Boyfriend Wont Have Sex With Me!! Posted: 09-18-07 08:06am
Hi there, didnt know where else to turn,
need some advice. Ive been with my
boyfriend for 3 yrs now and im heavily
pregnant with our 2nd child. I no when you
have children your sex life goes down
hill. But since ive been pregnant with our
2nd child we have had sex once. I dont
want it all the time, even a kiss or
cuddle every now and then would be nice. I
dont no what else to do. Has he gone off
me? Does he want someone else? He says he
hasnt got no sex drive, but he masterbates
nearly ever night, usually in the bath.
Its getting me down, i feel fat and ugly
and this doesnt help. If my own boyfriend
doesnt want to be close to me, then what
does that say about me?
Any advice, please!!
Della
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meblonde01
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Re: Boyfriend Wont Have Sex With Me!! Posted: 09-18-07 08:11am
Della1987
wrote:
Hi there, didnt know where
else to turn, need some advice. Ive been
with my boyfriend for 3 yrs now and im
heavily pregnant with our 2nd child. I no
when you have children your sex life goes
down hill. But since ive been pregnant
with our 2nd child we have had sex once. I
dont want it all the time, even a kiss or
cuddle every now and then would be nice. I
dont no what else to do. Has he gone off
me? Does he want someone else? He says he
hasnt got no sex drive, but he masterbates
nearly ever night, usually in the bath.
Its getting me down, i feel fat and ugly
and this doesnt help. If my own boyfriend
doesnt want to be close to me, then what
does that say about me?
Any advice, please!!
Della
Della have you ask him? Some men have a
hard time having sex with a pregnant
woman. Just tell him how you feel and ask
him. In a nice way. Not mean just tell him
it hurts you that he is distant and is it
just beacuse you are pregnant? Be honest!
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-18-07 12:06pm
The two most common reasons for low libido
in men (as I have read) is stress
resulting from money and stress resulting
from a job. Are either of these possible?
I know financial concerns are usually
present when one is expecting their
second.
Congrats, by the way!
But I'd talk to him. He may just be
freaked about the pregnancy thing.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-18-07 12:09pm
dont feel fat and ugly
you are pregnant and beautiful!!!
and sometimes guys are just wierd and dont
want to have sex during pregnancy. you may
want to talk to him. he could just be
scared or something?
