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taykare

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Update....almost Back Posted: 09-17-07 01:04am


Hello everyone, My surgery went alright utterus is now the right way I had my tubes tied and had endometerous coterized kinda of like they burnt it or something to that effect. I was home the same day but have gone back 3 times nnow as I still can not pee since the operation. And today I have found a little red hot spot on my leg. I am going to call the surgereon tomorrow as I have already have a blood clot in my lungs. I really hope it is not not that again I hated getting a needle everyday to see what my INR levels were at. I am home with a leg catiter in. I now know why guys like standing to pee how convient I just Hope this does not last much longer though. My nerve burns have been set for October 12 and then October 29 they are a month late and my head it so bad I have sharp pains coming every 10-20 seconds and lasting sometimes more than five minutes each and the sharp pains are overlapping now. The fentanyl patch is not helping very much and neither is the arthotech for break through pain. Well I need to go lay down hurts to sit for even 10 minutes I was at the ER yesterday to see if I could pee and I am at the start of a kidney infection and they are hoping to stop t before it gets worse but we all know it is me so oh well such is life. Everyone taykare of your selves and eachother. I think of you all and pray for you still every day. Taykare karen

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Posted: 09-18-07 12:04pm


:::::sprinkling good luck dust:::::::::

young Girl

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Posted: 09-18-07 12:07pm


karen!!! oh im glad that the surgery went ok!!! hang in there girl!you are a very strong woman and im here if yu ever need me ok?!?! keep in touch and let me know how it goes hun! i love ya and miss ya lots!!!!!!!!!

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*Hi Sweetie! Me Fairygodmother** Posted: 09-18-07 12:14pm


Karen, so very glad your surgery went well adnd hopefully you will be able to pee like a big girl again soon. I know you will be so glad when all of this is over. Just know we are all here and prayers are with you. Can relate to the head pain.I have yet another new neuro Dr this coming Monday can't can't wait to get there. Taycare of yourself and keep in touch when you can! HUGS

taykare

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Posted: 09-27-07 10:07am


thanks everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!! day 15 still can not pee on my own "like a big girl" LOL They told me to take off my pain patch now I can barely do anything my head neck pain hurts so bad. BUt needed to ay hi and thanks Miss you all very much taykare all taykare

young Girl

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Posted: 09-27-07 12:45pm


we love you girl!!!!!!!!!

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*Hi Sweetie! Me Fairygodmother** Posted: 09-27-07 15:10pm


Hang in there sweetie, I know its painful, have had so much myself, but we are stronger and this makes us even stronger. You'll be able to pee lke a big girl soon...............let that be the least of your worries. Just smile through the pain and know there are lots of us out here who are rooting you on! HUGS!

taykare

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Posted: 10-01-07 09:03am


thank you so much. I am on day 20 and still nothing. On Firday I went in and learned how to self cathered. I am so glad I can do it my self now. no more hospital waiting for them I get to be relieved every 4 hours so I am alot more comfortable. I did have a bad expiernce on Thursday as the hospital tried to teach me how to self cahtered and they nurse who tried really had no idea what she was doing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She hurt me so bad that I was crying and she did not even stop or say I am sorry for hurting me. Then the next day when I saw a different nurse to learn how to do the same thing (did not know this until got to the appointment) I was so scared I started crying and this nurse is what the heck is going on? It is not going to hurt and we will stop if it does. After I regained some composer I explained that this nurse from the night before tried ti teach, And that this nurse actually made me feel like I was being raped or molested by her. She made me bleed and riped a little between my vigina opening and the anus. The new nurse is actually having her written up for the damage she has done to me.(side note: I was raped a long time ago and this guy and done something kinda like that only alot worse so when she did that it has brought such horrible memories back to th front of my head I thought I had already dealt with this issue) Does any one know or have any ideas on how to get over thhisnow that it has brought up the past I can not stop thinking about it. I am getting even less sleep then I already get because of what happened? thank you taykare

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Posted: 10-02-07 17:31pm


try seeing a therapist about the past. I have done therapy for what happened to me when I was four. Sometimes the memories come back at weird times too. Especially at paps. I am barely getting over having a male doctor. But you need to let someone in your head to help you. hand in there I know how bad the memories can get. Just try to remind yourself that you are safe and that they arent trying to hurt you. Maybe do things around the house that make you feel secure. Best wishes

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Posted: 10-04-07 11:30am


Ultimately, I believe the forgiveness is the way out of trapped emotions. But that takes commitment and sometimes time.

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Posted: 11-01-07 16:18pm


Sometimes trying to convince a trauma victim to forgive the abuser is just re-abusing the victim.