want to have sex with a fat man.. Yep, if
his heart was right his size would not
matter..
Exactly. Love with your heart not with
your eyes.
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everyday_struggle
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jul 2007 Posts: 304
Posted: 09-11-07 13:55pm
victoria16
wrote:
everyday_struggle
wrote:
the_girlfreind
wrote:
victoria16
wrote:
So heres some questions, do
you not talk to people that are over
weight? Or to people that are maybe a
little bit auckward looking? If not, then
your missing out on a whole bunch of great
people!
nah hed rather stay in his apartment all
day and smoke pot and slap his girfriend
around
and those are the types of men we have in
society these days...
sean hun thank god you are not one of
"these" everyday_struggle type of dudes.
sean, d0nt listen to the words of this
ignorant little girl. She knows nothing
about life except that its better to be
pregnant at 16 than at any other age. Shes
too busy trying to become a mod at this
site than to offer any real advice or
solutions. Except that "everything is
going to be ok" and then she tries to
assisinate my character because i slapped
some stupid girl who didnt need to run her
mouth at my apartment. I just cant wait
for her "babydaddy" to leave her high and
dry because I dont understand what about
her you can find attractive. Shes
disgusting. Anyway, stay away from girls
like her because they do nothing but
spread legs and make
babies.
UHHH HELLO?!? Have YOU seen the things you
are writing. SLAPPING a girl is not ok no
matter what!!! Another thing is how could
you talk so rudely about Suzy. Suzy for
one gives GREAT advice, and has comforted
me becuase I to am 16 and pregnant. Dont
hate on her becuase she's rite and you are
clearly WRONG! Suzy is not ugly, shes very
pretty, you saying that just proves more
so that you are shallow! An only paying
attention to looks, her babys daddy loves
her, so dont talk about them like that.
YOU dont know her.
Ps. Just because we are pregnant at 16
doesnt meen we are sluts, or spread our
legs for everyone. I have only had sex
with one boy, and I have been with him for
a year.
im not talking about you, im talking about
her. I havent seen you introduce yourself
like "hi, im victoria, im 16 and pregnant.
Shes pregnant like its some kind of badge
of honor, she obviously gets paid no
attention at home and got pregnant because
she craves it. Her "great advice" is "dont
worry everything would be ok" apparently
its not. Thats why this kid came on here
saying that because of the way he looks
girls dont pay attention to him and all
she says is "dont worry about it". Shes a
fake, a liar and a phony. I dont like
people like that and if i choose to talk
to her rude is because i call her out on
her BS because thats all she says is BS.
and as far as you go, i dont get the
feeling that being pregnant defines you as
a person which it clearly does with her.
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everyday_struggle
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jul 2007 Posts: 304
Posted: 09-11-07 14:02pm
meblonde01
wrote:
nightangel73
wrote:
I don't like fat guys
sorry
Wow I can't believe you said that.. I hear
all kinds of Christian things from you and
you say that? I use to be shallow and
thought a certain type of person is what I
would only be with, and then I grew up. I
started looking and thinking and realized
that people no matter what size body,
nose, feet, ears, had a lot of special
things to offer.. Like Hearts, caring,
honesty, and I did a 100% turn around and
I wish some of those people I snubbed when
I was young where in my life now. Do I
want to have sex with a fat man.. Yep, if
his heart was right his size would not
matter..
This kid is a young guy with young girls,
they do not have your years of wisdom. You
cant tell me all young girls think the way
you do, they should, but just like you
when you was younger, they dont. This is
not a perfect world and the same hangups
that you had as a kid a lot of these
youung girls have, but its not just girls
too its boys. Thats why you have these
girls no matter how disgustingly ugly they
are. they put tons of make up on, use
different camera angles to make themselves
appear prettier. This is the way the world
works. you can love it or hate it.
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Dale123
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jul 2007 Posts: 697 Location: Barrie, On Canada
Posted: 09-11-07 14:12pm
nightangel73
wrote:
I don't like fat guys
sorry
I don't think he like skinny little health
forum like you. That was so self centered
and rude. Why would you even make a
comment
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Dale123
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jul 2007 Posts: 697 Location: Barrie, On Canada
Posted: 09-11-07 14:15pm
nightangel73
wrote:
Why do I have to apologize
for saying what I think. Check out the Sex
and the City book there is whole chapter
on fat guys, that will tell you the thruth
there. In the chapter the ladies are
commenting how disgusting fat guys are and
then somebody ask them why don't they look
for them as lovers since they might be
nicer? And they say that they rather look
for the thin ones because they found out
that fat guys can be just a jerks as the
thin ones so given all the men can be just
as jerks then they rather take a look at
the thin ones since those look better.
