Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Suspended Posted: 03-26-04 02:10am
I am a mother, correct? I am supposed to
be a good role model, correct? I just got
suspended from school and I am waiting for
my ride to come and pick me up. My old
best friend becky, up until about a month
ago, has been talking a lot of smack about
me lately. Today I drew the line. It was
brough to my attention from a girl I
hardly talk to that becky was being really
ignorant. She was telling em things that
becky said that nobody but becky would
know. I got mad. Then I found out that
she was talking bad about sean. So I
confronted her, she was tlaking about how
she thought I was a bad mother. So I
medical question slapped her. The office
came and they said that they werent going
to give me a local citation but that they
were going to suspend me and I could come
back tuesday or wednesday. Depending on
if I leave today. I cant believe how bad
this day is going. I am in tears, I am
susposed to be mature, and I was acting
like a child. The school lady said that
she understands where I am coming from,
and that my motherly instincts clicked in.
She said that I have been doing a great
job and that they dont want this to hold
me back. She asked me for my grandmas
number and I was crying so hard I couldnt
get it out I never wanted to let my
grandma know. I am really g going nuts
here. I need some guidance.
Stacie the immature
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 03-26-04 02:20am
You are not immature at all, everyone of
us here would have done the same thing.
Only you just slapped her, I would have
kicked her butt and im pregnant! No
matter if we are a mother, we still have
anger and if anyone says anythin bad about
the way we raise our kids or anything like
that then you have to do what you have to
do. Dont cry about it sweetie. Its ok.
You know you did wrong but you slapped.
Just dont cry no more, be proud you stuck
up for yourself ok! You need a vacation
anyways. Have you talked to your
councelors about home school yet???? You
better or I will call for you! You tell
them that this is the first offense and
that many days off is unacceptable when
that dummy was instigating it the whole
time, she was asking for it, you fight it
and you tell them whats up. I beat some
girl up and I only got 3 days. And that
was my second offense. So dont let them
do that to you. Wipe those tears and be
ok! Ok! I will calll that school myself
if I have to!
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ERICA83
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2004 Posts: 738 Location: clinton twp, MI
Posted: 03-26-04 02:27am
Good job!!!!! Who hoooo. Lol I know you
are feeling like caca but dont. You did
the right thing. I would have slapped her
to.. It wasn't the brightest idead but
it's ok. Now maybe that girl will shut
her mouth and think twice. Dont feel bad
about what you did. Your son didnt see
you so it so thats all that matters. You
stood up for yourself and your son
congrats! Some girls can be nasty.
Especially those in high school. Just
wait until she has a child then she will
realize where you were coming from. Lol
when I was in 5th grade is when I got in
my first fight. My oldest sister is 27
and her man is 24 they have a 10 year old
son and a 8 year old son. Can you do the
math?
well I was braging about being a 10 year
old auntie when this girl called my sister
a child molester and called my nephew a
health questions. It was all over with
after that! ~ erica.
I know ya think you did something wrong,
but slapping her was the least of what I
would do! I would have beat the hell out
of her!!!! You are a great rolde model
and a wonderful protector of your son!
Call me tonight!
Love,
chanda
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 03-26-04 02:35am
Although it may not have been the best
choice I dont think most of us would be
able to control ourselves and stop
ourselves from hurting her! At least you
just slapped her! Why is your suspension
so long? I would think for something of
this trivial it would be much shorter or
even an in school suspension! Heck you
should have just gotten a warning if
you've been an otherwise good student!
Don't worry honey your not a bad role
model because if anyone was saying bad
things about our children we all would
have done the exact same thing!
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kitty_55
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Posts: 1473 Location: Canada
Posted: 03-26-04 03:13am
Dont worry about it! I got suspenced so
many times! I even got exspelled out of
two schools! But I think u did a good job
slapping her! She has no right to tell u
that ur a bad mother! I know ur not and I
know u love sean to death!!!!
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1701 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 03-26-04 03:40am
Don't worry, you were defending your
motherhood! No one has a right to call
you a bad mother!!!!! it isn't like you
did this in front of sean. What you did
was perfectly fine!!!!! You can only
hold back so much!
Sara, steve, and jayden
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lee25
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Dec 2003 Posts: 1018 Location: new york
Posted: 03-26-04 03:45am
Your not behaving like a child, like they
said before it's your motherly instincts.
I won't let anyone really g talk about my
kids either. I would wiat for her after
school and really kick her ass. I'm not
saying that you should do it, i'm just
saying that's what i've would of done.
It will be okay, just in case if there is
a next time, try and hold back and wait
until after school.
Brenda
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 1222 Location: illinois
Posted: 03-26-04 06:45am
I would have beat the sh*t out of her.
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 03-26-04 07:54am
Thanks ladies I needed that. My grandma
just got home and she said that she would
have done the same thing but not the
slapping.. That meant so much. Chanda I
will call you if I can.. Love, stacie
well I was braging about being a 10 year
old auntie when this girl called my sister
a child molester and called my nephew a
health questions. It was all over with
after that! ~ erica.
it isn't like you
did this in front of sean. What you did
was perfectly fine!!!!! You can only
hold back so much!
