Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 67 Location: texas, america
Divorce: Grandchildren In the Middle Posted: 09-24-07 11:21am
Hi am currently separated divorce needs to
get started and our children are
grown.......am already engaged and will
remarry as soon as I am free to do so
....this issues in this and concerns are
for my granddaughters ............I left
him so he has been putting his
inclinations on all of this onto our
granddaughters ......the older one has
drawn a line and chooses to side with
grandpa ...she is only eight......my
youngest three is currently home with her
mom and have heard some destrubing things
out of her concerning me ......my daughter
is on top of it my ex may or may not
change what he is doing ......I
volunteered to back off and away where
these two were concerned initially but now
with these awful things being said to me
by the three year old??????????how to
proceed ......my fiance' and I have
discussed it and decided to let it go and
not add more confusion to the girls than
is already in progress ...my hope is that
in time as they get older with their
parents direction I may again become a
major part of their lives with my new
husband .....these things never are
contained are they ????the innocent get
all the crap to muddle through ....they
are my only regret and I am ashamed of my
ex for using them to hurt me .......good
thing am moving on to a real man now
......thanks for the read ......wazzywoman
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nightangel73
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Posted: 04-10-08 20:08pm
Difficult situation for all parts. Just
have to live with consequence as it was
your decision to leave your husband. He
must be very hurt.
