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Irregular Period Making Paternity Difficult to Figure Out
Posted: 09-20-07 05:27am

I am new on this site and very confused about my pregnancy can someone help me with my situation.
I am 9 weeks pregnant, here is the story. I have had sex with my ex bf on the 23rd June 07 which supposed to be the last day of my period, but because of my stressed situation during that time my period slowed down but carried on till the 3rd July and on the 3rd I have had another period till the 8th July. With my boyfriend we decided to have a baby and the first time we tried was on the 22nd July, and I had fertility tests and my most fertile days were 1st and the 2nd August and we tried those days as well, I have learned that I am pregnant on the 20th of August, before then I have had another test which was on the 10th August I was not pregnant by then , now I am 9 weeks pregnant. So my confusion is, could my ex be the father of this baby or my current bf?
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Posted: 10-02-07 12:58pm

I doubt your ex is. But if you have been having unprotected sex, you might want to get tested for stds.
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Posted: 10-03-07 04:25am

i dont think that it is your ex`s
how long have u been with your current bf?
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confuseddd

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Posted: 10-03-07 06:20am

Hi there,

Thank you everyone for the answers, made me very happy to get some responses. I have had another scan yesterday and my baby is due on the 23rd April, and I am 10 weeks 6 days pregnant. I am with my current bf for 2 years now, and the time I have had unprotected sex with ex (23rd June, again which was the last day of my period but he did not ejac. in me (as far as I know)) I was having problems with the current. And then we sorted out everything with the current and we will get married soon.
Basically according to my due date ovulation seems happened between the 26th July till the 6th August. Again after the 23 rd I have had another period from the 3rd July till the 8th. So according to my last periods first day, the babyis too small, since I have had an irregular period and had ovulation test and I was most fertile on the 1st and 2nd August (which we tried with current) , seems like I have conceived during those days. Probably I have confused all of you as well Wink
Could someone tell me what std is ? cause I have not heard about it yet?
Again thank you so much for the help Wink
Will be waiting for your replies..
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sexxybexxy

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Posted: 10-03-07 06:22am

hi, confusedd, u are going to have a baby just 6 days after me.
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confuseddd

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Posted: 10-03-07 06:24am

I have just remembered stds, yeah I did have it before everything was fine with it, so my only worry was about the baby.

Thank you anyway for that
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confuseddd

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Posted: 10-03-07 06:27am

Hi there,

Oh thats lovely, I hope both you and your baby are fine Smile well I was so worried and I can not help it I am still worried looks like it is my current bf baby isn't it? And i hope me worrying all the time won't effect the baby. Yesterday Dr said everything is fine with the baby , Thank God
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Posted: 10-03-07 08:08am

confuseddd wrote:
Hi there,

Oh thats lovely, I hope both you and your baby are fine Smile well I was so worried and I can not help it I am still worried looks like it is my current bf baby isn't it? And i hope me worrying all the time won't effect the baby. Yesterday Dr said everything is fine with the baby , Thank God


Glad your baby is fine. Try not to let this worry be a part of your experience.

Good luck.
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Posted: 10-03-07 08:23am

I will try my best, thank you. Looks like it is my current bf.s hopefullyyy!!! Smile
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Posted: 10-03-07 08:26am

confuseddd wrote:
I will try my best, thank you. Looks like it is my current bf.s hopefullyyy!!! Smile


"Hopefully" doesn't pan out in court. If you are worried about who the father might be, you should consider DNA testing once the baby is born. Stress can cause a not-so-pleasant pregnancy, so for the sake of both of you, I'd try not to worry about it so much until the baby is born. Pregnancy should be a joyous time in your life. Try to relax and enjoy.
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Posted: 10-03-07 08:31am

Hi Marianne,
Thank you for your answer, what would you say as your opinion, according to the first post I have sent??

Thank you
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Posted: 10-03-07 08:55am

I'm REALLY confused by that post. I need you to break it down for me and tell me exactly what you are asking. There was no mention of the ex bf before the last sentence and it's just really confusing.

When did you have sex with the ex? When did you have sex with the current bf?
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Posted: 10-03-07 09:01am

confuseddd wrote:
I am new on this site and very confused about my pregnancy can someone help me with my situation.
I am 9 weeks pregnant, here is the story. I have had sex with my ex bf on the 23rd June 07 which supposed to be the last day of my period, but because of my stressed situation during that time my period slowed down but carried on till the 3rd July and on the 3rd I have had another period till the 8th July. With my boyfriend we decided to have a baby and the first time we tried was on the 22nd July, and I had fertility tests and my most fertile days were 1st and the 2nd August and we tried those days as well, I have learned that I am pregnant on the 20th of August, before then I have had another test which was on the 10th August I was not pregnant by then , now I am 9 weeks pregnant. So my confusion is, could my ex be the father of this baby or my current bf?
Thanks in advance,


She also says her ex boyfriend did not ejaculate in her (she thinks).
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Posted: 10-03-07 09:09am

Here is the story again, I had a problem with my current bf, and have had sex with my ex on the 23rd of June, (which was supposed to be the last day of my period) and it was unprotected sex but he said he did not ej. in me and I believe he did not also I was still a bit bleeding. After that, because f the stressy period I was having during that time, My period slowed down but carried on till the 3rd little by litlle, and then have had another period on the 3rd July till the 8th July.
After the 23rd June, I did not have any other sex or anything like that at all with ex.
And then we sorted out the problems with the current, and we decided to have a baby and started to try on the 22nd with unprotected test. I had a fertility test at home and I was moste fertile on the 1st and 2nd August, so we have tried those days as well.
In addition, I have had pregnancy test twice once on the 4th of August and another one on the 10th they were both negative.
And the last one I have had is on the 20th which was positive. And now I am 10 weeks and 5 days pregnant, hope this will help to give you some idea to be able to work out Sad
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Posted: 10-03-07 09:13am

Sorry I should add 22nd of July we have started to try with the current bf
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Posted: 10-03-07 09:18am

According to the dates, they are saying the egg dropped on the 20th of July, give or take a few days. Pregnancy dates don't go by date of fertilization, they go by the age of the egg. So really, fertilization would have occurred some time after the 20th of July. In MY OPINION, the baby probably belongs to your current boyfriend.

Sorry I guess I suck at reading sometimes Smile
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Posted: 10-03-07 09:38am

Smile that is no problem, oh THANK GOD, I really think it is his, but I was still worried , I think I should relax a bit now.
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Posted: 10-03-07 09:44am

yeah it sounds like it is your current boyfriends baby. is he aware that you had sex with you ex? anyway, don't stress, your concern now is the baby. congrats on becoming a mommy.
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Posted: 10-03-07 09:54am

Thank you for the response, no he is not becuase he would not understand unfortunately, becuase of his culture.
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Posted: 10-03-07 11:00am

confuseddd wrote:
Thank you for the response, no he is not becuase he would not understand unfortunately, becuase of his culture.


I don't think culture matters. I think trust is what matters. No matter what the culture of the man, he'd have a hard time with this information.

Good luck.
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