I am sad. I am having one of those
pitiful moments that have been coming
around a bit lately when I miss my bf and
things are going wrong. Today at work i
feel like persona non grata. I have been
asked not to take of ffor lunch for the
next two weeks and I keep getting handed
"projects" without the usual thank you. I
know I won't be here in two weeks anyway,
but it still makes me sad when i feel
ganged up on. there's only three of us in
the office, so when your'e the odd man
out, it really sucks. I guess I just miss
having a friendship with someone where
there are no strings attached. They love
you no matter what. maybe it WAS all just
a bunch of crap, but it was nice crap. I
liked that crap. Now, i have no crap. I
am crapless. completely devoid of
craplitude.
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Ingi
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Re: Persona Non Grata Posted: 09-17-07 14:48pm
sillyakchick
wrote:
I am sad. I am having one
of those pitiful moments that have been
coming around a bit lately when I miss my
bf and things are going wrong. Today at
work i feel like persona non grata. I
have been asked not to take of ffor lunch
for the next two weeks and I keep getting
handed "projects" without the usual thank
you. I know I won't be here in two weeks
anyway, but it still makes me sad when i
feel ganged up on. there's only three of
us in the office, so when your'e the odd
man out, it really sucks. I guess I just
miss having a friendship with someone
where there are no strings attached. They
love you no matter what. maybe it WAS all
just a bunch of crap, but it was nice
crap. I liked that crap. Now, i have no
crap. I am crapless. completely devoid
of craplitude.
The end of a job and the end of the job
friendships is sucky. I just went through
that. In fact, some people didn't even say
goodbye to me! These were people I worked
with every single day. They couldn't be
bothered to say goodbye? I think they were
angry that I was leaving.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 09-17-07 17:44pm
Yeah, I got some of that when I left my
job. As soon as anyone finds out you're
leaving, the attitudes change...
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 09-18-07 07:21am
I think that is really crappy and immature
for them to be handling things that way.
We have a girl that is leaving the end of
this month. But, she's leaving to better
herself and will be happier, I can't
imagine anyone being rude to her. There is
just no point. Maybe if we're mean she'll
want to stay? That makes sense.
I'm just sorry that they can't make your
transition any easier. Just remember, we
will always have plenty of crap here. But,
we are here for you because we want to be,
not because it is the 'polite' thing to
do. I hope you are having a better day
today.
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 09-18-07 13:51pm
I am having a better day today. My DH
brought me fish tacos for lunch (yippee!).
I had a chat with my boss last night and
straigtened a few things out, so I think
it will be better....
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Ingi
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Posted: 09-18-07 15:31pm
sillyakchick
wrote:
I am having a better day
today. My DH brought me fish tacos for
lunch (yippee!). I had a chat with my
boss last night and straigtened a few
things out, so I think it will be
better....
I'm glad to hear that. Not much worse than
spending your day in an office where it
feels like no one wants to be around you.
