Depressed When Masturbating Posted: 09-27-07 00:07am
I masturbate every 2 days or so, clitoral
only. I can never orgasm when masturbating
through the vagina. It actually hurts.
Often i've felt like i was having regrets
after masturbating, but the next day im
back to it. Please help!!
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Maji
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Posted: 09-27-07 02:12am
i can never masturbate vaginally either.
the thought of sticking my finger in there
sounds a bit scary, especially since i've
always had really long nails. but yeah
i've found that when you masturbate you
have to have some sort of motive. i.e a
picture of your bf/husband/crush etc, a
memory of something sexy that
happened...stuff like that. when i try to
do it out of nowhere i always feel really
unfulfilled. maybe thats your problem.
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Tylanas
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Re: Depressed When Masturbating Posted: 09-27-07 09:56am
Katebomb
wrote:
I masturbate every 2 days or
so, clitoral only. I can never orgasm when
masturbating through the vagina. It
actually hurts. Often i've felt like i was
having regrets after masturbating, but the
next day im back to it. Please
help!!
Almost all women masturbate clitorally!
That's very normal!
And masturbation is normal too. You have
NO reason to feel regretful, none at all!!
Masturbation is healthy, safe, and
natural.
Help with what? All I can do is assure you
that there is absolutely no reason to feel
guilty or depressed because of
masturbation.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-27-07 17:43pm
You don't have to have a picture in your
mind or anything if that doesn't do
anything for you.
There isn't any reason to feel bad about
it, but if you can't beat the blues you
are feeling a therapist would be able to
help.
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MMAFighter
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Joined: 23 Sep 2007 Posts: 365 Location: WA, USA
Lol Posted: 09-27-07 17:47pm
Masturbation is normal and healthy, people
have sexual urges that need to be
expressed, its part of human nature. No
need to feel regret for masturbation. If
you still feel guilty or regretful, try
telling yourself that you are beautiful
and womanly while masturbating.
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Jasmine86
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Joined: 02 Jan 2008 Posts: 39 Location: , Canada
Posted: 01-03-08 03:12am
Sometimes I feel depressed after
masterbating as well, but mainly because I
have trouble getting wet...I hear about
women that get so wet that their sheets
are soaking afterwards, and I just get a
little bit of like, moisture! It's so
disappointing!! Is this even normal?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-03-08 10:43am
Totally 100% normal!! Many women have
trouble getting wet; that's why lube was
invented!!! You can also try masturbating
in the bath.
