prfctbyntre
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Posted: 09-21-07 21:51pm
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| the_girlfreind
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wrote: | | the_girlfreind
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wrote: | well it didnt last that
long, we broke up again.  stupid me and my
nagging.. |
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cause he moved 3 hrs away and i cant see
him and i keep nagging at him that he has
to find a place.. and hes asked me many
times to quit bugging him about it and he
snapped. i hope he changes his mind but i
doubt it this
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im sorry
sounds like maybe you guys need time away
ow long have yall been
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a year
thats the thing, were used to being
together all the time and when he moved
away this is the longest we;ve been apart
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Posted: 09-21-07 21:54pm
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wow
im sorry
relationships can suck sometimes
its good though that it happened now and
not while you were already married
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 09-21-07 22:09pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | wow
im sorry
relationships can suck sometimes
its good though that it happened now and
not while you were already
married |
i dont even know if were getting back
together or not, im writing him a very
long email as i type this
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-21-07 22:16pm
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| prfctbyntre
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | wow
im sorry
relationships can suck sometimes
its good though that it happened now and
not while you were already
married |
i dont even know if were getting back
together or not, im writing him a very
long email as i type
this |
well let me know how it goes
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 09-21-07 22:25pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | prfctbyntre
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | wow
im sorry
relationships can suck sometimes
its good though that it happened now and
not while you were already
married |
i dont even know if were getting back
together or not, im writing him a very
long email as i type
this |
well let me know how it
goes |
haha i sent him a poem too
i hope by him sleeping on it he;ll change
his mind, he has before
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 09-22-07 17:37pm
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he said he over reacted... its back on
haha
my life is nothing but drama.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-22-07 17:50pm
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| prfctbyntre
wrote: | he said he over reacted...
its back on haha
my life is nothing but
drama. |
he needs to stop overreacting
because in the long run you guys will jut
end up on and off and on and off
thats not a healthy stable relationship
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 09-22-07 17:54pm
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we've broke up like 8 times.
this is the longest time tho.. normally
its like 20 minutes.
its cause were not used to being apart.
we pretty much lived together after 3
weeks of dating haha
and now he went drinking with some friends
hah
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Posted: 09-22-07 17:58pm
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| prfctbyntre
wrote: | | we've broke up like 8
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thats not good.
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 09-22-07 18:18pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | prfctbyntre
wrote: | | we've broke up like 8
times. |
thats not
good. |
yah but its only lasts like 20 minutes at
a time.
were so much alike and were both really
stubborn and yah i dont know. lol
we've made it to a year so i dont know
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Tmddyan
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Hey
Posted: 09-23-07 14:10pm
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maybe he is scared---i know that i am --im
scared of a lot of things. like with this
guy that wont get his butt up here--i keep
asking myself--what is wrong with me that
he doesnt want to see me?( i know its him
not me) or if he sees me as just a huge
medical bill and doesnt wanna take care of
me(i have tmd and its a little costly) and
then i cant get the guys here to talk to
me. Ive been on one date my whole life.
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Posted: 09-23-07 14:12pm
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diane
that guy doesnt know what hes missing out
on!!! and whats tmd?
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Posted: 09-23-07 14:16pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | diane
that guy doesnt know what hes missing out
on!!! and whats
tmd? |
Its temporomandibular disorder(some
miscall it tmj--temporomandibular
joint--everyone has 2 of those) the jaw
locks and pops and hurts like hell. it can
refer pain to other parts of the body
too.
Ill agree jared is missing out. it really
kinda hurts the way he is acting. I
wouldnt do that to a girl if i was a guy.
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prfctbyntre
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Re: Hey
Posted: 09-23-07 14:16pm
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he is scared.
hes admitted it to me.
right now hes living at his boss' house
and theyre letting me go visit there for a
week at a time.
that was mainly his problem.. thought i
was going to cheat and everything
i kept telling him i wasnt, i even deleted
every guy on my facebook, msn and i
deleted my entire myspace to prove how
much i lovee him.
his boss isnt letting him spend any of his
paychecks, just his tip money (he works
for a moving company)
he pays them 300 for rent, they pay for
his meals and theyll pay for him to come
see me whenever he wants to
theyre buying him a webcam and mic for
theyre computer.
they know how much he loves me and how
much i love him.
theyre helping us out alot and they dont
even know me yet.. i get to go see him in
2 weeks 
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Posted: 09-23-07 14:17pm
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ohh ok i know what tmj is
this jared guy...have you told him how you
feel? does he know that hes upsetting
you?
i dont understand guys sometimes...all of
them are wierd
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Tmddyan
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Re: Hey
Posted: 09-23-07 14:19pm
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| prfctbyntre
wrote: | he is scared.
hes admitted it to me.
right now hes living at his boss' house
and theyre letting me go visit there for a
week at a time.
that was mainly his problem.. thought i
was going to cheat and everything
i kept telling him i wasnt, i even deleted
every guy on my facebook, msn and i
deleted my entire myspace to prove how
much i lovee him.
his boss isnt letting him spend any of his
paychecks, just his tip money (he works
for a moving company)
he pays them 300 for rent, they pay for
his meals and theyll pay for him to come
see me whenever he wants to
theyre buying him a webcam and mic for
theyre computer.
they know how much he loves me and how
much i love him.
theyre helping us out alot and they dont
even know me yet.. i get to go see him in
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thats good im glad.
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prfctbyntre
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Re: Hey
Posted: 09-23-07 14:24pm
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me too. i was going to buy his boss and
his wife a present for letting me stay..
but since i dont work right now im going
to bake them cookies
haha im soo lame
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Posted: 09-23-07 14:29pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | ohh ok i know what tmj is
this jared guy...have you told him how you
feel? does he know that hes upsetting
you?
i dont understand guys sometimes...all of
them are
wierd |
i did--on his birthday--- i havent heard
from him.
(sorry i didnt mean to make this post
about me.)
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 09-23-07 14:31pm
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| dyanmatteson
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | ohh ok i know what tmj is
this jared guy...have you told him how you
feel? does he know that hes upsetting
you?
i dont understand guys sometimes...all of
them are
wierd |
i did--on his birthday--- i havent heard
from him.
(sorry i didnt mean to make this post
about me.) |
its quite alright, i like hearing about
people and their lives.
cause i really dont know that many
people.. so it makes me feel like ..i dont
know the word
anyways i really dont mind lol
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Tmddyan
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Posted: 09-23-07 14:32pm
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| prfctbyntre
wrote: | | dyanmatteson
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | ohh ok i know what tmj is
this jared guy...have you told him how you
feel? does he know that hes upsetting
you?
i dont understand guys sometimes...all of
them are
wierd |
i did--on his birthday--- i havent heard
from him.
(sorry i didnt mean to make this post
about me.) |
its quite alright, i like hearing about
people and their lives.
cause i really dont know that many
people.. so it makes me feel like ..i dont
know the word
anyways i really dont mind
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thanks--its nice to vent:)
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