My Boyfriend Comes Insidde of Me Posted: 09-19-07 04:21am
my boyfriend and i have been having sex
together for 2 years, and we have probably
used protection about 2 times. I am on the
pill and take it correctly, i love him
more than ever, and know i wanna spend
forever with him. not that i am planning
at all to get pregnant as i am only 18,
but we have both discussed it and we know
how we feel about each other and decided
if something were to happen ( i get
pregnant) we would both support one
another and figure something out. was
wondering what you think? and if you have
any advice on the situation?
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ROXYDAWG
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2007 Posts: 6
Posted: 09-19-07 04:40am
HEY, dont worry, if you're taking the pill
daily then u have nothing to worry about,
you won't get pregnant. unless your
partner is having unprotected sex with
other peeps, then i'd worry about catching
STD's, then i'd ask him if he's been
tested and to get all the names he's been
with then kick his ass to the curb!
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little_lele89
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2007 Posts: 56 Location: Aussie
Posted: 09-19-07 04:44am
haha. nah nah hes not with anyone else, or
id kill him but thank
you
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Mommy35
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
Posted: 09-19-07 09:03am
I'd say keep taking your pills and you
will be all set. Enjoy your good
relationship and continue your education.
You have a lifetime to have children and
your youth will be gone before you know
it.
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chickenp005
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2007 Posts: 30 Location: Illinois
Posted: 09-19-07 10:26am
I think if your in a loving long term
relationship that i think unprotected sex
is fine. As long as you are taking your
birth control correctly.
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5542 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
Thanks: 89
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Posted: 09-19-07 12:59pm
Yes, take your birth control correctly and
chances are pretty good that you'll be
fine. I usually keep a pack of condoms
just in case I've been throwing up, on
antibiotics, miss pills, whatever. You can
always use them if you're not sure of your
protection. If you do all that, you will
be fine.
I would suggest, however, making sure you
have the talk about what you would do if
the birth control failed and you did get
pregnant- would you abort? Would you have
the baby? Would you keep it? You know what
i mean, just good to make sure you're both
on the same page. Not to worry you too
much, just a good thing to know, and a
nice way to bond
but thank
you
