adrenalin
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What if a girl who sleeps around gets Pregnant...
Posted: 09-28-07 23:10pm
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If a guy gets a girl pregnant
accidently...what should he do? Run,
support, take the baby away or...?
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Ingi
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Posted: 09-29-07 10:33am
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If a guy gets ANY girl pregnant, he should
be responsible and take care of it.
If this guy slept with a 'promiscuous'
woman, it was still his choice to do it.
And he has to be responsible.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 09-29-07 15:42pm
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Yeah, you made an adult decision, now be a
man and step up to the plate.
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sexxybexxy
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Hi
Posted: 10-01-07 06:02am
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u are a man and it is time to be
responcable.
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adrenalin
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Posted: 10-03-07 03:48am
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well what if she has couple other guys
paying her elements?
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Ingi
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Re: ...
Posted: 10-03-07 08:03am
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| adrenalin
wrote: | | well what if she has couple
other guys paying her
elements? |
Then why did you sleep with her? I mean,
think about this. YOU (or theorectically
this guy, if you prefer) slept with
her. She was good enough to f*(k but she
isn't good enough for your support of the
child YOU gave her?
I understand, as the father, you are
pretty darn scared. But that is what
condoms are for. The decision you should
have made comes before the sex -
you don't get a choice afterwards.
Make sure the baby is yours and, yes,
support it.
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jessamyn
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Posted: 10-03-07 12:02pm
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I think ultimately the two of you should
sit down and discuss you options and be
open about your feelings towards the
situation. However if your adult enough to
have sex you better man up to a child. but
together as adults you can decide what is
the best route. Like my sons father signed
his rights over.
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Posted: 10-10-07 15:49pm
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Take the baby away? What?
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jessamyn
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Re: What If a Girl Who Sleeps Around Gets Pregnant...
Posted: 10-10-07 16:31pm
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| adrenalin
wrote: | | If a guy gets a girl
pregnant accidently...what should he do?
Run, support, take the baby away
or...? |
you made the adult decision to actively
have unproected or unconcious casual sex.
If the two of you decide to keep the
child. You need to come to an agreement.
Everyones situation is different. But
Running is nevvvver an option.
Being a deadbeat dad is the worst thing
you can do.
Come to a custody/child support agreement.
File it so neither of you can go agianst
your word and go from there.
A father would never be able to just take
the baby away from their maternal parent,
unless through court they proceed to find
the mother unfit, or she gives up her
rights.
WHich the father also has the capability
of doing.
My son's biological father signed over his
rights when my sonw as an infant.
Good luck in your decision.
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adrenalin
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Posted: 10-11-07 05:22am
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ok and what if i REALLY dont need a baby
in my life right now?
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Re: ...
Posted: 10-11-07 09:22am
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| adrenalin
wrote: | | ok and what if i REALLY dont
need a baby in my life right
now? |
Seriously? 
I really don't NEED a car payment or
mortgage. It's not an option. If I
couldn't handle the responsibility I
should have thought about that before I
bought my car or house or anything else.
You don't get a choice anymore. Your
choice was to wrap it up or not. You chose
the NOT option. Which means now you HAVE
to deal with the consequences of your
option.
Why don't I go rob a bank, then I will
tell the judge that I don't NEED prison
right now. I'm sure he will understand....
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jessamyn
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Re: ...
Posted: 10-11-07 09:37am
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| mc4ever02
wrote: | | adrenalin
wrote: | | ok and what if i REALLY dont
need a baby in my life right
now? |
Seriously?
I really don't NEED a car payment or
mortgage. It's not an option. If I
couldn't handle the responsibility I
should have thought about that before I
bought my car or house or anything else.
You don't get a choice anymore. Your
choice was to wrap it up or not. You chose
the NOT option. Which means now you HAVE
to deal with the consequences of your
option.
Why don't I go rob a bank, then I will
tell the judge that I don't NEED prison
right now. I'm sure he will
understand.... |
Very well said
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Ingi
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Re: ...
Posted: 10-11-07 09:58am
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| adrenalin
wrote: | | ok and what if i REALLY dont
need a baby in my life right
now? |
Are you serious?
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Re: ...
Posted: 10-11-07 22:01pm
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| Ingi
wrote: | | adrenalin
wrote: | | ok and what if i REALLY dont
need a baby in my life right
now? |
Are you
serious? |
I was thinking the same thing. You have no
choice, buddy. It's not just her fault.
It's yours, also.
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adrenalin
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Posted: 10-18-07 05:36am
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Its all her fault! I didnt have a condom,
and she told me that shes on birth
control, so we had a one night stand.
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Posted: 10-18-07 05:48am
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didn't you think about diseases? is she
'sleeps around' then who knows what you
might of caught.
get a dna test when the baby is born. if
it is yours- pay maintenece whether you
want to see it or not. that's the law and
the right thing to do
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Re: ...
Posted: 10-18-07 08:53am
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| adrenalin
wrote: | | Its all her fault! I didnt
have a condom, and she told me that shes
on birth control, so we had a one night
stand. |
someone should chop your penis off
seriously your freaking DUMB
if you didnt have a condom then freakin
whack it and dont shove your stuff where
it doesnt belong
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Re: ...
Posted: 10-18-07 09:09am
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| adrenalin
wrote: | | Its all her fault! I didnt
have a condom, and she told me that shes
on birth control, so we had a one night
stand. |
omg omg omg its alllll herrr fault boo
hoo...
Hun I do apologize for mocking you but its
ultimately your personal decision.. even
with her on BC there is always still a
CHANCE of getting pregnant.
No one forces you to get an erection and
sleep with a woman one night stand or
not.
ALSO it was your ADULT (mature or
immature) decision NOT to wear a condom
whether or not this ONE NIGHT STAND (you
trusted!) told you she was on BC or
not...
What about the common concern for Std's?
You obviously didnt consider that, why not
admit to not considering pregnancy either!
Even with her on BC you could still be
like no thanks, I'd still rather wear one.
But obviously at the moment getting off
was more important than the ultimate
outcome.
Some people only regret when an outcome
backfires...
Good luck in life!
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Posted: 10-18-07 09:32am
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Running is the worst thing!!!!
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Posted: 10-19-07 13:24pm
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how old are you? i "didnt REALLY need" a
baby in my life. but guess what i had my
son anyways. and his daddy is still there,
sure our time was a "one night stand" but
still. you do realise, people CAN lie, a
girl CAN be on BC dosnt mean she takes it
on time EVERYDAY. you do realise that,
that does make a differnce.
and just like all the other girls said,
STDs oh and dont forget the STI's too..
Get tested. Tell the docs your siduation.
See if we're not the only ones laughing in
your face.
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