rosejackson
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Posted: 09-20-07 15:33pm
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ok my period is officially late and i am
never late but im getting some discharge
but no cramping that i usually get before
my peiod is due
but the thing is i couldnt have got
pregnant this month. as you all know i was
ill, so we only had sex once and it wasnt
on my ovulation dates. so if i am pregnant
i mustve got pregnant last month. my
period did come last month but it was
light, not light enough to think anything
different though.
ill keep you updated. if my period doesnt
come in a couple of days ill take a test.
right now i havent got the money so i have
to ask a friend to get my a free one from
the clinic her friends works for.
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 09-20-07 15:35pm
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Oooo exciting! All these pregnancies make
me want another
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rosejackson
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Posted: 09-20-07 15:37pm
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the thing is though, were not trying. we
decided this month that it wasnt the right
time. of course i want another baby but we
decided to wait. well just have to see
what happens
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-20-07 15:41pm
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if it happens then it was meant to be
good luck rose and keep us updated!!!
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 09-20-07 15:43pm
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either way i hope you get the result you
want
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rosejackson
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Posted: 09-20-07 15:46pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | if it happens then it was
meant to be
good luck rose and keep us
updated!!! |
thanks, i will. if i am pregnant ill be on
here shouting about it lol! hows ur
pregnancy going hun?
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-20-07 18:44pm
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| rosejackson
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | if it happens then it was
meant to be
good luck rose and keep us
updated!!! |
thanks, i will. if i am pregnant ill be on
here shouting about it lol! hows ur
pregnancy going
hun? |
its been great!!! im just ready to get it
over with...i want kristen here NOW lol
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ThriftyGal
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Posted: 09-20-07 20:08pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | if it happens then it was
meant to be
good luck rose and keep us
updated!!! |
If it happens it was carelessness and lack
of responsibility. None of this "meant to
be" crap. Sex makes babies, that's
science, not fate.
I seriously don't see why young girls
don't learn their lesson after the first
baby.
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ilovemyfishies81
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Posted: 09-20-07 20:14pm
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| tanyaface
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | if it happens then it was
meant to be
good luck rose and keep us
updated!!! |
If it happens it was carelessness and lack
of responsibility. None of this "meant to
be" crap. Sex makes babies, that's
science, not fate.
I seriously don't see why young girls
don't learn their lesson after the first
baby. |
i agree
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-20-07 20:17pm
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| tanyaface
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | if it happens then it was
meant to be
good luck rose and keep us
updated!!! |
If it happens it was carelessness and lack
of responsibility. None of this "meant to
be" crap. Sex makes babies, that's
science, not fate.
I seriously don't see why young girls
don't learn their lesson after the first
baby. |
if she is willing and responsible to have
another then it is NOt a "lack of
reposibility"
and i believe that everything happens for
a reason and when its meant to happen
so if you have a problem with that then
too bad so sad
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ilovemyfishies81
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Posted: 09-20-07 20:18pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | tanyaface
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | if it happens then it was
meant to be
good luck rose and keep us
updated!!! |
If it happens it was carelessness and lack
of responsibility. None of this "meant to
be" crap. Sex makes babies, that's
science, not fate.
I seriously don't see why young girls
don't learn their lesson after the first
baby. |
if she is willing and responsible to have
another then it is NOt a "lack of
reposibility"
and i believe that everything happens for
a reason and when its meant to happen
so if you have a problem with that then
too bad so sad |
suzy your being rude and mean for no
reason, you need to lighten up get some
education its a simple science
SEX=PREGNANCY
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 09-20-07 20:21pm
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im sorry but its true young girls having
babies isnt fate.
after having one, they should know that
they dont need another one right away.
condoms. condoms. condoms.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-20-07 20:24pm
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| ilovemyfishies81
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | tanyaface
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | if it happens then it was
meant to be
good luck rose and keep us
updated!!! |
If it happens it was carelessness and lack
of responsibility. None of this "meant to
be" crap. Sex makes babies, that's
science, not fate.
I seriously don't see why young girls
don't learn their lesson after the first
baby. |
if she is willing and responsible to have
another then it is NOt a "lack of
reposibility"
and i believe that everything happens for
a reason and when its meant to happen
so if you have a problem with that then
too bad so sad |
suzy your being rude and mean for no
reason, you need to lighten up get some
education its a simple science
SEX=PREGNANCY |
well i dont know how young rose is?!!!!!!
she said she wanted another baby but they
had decided that this month wasnt right.
what does that have anything to do with
her being "irrisponsible"
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ilovemyfishies81
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Posted: 09-20-07 20:25pm
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| prfctbyntre
wrote: | im sorry but its true young
girls having babies isnt fate.
after having one, they should know that
they dont need another one right away.
condoms. condoms.
condoms. |
exactly , thank you!
