Recently my roomate's cousin came down to
stay the weekend. We hooked up one night
and it was pretty much great except one
small problem. I couldn't maintain an
erection for anything, or even seem to
switch my sex drive on. I'm attracted to
her, but I just wasn't feeling it at all.
I'm pretty sure it's a result of some kind
of nerves.. lots of stuff was going though
my head at the time, but it doesn't
matter. What matters is that she's still
into me and wants to do it again, and
soon. I'd normally be ecstatic in this
situation, naturally, but I can't shake
this fear that the same thing will happen
again. That can't happen, my sex life is
at stake here. What can I do??
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joeitalian3
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Joined: 28 Sep 2007 Posts: 4
Ed? Posted: 09-28-07 23:24pm
at times men lose the ability to lose an
erection. this is normal. stress,anxiety,
all play into this. stay calm and focus.
this may not be the only time.
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marvel
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Posted: 09-29-07 00:38am
psychology is just as important when it
comes to sex as hormones are.
Have you tried talking to her about what
happened? She seems pretty interested if
she's willing to hook up again. You never
know... it might help.
