Unable to Orgasm During Sex.. And Other Questions Posted: 09-27-07 11:30am
Ok, so hi! First off: 24 years old, above
average size, uncut (if this is relevant)
I have a few issues I've been dealing with
for a while and I thought I'd ask some
questions...
First off, I've had many partners in my
life and I have never orgasmed through
sex, nor through oral sex. Condom on,
condom off, different positions, etc... It
feels good sometimes, others it doesn't
really feel like much. I can only orgasm
through masturbation and only one way at
that. Advice?
Secondly; when I am having sex, I get an
urge to urinate or what feels like
urination. I don't think it's possible to
do so... so what is it? I keep trying to
squelch it because I don't want something
to happen, but should I embrace it and let
it go? Try to force it out?
Lastly, sometimes I just can't seem to be
aroused enough to keep an erection for
long periods of time. Sometimes I can,
sometimes I can't... but I wonder if
that's just a stimulation thing. Typically
after masturbating for my partner to
orgasm, I am raring to go again in 20
minutes; but it seems like sometimes I
just can't keep it hard.