How Do You Feel About Him Masturbating ?

eh who cares
i do it when hes not around
porn is no biggie either
masturbation is normal

me and travis have enough sex anyways
its nice to let his own self do all the work once in a while

I personally don't care if a partner masturbates with me around or not. I'd do it if they weren't around too. Nothing wrong with masturbation OR porn. I would never expect a partner to quit porn just because they were dating me. I certainly wouldn't be happy if someone demanded ME to quit looking at yaoi! I'd be showing them the door! My private time is just that: My private time. Just because I'm in a relationship doesn't mean I don't deserve alone time with my hands and sexy porn!

oh man, i feel like an aweful gf would disagreeing with everyone! i would mind. it would make me feel like i'm not good enough for him or something. i dunno. that's just me. :/

Do YOU masturbate?

i doooooooooooo

well then...

As a matter of fact I do not.............I don't have too, i always have him around to do it for me..................as for him masturbating. He can knock himself out! I just never feel compelled to "do myself" and if I do get horney, all I have to do is say..... lets' go...................and we're off! We aren't in your generation, so I guess it depends on age as well. Just thought Id toss that in! Its your body, you are free do do whatever you like with it?????????????/ Get a hold of yourself!

I think it's sexy in a secretive kind of way. I'll ask every now and then about it.

I've got an illogical porn hang up, though, and like you deebaby I'm trying to work through it. I'm doing okay with it - I'll see it on the computer sometimes and check out what he was looking at just so I know what he's into, and most of the time he is looking at very, very humorous porn and it's hard to get in a tizzy about that. He says it's just outrageous and makes him laugh. I'm pretty sure he's not getting turned on by zombies with dildos and bad 1980's productions and midgets (not that there's anything wrong with getting turned on by those things - I just know this man isn't).

I was talking to w0esurrt lol, who didn't like her boyfriend masturbating.

Basically I mean the question towards any woman who doesn't want her bf to masturbate... but who still do it themselves. You're being hypocrites.

I've been married for 26 yrs. My feeling are its fine with me. I want him take care of it that way then having an affair. As for the porn if it helps,More power to him.

I was in a relationship like that with my childrens father it was ok at first but it became to much. We would have sex and I would go to sleep and wake up and he would be masturbating. He had plenty of porn and I use to like watching it, I was turned on but he went overboard. We shouldn't have sex and then 30 mins. later your watching porn or watching porn masturbating then wake me up for sex. It was too much for me. Its crazy after 10 yrs it didn;t work out for us. So maybe it was me..To each its own, just be careful..

Well there is a line between enjoying porn and being addicted to it. Sounds like your children's father was addicted. He should have gone to therapy for that.

Hmmm..
Daniel masterbates without me, and I without him, but what annoys me a little is the porn.. I don't mind watching it WITH him and getting a little freaky, having some fun.. but considering I'm very self-conscious about my appearance it does make me ;@ to know that he gets rly turned on by all the attractive women seen in porn.
He told me that if it really bothers me, he wont watch it anymore.. but that just makes me feel bad, so I'll let him have his fun. It does make me feel good when he shuts it off and tells me how much he wants me and then we race to the bed hah!

Oh well, it's not a big issue. :]

Sex is like a deck of cards.................you have a good hand, you don't need a partner!!!!!!!!!!!

Just hought i'd add that for laughs!

hi, i dont might one bit that my fiancee masterbates on his own. It is his body and if he wants some pleasure he can go for it. I masterbate when he is not around so why carnt he?

I don't mind that my boyfriend masturbates AT ALL...in fact sometimes I like to watch, kinda turns me on. As far as porn goes....I don't mind watching it at all, in fact sometimes I suggest it...perhaps I'm the weird one though.

I used to not mind when my b/f would masturbate to porn and for years we would enjoy porn together in the bedroom to add a lil spice and excitment. After a few years it became a bad thing for me because my b/f started to compare me to the women in the videos and out in public and after he would stare at thier beautiful bodies he would look at me and ask me (a few feet away from these ladies to where they could hear him), "why don't you have an ass like that". I was never and still don't to this day consider myself a jealous girl but others think i am from looking at me and hearing my opinions, ppl are just looking from the outside and not whats behind it. Anyways from hearing this time and time again for about 5 years straight it only got worse and worse and i felt less like a woman everytime. so i took away the porn and i honestly dont ever want it back, ill never enjoy it like i did at one time. besides all that embarassment he at one time choked me out on my bed when i turned off a sexually explicit video of britney spears. ive never felt the same since then. mind you this all happened when i was 16 years old and i did have to cover up and hide the marks on my neck from him. im 25 years old now and im still messed up about porn. but i dont mind if my bf wants to play with himself, just keep the porn out of it so i dont have to re-live a bad experience that lasted well over 1/2 a decade.