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 09-20-07 20:27pm
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| ilovemyfishies81
wrote: | | prfctbyntre
wrote: | im sorry but its true young
girls having babies isnt fate.
after having one, they should know that
they dont need another one right away.
condoms. condoms.
condoms. |
exactly , thank
you! |
i can see them having another child..
maybe a few years down the road.. once
they have everything under control and
money and such but ya.
whats with all the girls who get pregnant
so easy and people who want to never do
lol
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ThriftyGal
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Posted: 09-20-07 20:27pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | tanyaface
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | if it happens then it was
meant to be
good luck rose and keep us
updated!!! |
If it happens it was carelessness and lack
of responsibility. None of this "meant to
be" crap. Sex makes babies, that's
science, not fate.
I seriously don't see why young girls
don't learn their lesson after the first
baby. |
if she is willing and responsible to have
another then it is NOt a "lack of
resposibility"
and i believe that everything happens for
a reason and when its meant to happen
so if you have a problem with that then
too bad so sad |
Well that is a very convenient way to look
at it and disregard personal
responsibility.
I shouldn't have had a baby. My life is a
product of my bad (and good) choices.
Fate didn`t assign me motherhood, my own
carelessness did. Even though I am doing
the best I can with my situation it is
still unfair to Rowan and fate isn`t to
blame for that, I am.
I think it`s irresponsible to encourage
girls with ideas like if it`s meant to be
it will happen. That idea disregards the
fact that we have choices that yield
consequences, which is the natural order
of the world.
If according to you what is meant to
happen will happen does that mean all the
trash that has kids only to abuse and
neglect them were meant to be parents.
I believe in fate to some level but not to
the extent where it disqualifies person
choice and control over outcome, and in
this situation, a young mother having a
second child, making a personal
responsible choice is way more relevant
than fate.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-20-07 20:35pm
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| tanyaface
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | tanyaface
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | if it happens then it was
meant to be
good luck rose and keep us
updated!!! |
If it happens it was carelessness and lack
of responsibility. None of this "meant to
be" crap. Sex makes babies, that's
science, not fate.
I seriously don't see why young girls
don't learn their lesson after the first
baby. |
if she is willing and responsible to have
another then it is NOt a "lack of
resposibility"
and i believe that everything happens for
a reason and when its meant to happen
so if you have a problem with that then
too bad so sad |
Well that is a very convenient way to look
at it and disregard personal
responsibility.
I shouldn't have had a baby. My life is a
product of my bad (and good) choices.
Fate didn`t assign me motherhood, my own
carelessness did. Even though I am doing
the best I can with my situation it is
still unfair to Rowan and fate isn`t to
blame for that, I am.
I think it`s irresponsible to encourage
girls with ideas like if it`s meant to be
it will happen. That idea disregards the
fact that we have choices that yield
consequences, which is the natural order
of the world.
If according to you what is meant to
happen will happen does that mean all the
trash that has kids only to abuse and
neglect them were meant to be parents.
I believe in fate to some level but not to
the extent where it disqualifies person
choice and control over outcome, and in
this situation, a young mother having a
second child, making a personal
responsible choice is way more relevant
than fate. |
as long as rowan has a loving home with a
family and a mother whom takes care of her
then i dont see how its unfair to her at
all.
just like mika has a loving mom and dad
whom take care of her and do the best they
can. just becaise they were young doesnt
mean she had a lack of responsibility. and
infact i believe danni even got preg while
using a condom (?)
so its not total lack of responsibilty.
and like i said i believe all things
happen for a reason and that they happen
when they happen for a reason.
actions and consequences may apply to that
as well,sine what you do has an effect so
of course even what you do has a reason
behind it.
and personal choice IMO has 100% to do
with fate and how life plays out
a personal choice is an action and it has
a consequence behind it weather good or
bad, it happened and there was a reason
behind it
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ThriftyGal
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Posted: 09-20-07 20:43pm
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This isn`t about Danni, who used
protection, or any girl who used
protection.
This is about girls who have babies,
posting (and I`m not specifically
referring to this post but more so to
Rose`s previous ones) about seriously
considering having another.
This is about girls who don`t even use
birth control and pass the consequences
off as fate... hemmmm.
I know being a mother happened due to my
own stupidity, not fate. And even though
I love Rowan I feel guilty daily. You
have to actually be a mother to truly
understand what it takes to be a mother,
and why teenage mothers and their babies
really are at a disadvantage. A teenage
mother can be phenomenal mother, but they
are still at a disadvantage. You cannot
deny that. It`s is harder then anything
else in the world, and being young adds to
the hardship more then you can imagine
before you actually get there.
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 09-20-07 20:46pm
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personally i think you are both right, and
each of your explanations coincide with
the other.
Fate chooses the outcome, but science
helps it along.
Had two people not made the choice to have
sex (fate) then the sperm could not have
met an egg and produced a baby (science).
^_^
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-20-07 21:01pm
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | personally i think you are
both right, and each of your explanations
coincide with the other.
Fate chooses the outcome, but science
helps it along.
Had two people not made the choice to have
sex (fate) then the sperm could not have
met an egg and produced a baby (science).
^_^ |
lol i like how you think!
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