I Have a Friend That Left Her Husband Because He Was Mean Posted: 09-18-07 02:29am
I have a friend that left her husband
because he was mean and had low self
esteem. She is a long lost high school
crush that I ran into on the Internet and
have since been trying to build a
friendship with.
I never picked up on it right away when
she said she had left him because he was
mean that it meant he was probably
abusive.
She was married to him for 5 years. She
told me that she isn't herself and that
she has been spending lots of time with
her family and is still consumed with
problems.
She said she was still in love with
someone, she would not say who. I think it
is her past husband. I have read that in
many cases a woman can still feel love for
a mean abusive husband even year and years
after the separation. Is this true?
If anyone can help me out here on that my
second question is. What can I do as her
friend to help her. I tell her she is a
strong person. I literally say I am
rooting for you, but she hasn't ever
really told me exactly what the problem
is.
I am almost certain that I am right. I am
just trying to take it easy and tell her
she can trust me. I guess I just really
REALLY care about her. She is the most
beautiful girl and she is very
intelligent. It is hard to believe that
she would make such a bad decision in
picking a husband if this is the case.
But how could any man dare to hurt such a
wonderful woman.
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whitetiger22
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Dec 2007 Posts: 59
Posted: 01-21-08 16:45pm
I know this is late in posting. Take it
from me. The only thing u can do is be
there for her. Let her open up to you and
when she does just be there for her. All
she needs is friends to be there for her.
It will help her out in the long run. I to
am from an abusive relationship and i have
some friends that knows everything and
been there for me that it was 6 months
after leaving my husband that i finaly
opened up about me feelings. It will take
time. I just finaly got my divroced
finalized the 14th of dec of 2007.
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