Dating Help: My personality is changing when she is around. Posted: 09-14-07 19:38pm
There's this girl I really really like and
have days where we hang out and I can't
find the right thing to say or talk about
to her about... She'll start talking and
I'll just sit there and go... ah...
hmmm....ya.... or it will just go
compeltly silent for minutes without eye
contact. When I'm around my friends while
she's around I'm energentic,have a smile
on my face,and have a ton to talk about..
My personality just seems terrible around
her I don't know what to talk to her about
to get her excited or laughing. I need a
lot of help big time cause tonite I felt
like I blew it.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-14-07 19:40pm
be
y-o-u-r-s-e-l-f
girls like that the most
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Jesse03
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Posted: 09-14-07 19:41pm
I am myself just have no clue what to say
or talk to her about my mind goes blank.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-14-07 19:52pm
then maybe it isnt meant to be hun
i know its hard to talk but with a
relationshio you have to have great
communication or it just wont work
if you are haveing a problem with
communication already..then the future may
not be good
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Jesse03
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Posted: 09-14-07 20:03pm
This girl is the first person in my life
where we have so much in common... like
everything music,hobbies,ect.
Some days I'm happy and can talk to her
about a ton of stuff.
Then other days I'm sad and don't know
what to say to her.
I don't know when I'm happy and have
energy we both have fun hanging out and
talking but on the days I can't I don't
know...
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-14-07 20:08pm
Jesse03
wrote:
This girl is the first
person in my life where we have so much in
common... like everything
music,hobbies,ect.
Some days I'm happy and can talk to her
about a ton of stuff.
Then other days I'm sad and don't know
what to say to her.
I don't know when I'm happy and have
energy we both have fun hanging out and
talking but on the days I can't I don't
know...
why are you sad somedays? what makes you
sad?
when you love or are falling for someone
then they are supposed to help make you
happy
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Jesse03
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Joined: 13 Sep 2007 Posts: 10
Posted: 09-14-07 20:30pm
I used to be Happy all the time and full
of tons of energy now I need like 3 cans
of pop just to make it through the day to
be happy and after the caffiene wears off
I feel unhappy,no energy,and like a brick
wall... I don't know how to explain it I
wanna be happy !!!! just my body isn't
letting me be happy.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-14-07 20:34pm
Jesse03
wrote:
I used to be Happy all the
time and full of tons of energy now I need
like 3 cans of pop just to make it through
the day to be happy and after the caffiene
wears off I feel unhappy,no energy,and
like a brick wall... I don't know how to
explain it I wanna be happy !!!! just my
body isn't letting me be
happy.
no your MIND isnt letting you be happy
ok think of it like
this...you have this girl..who makes you
smile most of the time
you like her right? you guys have llots in
common and she awknoledges you in her
life: dont throw that away
the soda isnt helping
its a temp high for you...when it wears
off it brings you back down again and not
to mention its not healthy so it makes
your body feel bad sometimes too.youve
gotta stop thinking. stop thinking about
everything
just go out with this girl
hang out
take a walk to no where. dont even plan
where you are going to go...just walk...or
drive if youre old enoght to
and end up someplace
and recionize your surroundings
breathe and look at her
look at your life and your self and how
much that moment in time means to you
feel her. feel her presence and her smile
and her voice...
ok think of it like
this...you have this girl..who makes you
smile most of the time
