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Really Wanting to Know Who is The Father of My Baby?
Posted: 09-22-07 12:32pm
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okay i am pregnant.. im due oct.16.. on
jan.01 i cheated on my boyfriend with
another guy after my boyfriend cheated on
me on jan 4 i got my period and then
afterthat i was pregnant im just
woundering would my baby be my boyfriends
or the other guys even though i still had
my period 3 days later ? 
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Posted: 09-22-07 12:34pm
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your going to need a DNA test
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ITSAGIRL
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R U Sure
Posted: 09-22-07 12:37pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | your going to need a DNA
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theres no other way to know for sure ??
cuz i really dont want to tell my
boyfriend... im only 16 and its hard
enough beiing pregnant let alone telling
him that and being a single parent..... so
even if i had my period theres still a
chance its the other guys
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Re: R U Sure
Posted: 09-22-07 12:39pm
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| ITSAGIRL
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | your going to need a DNA
test |
theres no other way to know for sure ??
cuz i really dont want to tell my
boyfriend... im only 16 and its hard
enough beiing pregnant let alone telling
him that and being a single parent..... so
even if i had my period theres still a
chance its the other
guys |
im 16 too and i know its hard being
pregnant
but you shouldnt have cheated
lesson learned?
you need to tell your bf anyways its wrong
to keep a secret like that from him...
ok so when did you have sex with your bf
and when did you have sex with the other
guy? give me the exact dates and ill
figure it out for ya (also are you sure it
was your period? and not implantiation
bleeding maybe?)
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Re: R U Sure
Posted: 09-22-07 12:44pm
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well me and my boyfriend have sex on the
1st onf jan. and me and the other guy did
to and i know it sounds like i am a hoe
but i had never did anything like that
before i was really drunk and my boyfriend
cheated on me 7 times before that so ye
... but okay i had sex with my boyfriend
first and later the other guy but the
other guyy never came and how exactly do
you know if it was period or not it seemed
just like a regular period
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Re: R U Sure
Posted: 09-22-07 12:48pm
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| ITSAGIRL
wrote: | | well me and my boyfriend
have sex on the 1st onf jan. and me and
the other guy did to and i know it sounds
like i am a hoe but i had never did
anything like that before i was really
drunk and my boyfriend cheated on me 7
times before that so ye ... but okay i
had sex with my boyfriend first and later
the other guy but the other guyy never
came and how exactly do you know if it was
period or not it seemed just like a
regular
period |
If you had sex with them both on the same
night the only way to know for sure is to
have a DNA test.
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Posted: 09-22-07 12:49pm
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ok so you had sex with the other guy and
your bf on the same day?
if so then you will need a DNA test
because either could be the father
even if the other guy didnt cum then you
can still get pregnant from precum
so either of them could be the dad
and if your bf has cheated on you 7 times
then why the hell are yu even with him?
hes a jerk and he doesnt give a crap about
you and you need to end that relationship.
you guys dont know what your in for and
you need to quit acting like kids before
this baby gets here. cheating and partying
and drinking...is tht the kind of example
you want to set for your kid?! and you
could have an STD or something because i
hes sleeping around and your sleeping
around you could have herpes or an STD.
please think about what you are doing
because the baby you are about to bring
into the world needs good parents and you
guys seriously need to stop and think
about all of this
you NEED to tell him that you cheated
and if he gets mad so what let him go
because he cheated on you SEVEN
times...why havent you left already?
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Re: R U Sure
Posted: 09-22-07 12:50pm
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If you had sex with them both on the same
night the only way to know for sure is to
have a DNA test.[/quote]
well see the other guy never really got
inside me becuz he was to big and he never
came he got like his head in and then
stopped becuz we both felt wierd... i
guess ill know when the baby comes out to
becuz my boyfriend is half black and half
white the other guy is all white
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Posted: 09-22-07 12:52pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | ok so you had sex with the
other guy and your bf on the same day?
if so then you will need a DNA test
because either could be the father
even if the other guy didnt ejaculate then
you can still get pregnant from precum
so either of them could be the dad
and if your bf has cheated on you 7 times
then why the hell are yu even with him?
hes a jerk and he doesnt give a crap about
you and you need to end that relationship.
you guys dont know what your in for and
you need to quit acting like kids before
this baby gets here. cheating and partying
and drinking...is tht the kind of example
you want to set for your kid?! and you
could have an STD or something because i
hes sleeping around and your sleeping
around you could have herpes or an STD.
please think about what you are doing
because the baby you are about to bring
into the world needs good parents and you
guys seriously need to stop and think
about all of this
you NEED to tell him that you cheated
and if he gets mad so what let him go
because he cheated on you SEVEN
times...why havent you left
already? |
Well said! 