But to each their own okay. One of my best
friends is overweight and her husband is
as much overweight as she is. They make
perfect
couple!
OMG! Do you really live your life by a SEX
IN THE CITY BOOK? COME ON! My boyfriend is
over weight. I love his chubby spots.. He
is sweet kind and loving. I find you VERY
egotistical and rude. making comments like
that. Each person is there own person and
you are probably missing out on someone
really special.. LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING
THERE ARE MORE TO LIFE THAN LOOKS!
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Dale123
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jul 2007 Posts: 697 Location: Barrie, On Canada
Re: Had to Jump On This One! Posted: 09-11-07 14:19pm
Fairy*Godmother
wrote:
This forum is put here for
people who are in need or looking for
answers, It is not intended for others to
just outright express an opinion knowinly
and willing to hurt anothers feelings.
When I was younger I was the fat kid and
it hurt......ridicule and no one liked me
and on and on.and it hurts when someone
makes comments suchs as : I don't like fat
guys. Well, fat guys can always lookse
weight and ugliness is to the
bone............Well i've come a long way.
I AIN"T fat and I AIn't ugly and I do not
look nor act 50...and I come on here and
try to help soemone or at least help with
their self esteem. I am not about to try
to shott them out of a saddle they are
already sliding out of..........The
Girlfriend..........I love you!you ahve so
much goodness in your
heart.......
Good call! I was fat too, but have lost
all of the weight. It hurts being fat, but
it doesn't (shouldn't ) change who you are
as a person
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Dale123
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jul 2007 Posts: 697 Location: Barrie, On Canada
Re: Relationships Issues: Any Women Think Im Nice? Posted: 09-11-07 14:29pm
Seanyboy1985turbo
wrote:
I dont have much luck with
women but am i that
bad?
Sean..
How old are you? How long have you been
dating? What do you mean you have bad
luck? is it just your weight that you're
worried about? I am sorry to hear that
you're concerned.. I hope that it all
smooths out for you. Which I am sure it
will I am sure that you will be fine and
you will meet someone very special.
I used to be big too. I am telling you
that I was HUGE and no one at the school
dances would dance with me. No one wanted
to be friends with me (except for a few
other chubby girls) Well.. I am 24 now. I
have worked out and became rather fit. I
went to college and uni. I have also been
a model.. ( which was a LONG shot)
However, I did good with it.
NOW, just a month ago.. I joined the site
face book and some of the guys who used
to like me are wanting to date me. Funny,
because I actually looked them up and
added them. Same with the girls. I added
everyone who treated me like caca.. Just
to see what would happen? Maybe they grew
up? I don't know maybe they're just
interested cause I look good.. Who really
knows..
I knew all along that I had a good heart
and that I am a loving person and someday
someone who didn't know my "ugly' past
would come along.. He did. You know that
can happen for you too. So, if these
ladies aren't interested because of what
youlook like.. Forget them (also remember
them) Because someday when you are a
success.. THEN you wont want to date them.
Just be patient. Sorry you're having a
hard time
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Ingi
Moderator
Joined: 09 Mar 2006 Posts: 8783 Location: Grinning like a Cheshire Cat,
Thanks: 161
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Posted: 09-11-07 16:10pm
the_girlfreind
wrote:
yeah well some people cant help what they
weigh
some people cant loose or gain weight
yuo dont know him so dont judge him. he
may have a disorder or something?
i weighed 99lbs before i was pregnant and
i couldnt gain weight for crap
no matter how much of what i ate i stayed
small
dont judge someone like you did. that was
wrong and not a very nice thing to do
if you have a negative comment keep it to
your bless self because no one wants to
hear it
Actually, Suzy, basic science will tell
you that weight gain and/or weight loss is
simply calories in versus calories out.
The more you eat, the more you weigh. The
less you eat, the less you weigh.
An opinion was asked for in this thread
and nightangel gave an opinion. It may not
be what YOU would choose (by the way, how
many boyfriends and successful
relationships have you had?) but it wasn't
unsolicited.
I found that your insulting her was a bit
much though. You outright called her names
the_girlfreind
wrote:
thats ok because he doesnt like self
cenetered rude arrogant b*****
And Victoria as well.
victoria16
wrote:
I cant believe how you could
be SO ingnorant!!! Could you imagine what
the world would be like if everyone was
like you?!? It would be a disaster!!
Your judging a book by its cover and thats
NO COOL!!! I still think you should
apologise.
I'm curious how many overweight men either
of you have dated that you are so
knowledgable about the issues of dating
obese people and not judging a book by its
cover.
havent herd from
you and we'd really like to know how your
doing
