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sexysam

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Im Getting Married Next Year, And Im Having My Second Affair
Posted: 09-26-07 10:08am

I cant stop cheating on my fiance, he works away alot and i get very lonely looking after our son all day.
I know this cant excuse my behaviour but surely it explains it, he's never there for my needs or there for when i need to talk, am i really that bad?
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amanduhhbbyx3

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Joined: 02 Oct 2007
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Location: miami,

Posted: 10-04-07 19:22pm

I cant say I know what your going threw sense Im only 13 but talk to him about it, tell him to pleasure you more but you have to stop cheating on him. You are getting nothing out of it except recking your marrige. Try telling him that you are lonely & that if he can cut his hours or something for you can spend more time together. Hope everything works out (:
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young Girl

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Joined: 21 Jun 2007
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Location: everythings better in, texas USA

Posted: 10-04-07 19:28pm

geez dont marry him! for god sakes what the heck? why would you want to marry a man whom youre already screwing over?!?!? and youre not even married yet?!!!
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Auzzie_Wanting_To_Help

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Joined: 04 Feb 2007
Posts: 214
Location: Australia
Re: Im Getting Married Next Year, And Im Having My Second Af
Posted: 10-07-07 04:55am

sexysam wrote:
I cant stop cheating on my fiance, he works away alot and i get very lonely looking after our son all day.
I know this cant excuse my behaviour but surely it explains it, he's never there for my needs or there for when i need to talk, am i really that bad?


Are you that bad?? .Y.E.S!!! Your husband deserves so much more better!! Have you never heard of communication?? Talking to him about how you feel?? There is also the invention of the vibrator to satisfy "needs". Im sorry if i seem blunt but in my opinion there is .N.O excuse for cheating... you obviouly dont love your partner or you wouldnt cheat.... yes it is that black and white!!
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bitzy

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Joined: 03 Oct 2007
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Posted: 01-03-08 23:59pm

don't get married-if you do , you are choosing to ruin someone's happiness forever- and it isn't your right. You simply are being selfish and so unloving. You may feel you made a mistake but you did it 2x, you will do it again. no doubt. Both of you aren't right for each other. Break it up and maybe he will find someone true to his heart, you aren't it. - you are cheating because you're to scared to break it off. do what's right and you can walk away with a fresh start. either you also will find someone who will make you feel content and loved and right one day to stop the immaturity - and to commit or you can accept that marriage is not for you and become part of those who are single , who also have a wonderful life... no need to get married, for a baby? maybe- but that's not written in stone either... love comes first. so walk away......you may break his heart by telling him but it is better than breaking it over and over again once you are married.
does he have no feelings- my god - please leave him.
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