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Re: R U Sure
Posted: 09-22-07 12:53pm
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| ITSAGIRL
wrote: | | If you had sex with them
both on the same night the only way to
know for sure is to have a DNA
test. |
well see the other guy never really got
inside me becuz he was to big and he never
came he got like his head in and then
stopped becuz we both felt wierd... i
guess ill know when the baby comes out to
becuz my boyfriend is half black and half
white the other guy is all white[/quote]
ok once again it doesnt matter if he never
came in you the minute his penis goes in
your vagina then you could get pregnant
and even when the baby is born and even if
hes haf black half white half whatever you
will need a DNA test because it will be
impossible to know who the father is
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Posted: 09-22-07 12:54pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | ok so you had sex with the
other guy and your bf on the same day?
if so then you will need a DNA test
because either could be the father
even if the other guy didnt ejaculate then
you can still get pregnant from precum
so either of them could be the dad
and if your bf has cheated on you 7 times
then why the hell are yu even with him?
hes a jerk and he doesnt give a crap about
you and you need to end that relationship.
you guys dont know what your in for and
you need to quit acting like kids before
this baby gets here. cheating and partying
and drinking...is tht the kind of example
you want to set for your kid?! and you
could have an STD or something because i
hes sleeping around and your sleeping
around you could have herpes or an STD.
please think about what you are doing
because the baby you are about to bring
into the world needs good parents and you
guys seriously need to stop and think
about all of this
you NEED to tell him that you cheated
and if he gets mad so what let him go
because he cheated on you SEVEN
times...why havent you left
already? |
i will be a good parent the whole partying
thing was before i was pregnant and i dont
sleep around... i already got checked and
i dont have any stds or anything niether
does my boyfriend he got checked to... but
i know i should have left him along time
ago but hes diffrent now ...
i just cant see the baby being the other
guys if he didnt even get all the way in
me and i had my period but if i concieved
around the 22 then wouldnt it be my
boyfriends sence i only was with the other
dude once and had mym period
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Posted: 09-22-07 12:55pm
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| beepbeep176
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | ok so you had sex with the
other guy and your bf on the same day?
if so then you will need a DNA test
because either could be the father
even if the other guy didnt ejaculate then
you can still get pregnant from precum
so either of them could be the dad
and if your bf has cheated on you 7 times
then why the hell are yu even with him?
hes a jerk and he doesnt give a crap about
you and you need to end that relationship.
you guys dont know what your in for and
you need to quit acting like kids before
this baby gets here. cheating and partying
and drinking...is tht the kind of example
you want to set for your kid?! and you
could have an STD or something because i
hes sleeping around and your sleeping
around you could have herpes or an STD.
please think about what you are doing
because the baby you are about to bring
into the world needs good parents and you
guys seriously need to stop and think
about all of this
you NEED to tell him that you cheated
and if he gets mad so what let him go
because he cheated on you SEVEN
times...why havent you left
already? |
Well said! |
lol somebody had to say it
im 16 and its hard enogh being steretyped
against for being a young mom
when girls like this come on here and post
these things it makes me so sad to think
of the situtaion the baby is going to be
born into
theres a time to be a kid and a time to
grow up...and haveing a baby in less than
a month...being 16...its time to grow
up!!! 
