I Feel Totally Abnormal: no need to masturbate Posted: 09-26-07 16:34pm
am i the only girl that does not
masturbate? i have never wanted to, i
think it is totally unneeded.
i have sex enough that i don't feel like
masturbating would affect me in any other
way.
am i strange to think this?
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Rosie H
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Posted: 09-26-07 17:10pm
Im sure you arent the only one out there
and please do not feel strange about it at
all. You are perfectly normal! I didnt
for a long time either, I was tought it
was morally wrong.
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Tylanas
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Re: I Feel Totally Abnormal Posted: 09-26-07 22:24pm
popminer
wrote:
am i the only girl that does
not masturbate? i have never wanted to, i
think it is totally unneeded.
i have sex enough that i don't feel like
masturbating would affect me in any other
way.
am i strange to think
this?
Its normal not to masturbate and actually
many women don't, mostly due to the social
stigma attached to your sex organs, and
because it's harder for us to learn how on
accident. Guys get it easy!
Many girls begin masturbation before
sex, so that's why it matters to them. It
was how they pleased themselves before
they had sex, and it's how they please
themselves when they are single.
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ceddy
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Posted: 10-31-07 20:16pm
my gf doesn't masturbate, and can't stand
it when I touch her with my fingers.
what's up with that ?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-31-07 22:43pm
Some women just don't like it. In some
cases it is actually a mental condition
from past abuse or something else that
actually needs to be dealt with; but for
some women it's just not their thing. I
don't know if you'd consider it rude to
ask your girlfriend gently if she had
sexual abuse as a child; because it could
be a cause of this and it could be worked
on. It's up to you.
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 10-31-07 22:55pm
If you and she are sexually active, is she
enjoying sexual intercourse? I doesn't
sound like it.