I am about to turn 16 in a couple of days
and I have been sexually active in the
past (about a year ago). I don't remember
exactly when it started but I can barely
get any boners, once in a while I get
hard but it doesn't last long. Its
starting to worry me because I don't think
i ever had a problem with sex, or
masturbating and it just happened out of
nowhere.
I eat very healthy, I excersise regulkarly
(5 days a week). I am a very stress free
person. And i cant figure out where I went
wrong. I try to NOT masturbate for as long
as possible sometimes a week or two, but
it doesnt work much.
I need help.
I am really getting worried.
IF I get in a sexual relationship i dont
think I'lll be able to keep a boner long
enough to put the condom on.........
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jonnyboy123
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Joined: 15 Aug 2007 Posts: 7
Posted: 09-29-07 23:08pm
dude oh my gosh im in the same boat
someone help!
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longisland
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2007 Posts: 2
Most Hard-on Problems Is Psychological Posted: 10-06-07 00:13am
try to forget about getting a boner and
just enjoy. All of a sudden, you'll be
happy with what you see. Try a little bit
of alcohol and some good music before sex.
That will keep your mind worry free.
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5542 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
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Posted: 10-06-07 10:54am
Alcohol?? He's 15!! Come on!!
I do agree though, try relaxing and just
letting it happen. It could be just a
mental thing, and the more worked up you
get about it the harder it will be.
However, if that doesn't help at all, you
might want to see your doc, because at
your age, you shouldn't have this problem.
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AaronS
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Sep 2007 Posts: 15 Location: ,
Posted: 10-06-07 21:47pm
Yea, suggesting alcohol to him is not a
good idea. Dont try that.
I realized I cant get it up unless i'm not
trying to, just let it happen.
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guitarist09
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Jun 2008 Posts: 3
Posted: 06-22-08 03:46am
well heres my problem ive tried 3 nights
in a row and NOTHING!!! i have never had
this problem before. ive had pretty good
hard ons before but now i cant even get
fully erect. they are like semi erect. its
gettin me pissed and my girlfriend and i
sure dont wanna lose her cuz my guy cant
get up.....what can i do????
ohh and im not nervous about it so it cant
be that.
