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AmandaRae123
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vaginal penetration it's not enjoyable for me!
Posted: 09-16-07 20:58pm
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I just can't accept the fact that my
vagina doesn't have enough histamine or
nerves to make vaginal penetration
enjoyable for me. Not being able to enjoy
intercourse has made me bitter about sex
and envious of other women who enjoy it
too. Whenever I am around women who talk
about sex and how they love it doggystyle
etc etc I get upset and move away. I just
wish that I could relate. It's
devastating.
I only enjoy oral sex, but after awhile
that gets boring. My ex boyfriend thought
I was abnormal because I didn't like
penetration. That is just how uncommon it
is for a woman to say she doesn't like it.
I know ppl say that I am not alone but I
don't care...if I say I don't feel
anything durng sex people look at me like
I am crazy because the majority of women
do. It's hard to be told that I am normal
by a bunch of women who generally like sex
and can feel something. You can never
know what it's like to be in my shoes.
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young Girl
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Re: I Can't Deal
Posted: 09-16-07 21:10pm
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| AmandaRae123
wrote: | I just can't accept the fact
that my vagina doesn't have enough
histamine or nerves to make vaginal
penetration enjoyable for me. Not being
able to enjoy intercourse has made me
bitter about sex and envious of other
women who enjoy it too. Whenever I am
around women who talk about sex and how
they love it doggystyle etc etc I get
upset and move away. I just wish that I
could relate. It's devastating.
I only enjoy oral sex, but after awhile
that gets boring. My ex boyfriend thought
I was abnormal because I didn't like
penetration. That is just how uncommon it
is for a woman to say she doesn't like it.
I know ppl say that I am not alone but I
don't care...if I say I don't feel
anything durng sex people look at me like
I am crazy because the majority of women
do. It's hard to be told that I am normal
by a bunch of women who generally like sex
and can feel something. You can never
know what it's like to be in my
shoes. |
okay
well the majority of women dont get
orgasmic pleasure during sex
maybe you need to see a doctor or
something'sounds like you have some self
esteem issues
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-16-07 21:12pm
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most women don't orgasm but they at least
feel something. I don't feel a thing at
all.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-16-07 21:14pm
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| AmandaRae123
wrote: | | most women don't orgasm but
they at least feel something. I don't
feel a thing at
all. |
hmm
you dont feel his penis in you at all?!?!?
nothing?
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-16-07 21:18pm
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At times it seems that way. But usually I
know something is in there, but I don't
feel any pleasure from it. Just
occasional discomfort or the feeling of
something going in and out.
And it's like when I have sex my mind goes
other places, like I try to fantasize
about some of the dirtiest things but I
usually end up frustrated.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-16-07 21:22pm
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| AmandaRae123
wrote: | At times it seems that way.
But usually I know something is in there,
but I don't feel any pleasure from it.
Just occasional discomfort or the feeling
of something going in and out.
And it's like when I have sex my mind goes
other places, like I try to fantasize
about some of the dirtiest things but I
usually end up
frustrated. |
you need to see a doctor or a theripist or
something to get some help on this issue
because i have no idea what to tell you
except im really sorry 
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-16-07 21:25pm
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I've been to a gyn she saw nothing wrong
down there. As for a therapist, I don't
have any health insurance to cover
something like that.
I wish I were normal like most women I hate the fact
taht I have to put in so much effort into
what comes natural to most people
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-16-07 21:27pm
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| AmandaRae123
wrote: | I've been to a gyn she saw
nothing wrong down there. As for a
therapist, I don't have any health
insurance to cover something like that.
I wish I were normal like most women I hate the fact
taht I have to put in so much effort into
what comes natural to most
people |
its gotta be a mental block or something
makeing you not enjoy sex? maybe there is
a supplement or something you can take to
get you more in the mood
have you tried watching porn?
when you masterbate do you have an orgasm
normally? oor do you still feel nothing?
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-16-07 21:32pm
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when i masterbate i have clitoral orgasms
because I rub my clit.
I have a normal sex drive, I do get
aroused and horny, it's just that when
penetration is involved it doesn't give me
any pleasure. I have bought sex toys and
put them in every place imaginable inside
of me, and have yet to find any 'hot
spots' that so many women swear by that
are inside of the vagina.
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Posted: 09-16-07 21:56pm
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Trust me, I don't have a "hot spot". I
have a "gotta pee!" spot. I have had times
during sex where all I wanted was for it
to end because I had to pee or was
bored!!
Like we keep telling you, unless you're
completely numb, it's pretty normal.
Have you tried anal? Random question, but
I know a gal who cannot get pleasure from
vaginal sex. She tried anal one night and
lo and behold: Orgasm!
And again: touch the clitoris during sex!
I'd never orgasm if I didn't!!
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-16-07 21:57pm
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No, I am not interested at all in anal
sex. You can't do that on a regular basis
and you can risk tearing your rectum up.
No thank you
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-16-07 22:01pm
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| AmandaRae123
wrote: | | No, I am not interested at
all in anal sex. You can't do that on a
regular basis and you can risk tearing
your rectum up. No thank
you |
Well, like I said, just throwing it out
there.
You risk ripping your vagina too, but I
guess that doesn't matter. No, anal sex
isn't as "easy" as vagina sex.
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-16-07 22:18pm
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Well, i am going to keep on trying. I
will not die until vaginal penetration
feels good to me. I'll feel like less of a
woman if I did.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-16-07 22:20pm
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And what about the women who can't even
clitorally orgasm? I guess they must be...
men!? XD
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-16-07 22:23pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | And what about the women who
can't even clitorally orgasm? I guess they
must be... men!?
XD |
there are women who cant clitorally
orasm?!!?!?!? 
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Posted: 09-16-07 22:24pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | Eiri
wrote: | | And what about the women who
can't even clitorally orgasm? I guess they
must be... men!?
XD |
there are women who cant clitorally
orasm?!!?!?!? |
Oh heck yes O.o
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Chezzy
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Posted: 09-17-07 02:53am
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What about different positions.. 
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AmandaRae123
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Posted: 09-17-07 12:46pm
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different positions don't help. in fact
it can make the discomfort i feel worse.
the bigger the penis the more discomfort i
experience
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taryn420
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Posted: 09-18-07 15:07pm
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Look all i can tell you is...i feel your
pain. And your boyfriend is an jerk for
not being more understanding. You cant
really expect to have an orgasm with him
if hes being all judgemental. That would
kill it right there.
Me and my boyfriend have been trying for 2
freakin years to get me off with his penis
actually inside me and i only did it ONCE
and that was with the aid of a vibrator
egg and it took like 45 minutes.
Sucks to be us.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-18-07 15:30pm
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You are normal. This is how most women
are. That's why sex aids were invented!!
You should not consider yourself less of a
woman.
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