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Posted: 09-22-07 12:56pm
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wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | ok so you had sex with the
other guy and your bf on the same day?
if so then you will need a DNA test
because either could be the father
even if the other guy didnt ejaculate then
you can still get pregnant from precum
so either of them could be the dad
and if your bf has cheated on you 7 times
then why the hell are yu even with him?
hes a jerk and he doesnt give a crap about
you and you need to end that relationship.
you guys dont know what your in for and
you need to quit acting like kids before
this baby gets here. cheating and partying
and drinking...is tht the kind of example
you want to set for your kid?! and you
could have an STD or something because i
hes sleeping around and your sleeping
around you could have herpes or an STD.
please think about what you are doing
because the baby you are about to bring
into the world needs good parents and you
guys seriously need to stop and think
about all of this
you NEED to tell him that you cheated
and if he gets mad so what let him go
because he cheated on you SEVEN
times...why havent you left
already? |
i will be a good parent the whole partying
thing was before i was pregnant and i dont
sleep around... i already got checked and
i dont have any stds or anything niether
does my boyfriend he got checked to... but
i know i should have left him along time
ago but hes diffrent now ...
i just cant see the baby being the other
guys if he didnt even get all the way in
me and i had my period but if i concieved
around the 22 then wouldnt it be my
boyfriends sence i only was with the other
dude once and had mym
period |
It would seem more likely that your
boyfriend is the father if you had your
period after being with the other guy.
Still there's no way to tell.
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Posted: 09-22-07 12:57pm
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| ITSAGIRL
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | ok so you had sex with the
other guy and your bf on the same day?
if so then you will need a DNA test
because either could be the father
even if the other guy didnt ejaculate then
you can still get pregnant from precum
so either of them could be the dad
and if your bf has cheated on you 7 times
then why the hell are yu even with him?
hes a jerk and he doesnt give a crap about
you and you need to end that relationship.
you guys dont know what your in for and
you need to quit acting like kids before
this baby gets here. cheating and partying
and drinking...is tht the kind of example
you want to set for your kid?! and you
could have an STD or something because i
hes sleeping around and your sleeping
around you could have herpes or an STD.
please think about what you are doing
because the baby you are about to bring
into the world needs good parents and you
guys seriously need to stop and think
about all of this
you NEED to tell him that you cheated
and if he gets mad so what let him go
because he cheated on you SEVEN
times...why havent you left
already? |
i will be a good parent the whole partying
thing was before i was pregnant and i dont
sleep around... i already got checked and
i dont have any stds or anything niether
does my boyfriend he got checked to... but
i know i should have left him along time
ago but hes diffrent now ...
i just cant see the baby being the other
guys if he didnt even get all the way in
me and i had my period but if i concieved
around the 22 then wouldnt it be my
boyfriends sence i only was with the other
dude once and had mym
period |
like i said it might not have been a
period
it ould have been implatation bleeding
which is just like a period sometimes! PRE
CUM can get you pregnant no matter how
much you want to deny it
he could have stuck it in for one second
and pulled it back out and guess what?!
YOU COULD GET PREG FROM THAT!!!
for every action there is a reaction and i
hope you learned your lesson
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Posted: 09-22-07 12:58pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | beepbeep176
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | ok so you had sex with the
other guy and your bf on the same day?
if so then you will need a DNA test
because either could be the father
even if the other guy didnt ejaculate then
you can still get pregnant from precum
so either of them could be the dad
and if your bf has cheated on you 7 times
then why the hell are yu even with him?
hes a jerk and he doesnt give a crap about
you and you need to end that relationship.
you guys dont know what your in for and
you need to quit acting like kids before
this baby gets here. cheating and partying
and drinking...is tht the kind of example
you want to set for your kid?! and you
could have an STD or something because i
hes sleeping around and your sleeping
around you could have herpes or an STD.
please think about what you are doing
because the baby you are about to bring
into the world needs good parents and you
guys seriously need to stop and think
about all of this
you NEED to tell him that you cheated
and if he gets mad so what let him go
because he cheated on you SEVEN
times...why havent you left
already? |
Well said! |
lol somebody had to say it
im 16 and its hard enogh being steretyped
against for being a young mom
when girls like this come on here and post
these things it makes me so sad to think
of the situtaion the baby is going to be
born into
theres a time to be a kid and a time to
grow up...and haveing a baby in less than
a month...being 16...its time to grow
up!!! |
i am being grown up and i didnt come on
here for you to try to put me down i came
on here to see if i could get some answers
so i could make the best choices for my
baby.... i was just woundering if theres
was any way of knowing without a dna test
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Posted: 09-22-07 13:00pm
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wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | | beepbeep176
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | ok so you had sex with the
other guy and your bf on the same day?
if so then you will need a DNA test
because either could be the father
even if the other guy didnt ejaculate then
you can still get pregnant from precum
so either of them could be the dad
and if your bf has cheated on you 7 times
then why the hell are yu even with him?
