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I'm Just 15 and I have an EXTEREME bondage fetish Posted: 09-18-07 09:55am
Thank God I found this place. I've been
looking for help for a long time.
Well, my problem is I've just turned 15
and I have an EXTEREME bondage fetish. And
I hate having it. I feel like such a perv.
People say I't normal to have fetishes but
I still feel dirty. Everyday I look at
pics of peole tied up then I feel like I
gotta mastrubate. It's like I'm possesed!
I don't wanna do it...but I do, without
thinking. Then when I'm done I cry. I'm
even into extreme stuff like
mummification.And I fantasise about being
kidnapped.It interupts my schoolwork
because I can't help thinking about people
being tied up in class! It's GROSS. I
would go to see a therapist but I DON'T
want to tell my mum. no way. Is there
anything I can do personally to stop the
urge, and hopefully get rid of the fetish
altogether?I also have a wet and messy
fetish but I can deal with that, I dont
have it as much as bondage fetish.
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Tylanas
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Re: Please Help, I'm Just 15... Posted: 09-18-07 10:01am
africain_grey
wrote:
Thank God I found this
place. I've been looking for help for a
long time.
Well, my problem is I've just turned 15
and I have an EXTEREME bondage fetish. And
I hate having it. I feel like such a perv.
People say I't normal to have fetishes but
I still feel dirty. Everyday I look at
pics of peole tied up then I feel like I
gotta mastrubate. It's like I'm possesed!
I don't wanna do it...but I do, without
thinking. Then when I'm done I cry. I'm
even into extreme stuff like
mummification.And I fantasise about being
kidnapped.It interupts my schoolwork
because I can't help thinking about people
being tied up in class! It's GROSS. I
would go to see a therapist but I DON'T
want to tell my mum. no way. Is there
anything I can do personally to stop the
urge, and hopefully get rid of the fetish
altogether?I also have a wet and messy
fetish but I can deal with that, I dont
have it as much as bondage
fetish.
I say you're normal too!!! I like bondage
too heheh. Yes, it's a fetish and of
course it makes you horny! Please please,
don't feel bad about it! I've seen some
mummification stuff too!
It's NOT gross. It is a bit of a problem
because it interferes with your school
work, but it is possible if you can get
out the urges during the night, that you
will be able too focus better during the
day.
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africain_grey
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Joined: 18 Sep 2007 Posts: 4 Location: south wales, The U.K!
Posted: 09-18-07 10:21am
I don't mind actually having the
fetish...I just don't like acting upon it.
Yesterday I spend 5 hours watching people
getting tied up on youtube *~*
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-18-07 10:25am
africain_grey
wrote:
I don't mind actually having
the fetish...I just don't like acting upon
it. Yesterday I spend 5 hours watching
people getting tied up on youtube
*~*
Acting on it is normal too you know XD
What's the point of having a fetish if you
don't enjoy it, right?
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africain_grey
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Joined: 18 Sep 2007 Posts: 4 Location: south wales, The U.K!
Posted: 09-18-07 10:28am
hehe I guess so! But I would rather act it
out with other people...But I'm way to
young for that! Do you think if I REEEALLY
wnated to stop, and I really tried not to
act upon it, I could? I'm not saying it's
bad I'm just not comfortable with it.
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lonestarguy
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Re: Please Help, I'm Just 15... Posted: 09-18-07 10:30am
Eiri
wrote:
africain_grey
wrote:
Thank God I found this
place. I've been looking for help for a
long time.
Well, my problem is I've just turned 15
and I have an EXTEREME bondage fetish. And
I hate having it. I feel like such a perv.
People say I't normal to have fetishes but
I still feel dirty. Everyday I look at
pics of peole tied up then I feel like I
gotta mastrubate. It's like I'm possesed!
I don't wanna do it...but I do, without
thinking. Then when I'm done I cry. I'm
even into extreme stuff like
mummification.And I fantasise about being
kidnapped.It interupts my schoolwork
because I can't help thinking about people
being tied up in class! It's GROSS. I
would go to see a therapist but I DON'T
want to tell my mum. no way. Is there
anything I can do personally to stop the
urge, and hopefully get rid of the fetish
altogether?I also have a wet and messy
fetish but I can deal with that, I dont
have it as much as bondage
fetish.
I say you're normal too!!! I like bondage
too heheh. Yes, it's a fetish and of
course it makes you horny! Please please,
don't feel bad about it! I've seen some
mummification stuff too!
It's NOT gross. It is a bit of a problem
because it interferes with your school
work, but it is possible if you can get
out the urges during the night, that you
will be able too focus better during the
day.
What exactly is the mummification fetish?
Sounds interesting.
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africain_grey
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Joined: 18 Sep 2007 Posts: 4 Location: south wales, The U.K!
Posted: 09-18-07 10:31am
mummification is basically when someone is
wrapped up like a mummy so that they can't
move at all
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-18-07 11:57am
This goes for always, not just for your
situation. It doesn't necessarily seem
like you have a problem, you just need to
think about it differently.
If you want to see someone about a
problem, but you are too embarassed to
tell your parents, there are always things
you can do.
~ You can see your school
counselor/psychologist/therapist/nurse.
They are not required to tell your parents
or anyone else for that matter unless your
life or someone else's life is in
immediate danger. They will keep your
private matters private.
~ You can tell your parents that you have
something wrong that you think you need
help with, but not discuss the details of
the problem. For example, if you think you
have an std or something, just tell them
you think there is something wrong down
there and you should see a doc and you
aren't comfortable with them coming in
with you because you'll have your pants
down. If it's a mental/emotional issue,
just tell your parents that you're having
a hard time dealing with some stuff and
you want to talk to a professional. They
will most likely do what you ask because
they care, ultimately, about your health
and well-being.
Don't let embarassment keep you from being
healthy and happy.
That being said, if you still think you
need to talk to someone about your fetish
(and perhaps how to express it in a
healthy way) a therapist would be able to
help you with that.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-18-07 17:43pm
africain_grey
wrote:
hehe I guess so! But I would
rather act it out with other people...But
I'm way to young for that! Do you think if
I REEEALLY wnated to stop, and I really
tried not to act upon it, I could? I'm not
saying it's bad I'm just not comfortable
with it.
Why can't you just enjoy it as a personal
thing now, and then when you feel you're
old enough, get in to it?
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none_tea
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Joined: 07 Jun 2007 Posts: 9 Location: cebu city philippines
Heh Posted: 09-22-07 05:37am
lol i try to watch that what you sid a
people tied up hahah and theres nothing i
can feel .. but its funny hahahhhaha
i dont want to be ties but i want to tied
someone lol
