I'm Hurting Her When I Insert My Penis Posted: 09-25-07 23:58pm
Just a moment: this is my first post!
YAY!!
Down to business. I'm a little shy about
revealing all of this to strangers, but I
really need some answers. For the last
week or so, 99% of the time we try to have
sex, it hurts my girlfriend REALLY bad
when I try to go inside. She says it
doesn't hurt at all when I finger her,
ONLY when we have sex. Once it didn't
hurt her that bad, and she told me to just
push in, and when I did she was fine,
although we found out after that she
bled(no, she was not a virgin at the
time). We thought that was the end of the
problem, but we tried today and it hurt
her more than it did before. She told me
to try and push in fast, and it just hurt
her ALOT. This is the week after her
period, if that factors into things at
all.
Can someone PLEASE help me!?!? I love my
girlfriend very much, and I absolutely
HATE to hurt her in any way. Any help you
can give is greatly appreciated.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-26-07 09:48am
It is possible that she is injured from
the one time you did manage to get in and
she bled. You're going to have to wait a
while now for her body to properly heal!
Pressing on an injury hurts as I'm sure
you know
Give it some time and when you eventually
go to try again be slow and gentle. Use a
lot of lubricant and make sure to get her
very wound up and turned on so that her
muscles are more relaxed and easier to
enter. Also you might want to try bringing
her to a clitoral orgasm first so that her
muscles have already wound up and down
again...it could make it easier for entry.
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peter peters
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I Hate Hurting Her Posted: 09-26-07 22:41pm
Phantomoftheopera1989,
I'm with Wataurmuva totally. Two things
are really relavant that you have not
mentioned. Do you have a large Penis? Does
your G / F have any natural lubrication?
Long Penises and dry Vaginas plus
inexperience are a bad combination.
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PhantomoftheOpera1989
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Re: I Hate Hurting Her Posted: 09-30-07 22:19pm
peter peters
wrote:
Phantomoftheopera1989,
I'm with Wataurmuva totally. Two things
are really relavant that you have not
mentioned. Do you have a large Penis? Does
your G / F have any natural lubrication?
Long Penises and dry Vaginas plus
inexperience are a bad
combination.
Well, I'm about 8" long. I guess that's
big. And she has PLENTY of natural
lubrication. I've seriously been drier in
a swimming pool, so that's not the
problem. We're just gonna give it a week
or two and try again.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-01-07 15:09pm
If she hasn't had this problem with sex
before, it could be an infection.
Something as simple as a yeast infection
can make sex really painful.
Try lube anyway. I use it all the time if
I'm naturally lubricated or not, and 8" is
large. And yes, let her poor vagina rest a
little. Tell her to make sure she doesn't
have any signs of infection.
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PhantomoftheOpera1989
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Posted: 10-04-07 00:36am
Well, we tried again yesterday, and I was
able to get in without hurting her at all,
and without any bleeding. Hopefully, it
was just a urinary tract infection like
she thought it was. We'll try again in a
couple of days and see how it goes
(fingers crossed!)
