I Can Only Cum During Handjob Posted: 10-01-07 12:51pm
hi, i have a problem trying to cum via
oral sex and normal penetration. either
sex with hookers or one night stands.....i
always enjoy oral and vaginal sex, my
partners always enjoy as i always last for
a long tme...an average of 30 mins to an
hour till i am totally tired of the act ,
and then i need to mast or ask my partner
to give me a handjob , then i can cum by
that way....s there a problem with me?
does anybody have such problems?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-01-07 13:15pm
Have you ever had an actual girlfriend?
For you it may be an emotional block,
where you don't want to risk releasing
yourself inside of another person's body
whom you do not love.
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Speedzbmw
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Posted: 10-01-07 13:18pm
Eiri
wrote:
Have you ever had an actual
girlfriend? For you it may be an emotional
block, where you don't want to risk
releasing yourself inside of another
person's body whom you do not
love.
hi, i am married and have a wife, its
still the same. during my previous yrs of
relationships.....i cant cummed too
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Cambion
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Posted: 10-01-07 13:30pm
My BF has the same problem - he loves any
kind of sex and he can even outlast me,
but he can only climax through a handjob.
Then again, he requires a lot of attention
to reach that point, even via hands. Some
guys are just less sensitive than others
in that area of their body and require
more stimulation than others. I've been
with guys who would go off in less than a
minute, and others who absolutely would
not go off no matter what I did or how
long I did it for.
There's not a problem with you - you just
may not be as sensitive to touch down
there and I don't think it's unusual. Some
people are very ticklish, some not at all.
Some people can handle a lot of pain, some
can't handle any. We're all different, are
we not?
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Speedzbmw
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Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 22 Location: singapore
Hi Posted: 10-01-07 13:52pm
Cambion
wrote:
My BF has the same problem -
he loves any kind of sex and he can even
outlast me, but he can only climax through
a handjob. Then again, he requires a lot
of attention to reach that point, even via
hands. Some guys are just less sensitive
than others in that area of their body and
require more stimulation than others. I've
been with guys who would go off in less
than a minute, and others who absolutely
would not go off no matter what I did or
how long I did it for.
There's not a problem with you - you just
may not be as sensitive to touch down
there and I don't think it's unusual. Some
people are very ticklish, some not at all.
Some people can handle a lot of pain, some
can't handle any. We're all different, are
we not?
thanks for your reply, i thought i was
something wrong with me, well everythimg i
cum not through the normal procedures,
feel that the sex is not complete. my ex
even offered me anal, as it is much
tighter, but after that i still cant
cum.....its frustrating to be a marathon,
and torturing for not finishin the game at
the right places...
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marvel
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Posted: 10-01-07 14:17pm
Have you tried using toys during sex?
vibrating penis rings, etc. etc.? They
might help. You might just be less
sensitive than the average guy, so upping
the stimulation might help.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-01-07 15:19pm
Are you circumsized? Have you ever seen a
urologist about this problem?
