Im Getting Married Next Year, And Im Having My Second Affair Posted: 09-26-07 10:08am
I cant stop cheating on my fiance, he
works away alot and i get very lonely
looking after our son all day.
I know this cant excuse my behaviour but
surely it explains it, he's never there
for my needs or there for when i need to
talk, am i really that bad?
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amanduhhbbyx3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2007 Posts: 33 Location: miami,
Posted: 10-04-07 19:22pm
I cant say I know what your going threw
sense Im only 13 but talk to him about it,
tell him to pleasure you more but you have
to stop cheating on him. You are getting
nothing out of it except recking your
marrige. Try telling him that you are
lonely & that if he can cut his hours
or something for you can spend more time
together. Hope everything works out (:
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 10-04-07 19:28pm
geez dont marry him! for god sakes what
the heck? why would you want to marry a
man whom youre already screwing over?!?!?
and youre not even married yet?!!!
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Auzzie_Wanting_To_Help
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Feb 2007 Posts: 214 Location: Australia
Re: Im Getting Married Next Year, And Im Having My Second Af Posted: 10-07-07 04:55am
sexysam
wrote:
I cant stop cheating on my
fiance, he works away alot and i get very
lonely looking after our son all day.
I know this cant excuse my behaviour but
surely it explains it, he's never there
for my needs or there for when i need to
talk, am i really that
bad?
Are you that bad?? .Y.E.S!!! Your husband
deserves so much more better!! Have you
never heard of communication?? Talking to
him about how you feel?? There is also the
invention of the vibrator to satisfy
"needs". Im sorry if i seem blunt but in
my opinion there is .N.O excuse for
cheating... you obviouly dont love your
partner or you wouldnt cheat.... yes it is
that black and white!!
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bitzy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2007 Posts: 10
Posted: 01-03-08 23:59pm
don't get married-if you do , you are
choosing to ruin someone's happiness
forever- and it isn't your right. You
simply are being selfish and so unloving.
You may feel you made a mistake but you
did it 2x, you will do it again. no doubt.
Both of you aren't right for each other.
Break it up and maybe he will find someone
true to his heart, you aren't it. - you
are cheating because you're to scared to
break it off. do what's right and you can
walk away with a fresh start. either you
also will find someone who will make you
feel content and loved and right one day
to stop the immaturity - and to commit or
you can accept that marriage is not for
you and become part of those who are
single , who also have a wonderful life...
no need to get married, for a baby? maybe-
but that's not written in stone either...
love comes first. so walk away......you
may break his heart by telling him but it
is better than breaking it over and over
again once you are married.
does he have no feelings- my god - please
leave him.
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