hes a jerk and he doesnt give a crap about
you and you need to end that relationship.
you guys dont know what your in for and
you need to quit acting like kids before
this baby gets here. cheating and partying
and drinking...is tht the kind of example
you want to set for your kid?! and you
could have an STD or something because i
hes sleeping around and your sleeping
around you could have herpes or an STD.
please think about what you are doing
because the baby you are about to bring
into the world needs good parents and you
guys seriously need to stop and think
about all of this
you NEED to tell him that you cheated
and if he gets mad so what let him go
because he cheated on you SEVEN
times...why havent you left
already? |
Well said! |
lol somebody had to say it
im 16 and its hard enogh being steretyped
against for being a young mom
when girls like this come on here and post
these things it makes me so sad to think
of the situtaion the baby is going to be
born into
theres a time to be a kid and a time to
grow up...and haveing a baby in less than
a month...being 16...its time to grow
up!!! |
i am being grown up and i didnt come on
here for you to try to put me down i came
on here to see if i could get some answers
so i could make the best choices for my
baby.... i was just woundering if theres
was any way of knowing without a dna
test |
thanks so much for the help....
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Posted: 09-22-07 13:00pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | beepbeep176
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | ok so you had sex with the
other guy and your bf on the same day?
if so then you will need a DNA test
because either could be the father
even if the other guy didnt ejaculate then
you can still get pregnant from precum
so either of them could be the dad
and if your bf has cheated on you 7 times
then why the hell are yu even with him?
hes a jerk and he doesnt give a crap about
you and you need to end that relationship.
you guys dont know what your in for and
you need to quit acting like kids before
this baby gets here. cheating and partying
and drinking...is tht the kind of example
you want to set for your kid?! and you
could have an STD or something because i
hes sleeping around and your sleeping
around you could have herpes or an STD.
please think about what you are doing
because the baby you are about to bring
into the world needs good parents and you
guys seriously need to stop and think
about all of this
you NEED to tell him that you cheated
and if he gets mad so what let him go
because he cheated on you SEVEN
times...why havent you left
already? |
Well said! |
lol somebody had to say it
im 16 and its hard enogh being steretyped
against for being a young mom
when girls like this come on here and post
these things it makes me so sad to think
of the situtaion the baby is going to be
born into
theres a time to be a kid and a time to
grow up...and haveing a baby in less than
a month...being 16...its time to grow
up!!! |
I know, it's a shame. I hate the looks I
get from some people, even some people on
here who judge based on age. They don't
know me personally, they don't know my
financial or mental capabilities. It's
just frustrating. Even though I'll be 18
when the baby's here it's just another
thing to deal with. I'm very excited about
having this baby, as is my boyfriend and I
know we will make wonderful parents.
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Posted: 09-22-07 13:01pm
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im not putting you down im telling to the
truth and giving you advice. and its good
advice too.
and no there is no way to tell without
getting a DNA test because you has sex
with two guys the same night so either of
them could be the father
you need a DNA test
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Posted: 09-22-07 13:01pm
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Like everyone else has said, you are GOING
to HAVE to get a DNA test, okay? There's
really no way around it, if you want to
know who the father of your baby is, then
get a dna test. & you're going to need
to tell your boyfriend what happened, are
you going to want to live with that for
the rest of your life? Sooner or later the
guilt will catch up to you, it's better to
tell now than later.
& please, after this baby is born, USE
PROTECTION. I'm assuming that you weren't
by the way you talk about what happened,
and since you're pregnant. Use protection
every single time, it's really not hard to
slip on a condom.
good luck.
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Posted: 09-22-07 13:05pm
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| HcoBrunette06
wrote: | Like everyone else has said,
you are GOING to HAVE to get a DNA test,
okay? There's really no way around it, if
you want to know who the father of your
baby is, then get a dna test. & you're
going to need to tell your boyfriend what
happened, are you going to want to live
with that for the rest of your life?
Sooner or later the guilt will catch up to
you, it's better to tell now than later.
& please, after this baby is born, USE
PROTECTION. I'm assuming that you weren't
by the way you talk about what happened,
and since you're pregnant. Use protection
every single time, it's really not hard to
slip on a condom.
good luck. |
ha ha terra i was waiting for you to post
on this
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