Hurting While Masturbating - how to orgasm with clit ? Posted: 10-01-07 12:21pm
i can never seem to get an orgasm while
getting fingered only clit stimulation
works.. i have to fake to make my bf feel
he done something nice for me. is there
anything he can do to cause me to have an
orgasm with clit stimulation.. my g spot
is very insensitive :S
i havent had sex yet and am a bit scared
to for the fact that everything bigger
then a finger hurts like hell i cant even
get 2 fingers in without causing me pain.
I dont think i have my hymen and i am
relaxed when doing so. When getting
fingered the outside and sometimes the
inner bit at the front starts to hurt.. i
naturally lube but it still hurts.. also i
am not actually turned on i get ready and
i am but then i loose interest and just
lay there
any ideas why and how i can get more then
a finger up.. i feel like i have a very
very small vagina
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Marianne0558
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Posted: 10-01-07 12:23pm
Practice practice practice. Sex didn't
feel good for me until after the first
couple of times. It's going to hurt but
once you get over that, it's a wonderful
thing
I would try using KY or something in
addition to your natural lube. That could
help a little.
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Hybrid-rats
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Posted: 10-01-07 12:28pm
i have been masturbating for about 2 years
and still nothing seems to fit apart from
a finger sized thing :S i have tried
expanding in size only to find that the
bigger it gets the more it hurts and the
more it tightens to walls even though i am
fully relaxed.. i have tried different
positions but no hope i dont know what to
do... is there a way to expand my inner
walls
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-01-07 12:41pm
Masturbating will NOT make your vagina
opening any bigger.
You need to use a lot of lube! Dry fingers
are painful! Don't try putting in anything
bigger than a finger if it hurts. Stretch
using just one finger, while getting
clitoral stimulation.
Have you ever orgasmed from clitoral
stimulation? G-spot stimulation doesn't do
boo for most women so don't even worry
about it.
Also, the inner walls aren't your issue,
it's the entrance that causes pain. The
inside walls are ready to expand to the
size of a baby's head!
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Hybrid-rats
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Posted: 10-01-07 12:44pm
yes with clitoral.. what could i use a
lube.... i have vasaline is that helps
even sometimes is hurts with a finger with
clit stimulation helps alot
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-01-07 12:49pm
You should go buy a water-based lubricant
in a store. There is one common brand
called KY jelly.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-01-07 15:00pm
Try a lube, even if you get naturally
lubricated, you might not realize how much
better it is with extra lube. Never put
anything dry into a vagina.
And most women don't get anything from
g-spot stimulation. You should direct him
to spend his time fingering you by
stroking your clit in whatever way feels
best.
If relaxing and using lots of lube doesn't
help ease the pain when you try to enter
something into your vagina, you might need
to see a doc. Especially if you don't have
a hymen.
i dont know what to
do... is there a way to expand my inner
walls
